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Have you ever seen as escort discriminate based on penis size?
+ SirBillybob replied to Constantine's topic in The Deli
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Still, the idea of a "controlled" prospective study is challenging. Randomized has been mentioned, but chaps interested in participating would already have been predisposed to douche or not douche based on preferential behavioral patterns. Douchers might grudgingingly agree to freestyle if scooped (against pre-established behaviour) into the residual-poop group but would possibly alter their receptive anal intercourse style. Also, when I started to try douching I did not like it and found it made no difference according to my needs and tolerances, so randomly imposing douching is fraught with complexity. Also, a point of clarification about double-blind. Assholes have eyes, so there would be no possibility of maintaining ignorance about the independent variable ... unless an anal douche is developed in suppository form with one a placebo version (here you may detect I am taking this to the ridiculous). The only possible visual impairment when I am getting royally shtooped is when my eyes roll back in my head or I am proverbially fucked blind. This discussion reminds me of the 1980's era when a mysterious syndrome emerged among queers and IVDU. Being gay was associated with thIs killer illness. Unique among gay men was a high preponderance of anal exposure to jizz. The 'retrospective' trends were enough to have me pause and alter my sexual behaviour. Others perhaps were sticklers about the disease manifestations and related presumed factors meeting all of the necessary and sufficient assumptions about causal directionality. Logically, I did not think that getting sick and dying made you a queer taking it up the arse. In contrast, without the need of a prospective design, I logically thought that being a queer taking it up the ass causally predicted morbidity and mortality. There may be 'just enough' evidence now about douching. Additionally, douching (or not) is non-stigmatized and either of them cannot be easily appropriated against us by the douche-y religious right in any way. Not douching also deflates pharma profit margins.
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I am thinking a prospective research design, whether randomized or douche option- selective, would be tricky because each subject douching would need to be pair-matched with a nondouching participant on several variables unequivocally predictive of STI. Douche methods and AI style alone are already variant. In addition, STI is a broad categorical variable. The incidence of an arbitrary quantity of non-specific STI over an arbitrary time frame may not reveal much. Also, since history (duration) of douche practices seems to be related to rectal lining vulnerability, matched pairing would be limited in this respect.
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I have seen more recent photos of this guy, depicting a more accurate representation and possibly higher age, compared to the ad pics. Though age 29 sounds about right. I found his IG profile and it is private, but google search brings up both some of the ad photos and less-in-shape photos. He is from or was based in Curitiba. The green eyes are genuine. I suggest before booking to ask for current images thru Whatsapp. He does seem to be bottom-heavy like a speedskater or cyclist. Less arm mass and tone. Anyway, you can simply google his escort name and access oodles of Brazilian escort sites where he has also added his IG name in some. This may be his first time out of country and on RM. Beyond endowment accuracy, the range of accessible images gives an idea.
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Lister actor(ress) is lead in Netflix series Dr Foster, worth a peak as well. Anne/Jack's paternal spinster aunt, sister of her father (the old dude there) is the older woman at Shibden. The mother is dead. Anne/Jack had years before obtained co-ownership from her paternal uncle and this aunt (his sibling), the idea being that she would inherit fully. Her father (a third sibling in the older generation) and sister resided there without ownership claim.
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... find it easy not to be maudlin when don't make it to the top.
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I need a roofer with enough stamina to bang all day on top of me.
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He posted a workout in Toronto yesterday. Since he did some modelling work in USA a while back, possible explanation is he did not honour the required visa category or duration.
