DallasClient

Now that you mention this, I got the traffic thing too and had him hotel valet on my bill to help him defray that cost. Sounds like its a regular device he uses.

OK, I took the plunge last year. He is attractive but his face does have something minor going on, not sure if it was bad acne, scar, or what. It was minor. He was on the fem side and I find that off-putting in a sexual partner. He was sorta into it but as soon as it was over, like another guy said, it was pretty sterile and when I paid the rate, he said he should have been paid more as he was in traffic longer than he expected on his way over. Yes, the majority of his pictures are fake. Not sure why as he does have a nice body. I think the shot of him from behind is actually him or looks close. It's hard to tell with no face. I would never call him back over.

And if you DO want to engage in those sorts of things, be sure to spell those out to your escort in advance. No one likes surprises in this business.
 
Ditto to everything else he and others mentioned. Great advice on these forums.

I've only been doing this for a few years so maybe I've been lucky. I prefer to host at my home. I'm more comfortable here and out of probably 200, I've only sent away 3 or 4 and even then with $100 for their trouble.
 
I use my real name as well.
 
I won't say that it's the safest choice but it's what I choose to do.
 
My neighbors "know" that I "tutor" a lot of college students by the hour.

And if you DO want to engage in those sorts of things, be sure to spell those out to your escort in advance. No one likes surprises in this business.
 
Ditto to everything else he and others mentioned. Great advice on these forums.

I've only been doing this for a few years so maybe I've been lucky. I prefer to host at my home. I'm more comfortable here and out of probably 200, I've only sent away 3 or 4 and even then with $100 for their trouble.
 
I use my real name as well.
 
I won't say that it's the safest choice but it's what I choose to do.
 
My neighbors "know" that I "tutor" a lot of college students by the hour.

And if you DO want to engage in those sorts of things, be sure to spell those out to your escort in advance. No one likes surprises in this business.
 
Ditto to everything else he and others mentioned. Great advice on these forums.

I've only been doing this for a few years so maybe I've been lucky. I prefer to host at my home. I'm more comfortable here and out of probably 200, I've only sent away 3 or 4 and even then with $100 for their trouble.
 
I use my real name as well.
 
I won't say that it's the safest choice but it's what I choose to do.
 
My neighbors "know" that I "tutor" a lot of college students by the hour.

And if you DO want to engage in those sorts of things, be sure to spell those out to your escort in advance. No one likes surprises in this business.
 
Ditto to everything else he and others mentioned. Great advice on these forums.

Welcome, @final_impact. Here are my thoughts:
 

I use my real first name. I also use my cell phone number, although I am transitioning to a Google Voice number, mainly because after switching from an Apple MacBook Pro to an HP laptop I can't get texts on my laptop.

You need to do whatever makes you comfortable. In the past I used a fake name, but I'd usually slip up and use my actual first name at some point. It is just easier to use my actual name.

My very first hire was at my place. This was pre-Internet and I had absolutely no problems. Since then, I've hosted guys at my home, visited them in their homes, hosted at my own hotel room, and visited them at their hotel room. Again, you have to do what feels comfortable to you.

Some clients do, others don't. I typically do not tip, although I have bought small gifts for guys, such as some body products a guy liked and a gift card to a guy's favorite store. Both times were after a stellar session. Both were extremely grateful. One escort I hired fairly frequently once told me that at $250/hour he does not think tipping is appropriate because the rate is already high.

A couple of things are important, IMO:

Be clear with an escort about what you want. I usually say something like "Hey, [insert name of escort here] your ad caught my eye and I wanted to see if we are compatible. I'm into [describe what I like]. How does this sound to you? rvwnsd"
Be clear with yourself about your own personal limits. If there is something you don't want to engage in, don't let yourself get pressured into doing so. This includes PNP, bareback sex, dirty talk, BDSM, breath control, and rough play.
Be comfortable with walking away. If an escort says or does something that raises a red flag with you, walk away. It is OK.
Do not pre-pay. 'nuff said.
Use the Forum as a resource. If there's an escort who interests you, search for them or ask about them here on the Forum.
Use your own judgement. If you get a "funny feeling," politely decline to continue contact.

I've only been doing this for a few years so maybe I've been lucky. I prefer to host at my home. I'm more comfortable here and out of probably 200, I've only sent away 3 or 4 and even then with $100 for their trouble.
 
I use my real name as well.
 
I won't say that it's the safest choice but it's what I choose to do.
 
My neighbors "know" that I "tutor" a lot of college students by the hour.

I never understand "Bisexual" and position is "Bottom".

I never understand "Bisexual" and position is "Bottom".

That makes sense!
 
Thanks!

I see he's still a top only

I never understand "Bisexual" and position is "Bottom".

That makes sense!
 
Thanks!

I see he's still a top only

Handsome guy, at least from what I can see

He's a bit older than I usually go after but seems nice. Anyone have any experience with him?
 
https://rent.men/Caldub

I'll tell you what I really like is when a previous provider sends a sexy or cute picture in a text just to say hi and they're thinking of me. That's just good customer service and I appreciate it.

I'm really glad you had a great time with him!

I'm really glad you had a great time with him!

I'm really glad you had a great time with him!

Yup. 'Tis true. It's the gay ones that might end up with a broken heart. For those particular straight guys that enjoy taking it, it's just the getting off they enjoy.