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It might be bad lighting. But he doesn't really look ginger to me. Plus where are the fire pubes? Gman

His screen name on the massage site has 'ftl' in it. I think I missed him. But I prefer a combined escort/massage session so he might not have been the one. But he is sure purty to look at. Gman

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There's a scene from the late 1980's comedy Cheers where Carla the barmaid's ex husband-a sleazy guy named Nick Tortelli-supposedly has this magic power over women. Diane the educated know-it-all, who is slumming as a barmaid, is repulsed by Nick. At the end of one episode, he motions to Diane and says he wants to whisper into her ear. She starts out skeptical, and then almost faints. I thought the scene was funny. But I had no experience to relate it to until almost 20 years later. And when I did finally have some experience and many times since, I've felt like Gman

My 1st experience with Fr Kissing occurred with my 1st experience of sex which occurred with my 1st experience of hiring an escort (I scored a hat trick. It was an afternoon of incredible firsts). I was 41 at the time. Before this I had thought the idea of French Kissing was gross. Boy when I'm wrong I'm wrong!!! In regards to 'tonsil raping'-I must confess that I am one of those guys who does like someone inserting their tongue into my mouth as far as it will go. However as with most good things, there are limits. I have a fairly easy gag reflex. (I've been known to gag at the dentist's office when they insert the film to take an x-ray. ). If an escort were to touch my (former) tonsillar area (I had my tonsils out at age 6) or past it, I would probably start gagging. In this case the limit is only theoretical, as apparently I've never been with any escorts possessing an extraordinarily long Gene Simmons-like tongue able to reach back that far. http://myths.answers.com/other/facts-and-myths-about-gene-simmons-tongue I've also never had an escort (or my few non escort encounters) had anyone try to transfer a large amount of their saliva into my mouth. That just sounds gross. I'm also not really fond of those porn scenes where they spit into each other's mouths (or anuses-but I'm not into rimming either). But we mustn't forget that kissing doesn't always need to be mouth-to-mouth. I also discovered during that long ago first escort experience that I loved having my neck and ears kissed, licked, and nibbled on. Prior to that I had no idea my neck and ears were erogenous zones for me. Gman

This has all been discussed long ago, Wolfer. But I agree with you. It's very hard for me to have sex without kissing. But there are posters (clients) right here in River City, errrr I mean this Forum, who aren't particularly 'into' kissing also because it does nothing for them. For me-I'm in the camp of it helping make me hard. I've passed up meeting some incredible looking escorts because they didn't kiss. One in the past was Jason Land. He was blond, muscular, all-American looks-one my favorite types of guys. http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_3GsDVD4bQfw/Rc1AOv1y1yI/AAAAAAAAAAw/JrwMLxRxEsc/s400/JA63Pumps.jpg Jason told me he didn't like to kiss. But I'm pretty sure he classified himself as gay. More recently I didn't meet with Trenton Ducati who while he kissed in his porn videos doesn't kiss clients while escorting. http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-LYOY2JrM_tI/VLQ9yInn5bI/AAAAAAAA7ss/JixRzIsVH8Y/s1600/trenton-ducati-2.jpg Even if the client is attractive, I doubt that kissing is going to lead to the escort falling in love with the client. And if the client likes the escort, he could probably fall in love whether they kiss or not. I'm sure there are multiple reasons for not kissing. In most cases unless the person isn't into kissing I'm sure it's a boundary issue. While having sex seems pretty intimate, most tallywackers and butts are fairly interchangeable. Yes, some will be longer, smaller, larger-but they don't give you the 'essence' of the person. Ahhh but the face, that's the external seat of personality. It's what makes you, you. Not kissing is a way for the escort to be less involved. I've heard of couples-escort/escort and escort/non-escort who reserve kissing as something special in their relationship that they don't share with clients. Gman

Isn't TimTales a bareback site? Gman

Make what word 'appreciably'? Gman

As I've often mentioned, I never seem to have a tape measure with me at the most opportune time. :DSomeone on here-possibly Jawjateck-has given an easy way to estimate length by using his (not too) clenched fist. But I never remember it. Gman

Azdr is right!!! I thought when you measured, you started from the base of the tallywacker. While he's 'big,' he's starting the measurement from his scrotum. In any case it's all pretty much academic for me. I like large tallywackers mainly from an aesthetic viewpoint. They are awfully 'purty' to look at. But I'm a top. I wouldn't even let a guy who was underendowed like me top me-much less a guy with one of these monsters. Gman

N2T4M-I think your rarefied experiences are coloring your viewpoint. For the majority of us, Tex is huge. If he's really 9 in., he almost is twice as long as I am. Gman