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I use words that exist in newspapers, mainstream magazines, etc. Surprisingly, perhaps, such publications also draw on vocabulary found in more academic material. My one misstep was thinking you might look up What You See Is All There Is, as I used the acronym form. Various impressions of the escort's character emerged from differences in initial encounters describing him and/or interaction with him. I was making a point about staying centered and objective in the face of polarized views. You are helping to make my point about bias. You likely have an impression about me that you might go to great lengths to defend. Your contribution may shape and reinforce others' impressions if they share your preferences for styles of written expression. It can be a struggle to roll back a point of view. I already admitted that I had a positive biased impression of this chap, but then two opposing descriptions of the escort demanded some mental work about choice. I do not proclaim to have particular skills in avoiding the tendency of bias myself. I think that the intense way in which you expressed disapproval reflects a need to gain approval in some way. I know I like acceptance myself. (This is universal, not a jibe attempt.) Illhelpya was evidently not attempting to start a war in which sides need to be taken. Discussing the dynamics of conflict in perspective is typically going to involve going deeper into ideas, at the risk of drawing on more complex language. Otherwise, it might end up a polarized fight to the death concerning whether the guy is A-list or A-hole. Failing to recognize blind spots, not acknowledging that what you see is not all there is, is the basis of most problems. I find this to be an uphill battle myself. I actually do, fairly quickly, make good enough judgements about hire choices. I think my own take on a guy is pretty independent of what might be predicted based on others' experience. Nevertheless, there is some comfort in accessing the 'skinny' on a prospect. I consider many factors but do not usually get tripped up weighing them. I suspect this holds true for all of us here.
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+ SirBillybob replied to Mocha's topic in The Lounge
The best ad messages are believable, legible in font type size and saturation, do not use complex language when simple is adequate, memorable (eg, ideas in verse, such as simple rhyme, are taken as more credible and insightful), name the product easy to pronounce (attention to logical correct upper/lower case; no symbols, only letters and numbers but only where digits create an associative response in memory !), with possible consideration to priming consumer action. Moreover, maybe contain partial ripoff components of other popular brand names in associative recall.. HiramHung123Go ... just an example, likely too long and silly. This is very impromptu. But Hiram is boozy denoting mellow, conveys anchored position 'here I am', whisky is macho, HH is alliterative, Hung primes Hunk associativeness, the starting pistol is athletic phallic charged explosive and alerts to temporal expediency while priming action over complacency. Hiram holds as legit abbreviation and some readers connect it to Walker, George to curious, Sam to Yosemite, Steven to even ... most conventional names evoke association, so make it a good one. Do not do what some cruel parents do, use a name that is more befitting a beloved pet, unless you want to deliberately create a milder meeker persona. Effort is aversive to consumers. Adding the complexity of a Russian Doll approach to layers of information is not enticing. It undermines the advantage of speed, clarity, conciseness, and a balanced judicious degree of embellishment. Giving directions and cues to the task of reading attention? "What now ... proof is needed that the first stage of content is true?" is the readers intuitive response. Do not make him need to identify with any complex justification, including the idea that a reserved private compartment of viewing offers more titillation. It rings defensive and overdone, like if I did not hook you at hello let me give you the real deal that I failed to demonstrate at the get go. In other words, use my posts as an example of what not to do in devising a grabby ad. The idea of imposing on the viewer extra steps to access a secondary cache of ad content is preposterous. Save that for direct communication or undressing later. -
Grain of salt, me too. For everything, as suggested. The WYSIATI bias applies to all of us. I am reluctant to discredit somebody's good experience, in spite of individual impression. I was primed to admire this Brasileiro long ago based on photos, so a good report is easier to integrate. The two competing narratives create dissonance and conflict, but are not logically incompatible. The bar is understandably set higher in evidentiary terms for validating shadiness.
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Yes, I can confirm that the two run in the same 'woof'-pack of about a half dozen Colombianos and are training together, perhaps sharing accommodations as well. I think he is cuter than 'Alejo' who is a slightly bulkier tractor. 'Davis' is a few inches taller. Question is: what can happen if they are new at this? Likely all pulling in cash to support their physique goals. Too bad an upcoming visit to NYC is not in the cards for me. These guys are top of their class in competition. BTW, I am just confirming their association. I don't release private details ... it's a matter of principle, neither here nor via PM. Some of us are always going to have more info played close to our chest.