Was Gavin the guy who at one time had a white partner, and they escorted together? If so-I thought he had quit escorting for massage. I tried to get together with him once two or three years ago. But he told me he didn't escort anymore. There was a bodybuilder in NYC who advertised on and off for years although I don't think I've seen his ad for a year or two. He may have lived on Long Island-or maybe not. I was interested. But I don't think he had any reviews. Or if he did, none in a long time. Plus he never really changed his pictures for years, so I was a bit leery. I contacted him once to ask about the pictures. He replied back that he looked the same. So he didn't need to. Gman

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When did Sean retire? I saw his ad as recently as two or so months ago? Gman

Well yes, I've got multiple nieces and one nephew, so I've seen clamped cords. And I'll agree you are right about the clamping/cutting and about it not making a difference, funguy. But wouldn't you think that in an earlier epoch cords were most likely tied off and and then cut? Gman

Mike-do you have any ideas why Australian, UK, and Irish singers often (but not always) seem to lose their native accents while singing and sound more like Americans/Canadians? For example Olivia Newton-John in many of her songs I wouldn't say she sounds particularly Australian. Dusty Springfield-UK. Ronan Keating-Ireland. Keith Urban-Australia. Obviously not all-I could probably pick the Beatles as English. Helen Reddy maybe I could pick her out as Australian-etc. Gman

You might be right. But I guess we'd need some natural bodybuilders for comparison. Gman

Do you get a jolt from having it manipulated? Gman

I am belly button jolt free. Maybe I need some-- http://previewcf.turbosquid.com/Preview/2014/05/23__01_25_35/jolt.jpgDE9230AC-A8EB-44F7-9BD1F6715447D5BC.jpgLarger.jpg To spark a connection!! Gman

I have a potbelly, but I've always been an innie even when I was skinny ( some few years before The Flood if I'm remembering correctly. Yes, I'm antediluvian!!). Could it be we don't notice outies on us full-figured guys because our bellies roll over the button. Gman

So I notice that the Forum is filled with frivolous posts. And I wanted to drag it back-whether kicking and scream or not-to something serious. And that serious topic is BELLY BUTTONS!! I notice that a lot of muscular guys, especially bodybuilders, often have outies. I was wondering whether you had to be an outie to be a bodybuilder to begin with-maybe only outies have the proper genetics. Or I was wondering whether developing your abdominals caused the former innies to convert to outies. And I guess an outie might also be a sign you've developed a hernia from straining so much to lift heavy weights. But I'm not talking about humongous abdominal/umbilical hernias-just normal innies and outies. And finally if outies are due to developing your abdominals, and if you stop working out as much, do the outies revert back to innies? http://cbsnews1.cbsistatic.com/hub/i/r/2011/07/13/a7596496-a643-11e2-a3f0-029118418759/resize/640x360/d5183103a722252bd7a223dc1f6bbe5f/bellybuttonsurgery.jpg Gman

To make sure I understand - there's virtually no difference but enough of one that people who speak the 'standard,' I'm assuming people who use the 'Amsterdam' dialect can hear it? I remember my German TA in first year German. A lot of German words end in -ig. In her dialect they pronounce it as we do. Technically it should be more pronounced as -ich with the 'ch' being that hard, breathy German 'ch' and not our 'ch' in ch-imney. Funny story. There was a not too bright girl in my 1st year college German. I can't remember if she was in my second year or not. If this incident occurred in my second year class, it's even worse. Oh and if anyone is upset at me calling her a girl, I would also refer to the other males in the class as guys -so I have a tendency to not use the terms men and women for my college classmates. Anyway the girl was not too bright. But she actually had mentioned she was thinking of majoring in German. I used to cringe when I heard that because she wasn't very good. So one day in our lab class, the TA who was Swiss mentioned William Tell. This classmate of mine said, "Oh, I think I've heard of him. " I just stared. I mean I don't know what percentage of college students know about him today. But when I was a child watching reruns of Disney or Merrie Melodies Cartoons-wasn't William Tell a fairly common theme for them to make a joke of? I can almost picture a Bugs Bunny cartoon with him shooting an apple off of Elmer or Porky Pig. And then at home we had a book of children's stories which told about him. Gman PS. There were also some not very bright guys in my class. But I can't remember any particularly stories about them. The 'William Tell' incident has remained stuck in my memory because of how unbelievable I found it.

We say er too with the r drawn out usually. But it's more of a 'put on'. I mean when we say er, we deliberately say it and know we are saying it whereas umm is more of a natural, unconscious utterance. The umlaut u isn't really that hard. For all the German umlauts pretty much you make the sound as you might in English but you round up and purse your lips. The umlaut u-is kind of like saying ew but through rounded, pursed lips. With the umlaut a I'd say you pronounce a as in apple and round your mouth without much rounding of your lips. For the umlaut o, say o as in hope but round and purse your lips again like for the u. Gman

Does it help if you 'round' your mouth like you were puckering up for a big fake kiss while still trying to pronounce it as ou in ouch? Gman