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Yes, I can confirm that the two run in the same 'woof'-pack of about a half dozen Colombianos and are training together, perhaps sharing accommodations as well. I think he is cuter than 'Alejo' who is a slightly bulkier tractor. 'Davis' is a few inches taller. Question is: what can happen if they are new at this? Likely all pulling in cash to support their physique goals. Too bad an upcoming visit to NYC is not in the cards for me. These guys are top of their class in competition. BTW, I am just confirming their association. I don't release private details ... it's a matter of principle, neither here nor via PM. Some of us are always going to have more info played close to our chest.
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Looking for new ways to cut down on the nonsense...
+ SirBillybob replied to Mocha's topic in Questions About Hiring
One ring-dingy ... we need an Ernestine type to do a skit on this. Yes, he's been a bottom since his high school production of Midsummer Night's Dream [snort]. No, he does not accept cheques but he is one [snort]. -
Looking for new ways to cut down on the nonsense...
+ SirBillybob replied to Mocha's topic in Questions About Hiring
One ring-dingy ... we need an Ernestine type to do a skit on this. Yes, he's been a bottom since his high school production of Midsummer Night's Dream [snort]. No, he does not accept cheques but he is one [snort]. -
Passportindex.org does it by rank. UAE, Luxembourg, Finland, Germany, ... Iraq, Afghanistan.
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Passportindex.org does it by rank. UAE, Luxembourg, Finland, Germany, ... Iraq, Afghanistan.
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I wonder if sustained holds, in contrast to those in conventional sport aimed at a rapid conclusion, are simply more taxing and depleting for the provider than we might acknowledge. The contract:expand time ratio is different. The energy for a fast choke-out may be less than the energy for a slower, regulated, pre-asphyx hold. The graph may not be straightline. Elapsed time may elevate consumption curvilinearly. Mental energy (the cognitive processing alertness grade assuring safety while satisfying a unique request on which kink arousal is predicated) also competes for the same effort pool as physical energy. This is empirically proven, that the components of expenditure trend to zero-sum. Another Example ... Do alternate-side bilateral standing dumbbell bicep curls at a set weight with arbitrary set reps (left, right, left ... ). Then when rested or at the same baseline energy pool, do unilateral curls, flexing and releasing the same number of reps one side while holding the opposite arm flexed at 90 degrees holding the same weight stationary, then change sides and do the same. Identical weight and number of reps for each arm in the two models, but a different experience of strain and energy expenditure. And not the same net work as the first sequence. The non-rep arm is stationary for a time at the mid- point juncture of movement, while not sharing the same work simultaneously. Also requires more mental attention. The rep work sustain, plus the added mental energy to attentively hold a second physical task stationary perpendicularly, compete differently for available resources compared to the first sequence. My trainer used to have me do bosu-ball push-ups for a duration versus holding a mid-range position. Naturally my body started involuntary trembling far sooner in the latter.
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+ SirBillybob replied to Mocha's topic in The Lounge
PS: Do the ad platforms prohibit your inclusion of a justforfans handle in your basic ad? Or can you privately send inquirers same, setting a low pricepoint? I believe it is easy for mongers to confine purchase to one month for each individual provider. How pimpy is justforfans in their cut? How viable might it be to level out profit? -
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+ SirBillybob replied to Mocha's topic in The Lounge
Are not all ad platforms postmodern promotional pimps, grinning never smiling? Getting as much cut as possible? Holding registered mongers' personal details? Distancing from deal fallthroughs and offsetting providers' drought by casting the net to entice new added inventory? Ensuring enough pimp role sustainability, indirectly or directly penalizing workers, to adapt to profit ebb and flow? Is pimping not the second oldest profession, with solidly anchored unalterable dynamics? [baby you know I love you, use you, and my job is to convince you I am the only choice.] I am not miserly when I hire, and maybe pimps are sometimes necessary evil to that end (I spring for purchase via ad platforms less than 1% of trade), but no platform pimp will see a red cent from me. If that spills over punitively, sorry about that, but I cannot mitigate entrenched systemic ills and I waive ownership for flaky consumer wavering. I realize there are very limited options, but if you want to have a broker with a conscience like in some other professions, don't have a MacDaddy helping to push your meat. Perhaps SESTA, certainly misguided overall, conceptually got it a teeny bit right and has underpinned the heft of related legislation with this inarguable reality. -
I spent lunch and a full Sunday afternoon in Basel. It is a sin to visit Zürich and not try to sidetrip by 70 minutes train and see most of the main sights by foot.
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Is it okay to ask an escort for their instagram?
+ SirBillybob replied to Constantine's topic in Questions About Hiring
Ha ... I had better put a fire under it. In the blink of an eye dinner will be a 16:30 o'clock affair with evening liquids restricted due to overnight incontinence. -
One might base decisions on a number of factors. How much douchebag politicians can say with impunity, pandering to their base and getting press. Remember that Bolsonaro and Rio mayor Crivella are generally thumbs down on any diversity and are happy to deflect from the realities of actually serious out-of-control social problems. Re: orientation and transgender, 15% of the general population lacks acceptance for a defined 10% of the general population. This performance record still outranks American attitudes in favour of LGBTQ Preponderance of violent hate crimes committed on LGBTQ nationals. Terrible performance record, as is the alarming overall national homicide rate. Decriminalization of sodomy. Done and dusted. Not so in some other countries. Professional regulatory licensing bodies. They have a very dim and intolerant view of pathologizing sexual diversity, and shit-for-brain therapists are shunned. Socioeconomic status of the homosexual minority. More represented in the top tiers of wealth, consumer privilege, and quality of life compared to hetero. Societal and legal advances since 1980 favouring acceptance and rights protection. Less than Europe, a little less than Canada and Australia, on par with Latin America, better than USA. How much a country is already stereotyped as a gay tourism mecca. Brazil in top 10? Top 3? Likely gets under the skin of local evangelicalism, homonegative fundamentalism. The perception of gay-magnetizing likely amplified by absolute numbers outside of statistical reality, for example breadth of Pride attendance, as well as the relaxation of self-presentation towards fluidity in all forms of identity during Carnaval madness. How much a country wants to inflate overall tourism and taking measures for same. Muchly. How much vitriolic hatred and disapproval that is front of mind within the individual and directed to select soccer players and teams compared to other minorities. What repeat visitors say ... Personally, I am not gifted with foreign language skills but that does not pose an impediment for me when in Brazil. I worry most, like anyone there, about being robbed, though I have not been targetted over many trips. As a gay sex tourist, being defined as "other" by straight trade who are able to suspend their anxiety and differentiate their MSM behaviour as more performative than self-defining viz orientation, actually works out fairly well. The complex balance of easy cash access and financial expediency, as well as the capacity they possess to distance their motives from mine because of the very compartmentalization of orientation that otherwise potentially yields discrimination paradoxically works for some of us. To equalize socioeconomic status they draw selectively on the collective psyche to help create a narrative that mitigates the negative implications involved in prostituting themselves. It is a complex phenomenon to explain, but I think that the ability to reconcile commercial sex with conventional heterosexual roles is somewhat more uniquely advanced for these men. Muscle worship is a foreign concept; it is a point of pride to top johns skillfully and impressively. Simply put, my impression is that gay-for-pay there is more easily integrated into what is occupationally viable. Mind you, it may be absolute numbers, as in other examples. A vast population may statistically better sustain the existence of a miniscule minority that nevertheless exceeds the actual inventory of other destinations. Not to mention that a small proportion of men can sustain physiological arousal out of synch with subjective sexual cue preference. The appeal of travel to a densely populated place, with sex trade infrastructure capturing the trickle-down effects of variables supporting sex play experiences in line with my self-serving fantasies, is always going to far override the transient mouthing off of a temporarily tenured blowhard.
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