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SirBillybob

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  1. Access to private gallery means premium membership, I presume? Does that mean the provider can detect each lurker's footprint and has a way to contact lurkers in order to field interest in an appointment?
  2. LMAO ... my favourite repeat escort from the time period that movie was made over 10 years ago was an extra in it, along with a few of his gym friends!
  3. On Rentmen it seems to be 200 outcall ... using Balder_Salazar handle. One review is in São Paulo where I doubt the fee in reais was greater than 50-60 GBP. Cute though. Guys just as hot in escort saunas there are 25-30 pounds.
  4. Not having something because it does not exist or you are not aware of its potential existence is far easier than having something but then losing it. A potential monger reaching out to your services may create the illusion of you aready having something of value in that exchange, that is, a meaningful slice of the financial gain that your work is about. Game theory, experience theory, and decision theory all come in to this. It seems that you are labouring extremely hard to avoid losing something, at the client's window-shopping level, as if that were similar to having fee payment denied or stolen from you after the work is done. In other words, both you and the equivocating, vacillating, inquiring, 'flaky' client are playing not to lose something of perceived value, as if those utilities were identical. The objective $ is identical but its position is different. Compared to how other businesses run, it is somewhat astonishing and impressive how much time CSWs invest in client recruitment dynamics at a time-succubus on-call or personal level. From hours on a street corner or biding time in a brothel (more historical examples) to shitloads of written communication with mongers. Once a monger reaches out, his anxiety about losing something of value that he already possesses often escalates and overrides the anticipation of winning a pleasurable experience that is commensurate with the accompanying financial loss. Providers often get caught up in this. Be organized. You must know by now all of the collective monger questions. Do up a fact sheet, manual, or Q&A format info guide to expeditiously shoot off to an inquiring monger. This written summary will be longer than your ad and require more of the monger's attention span. It will not alleviate his stop-loss anxiety and will lack the personal touch and the possible thrill for him of a free window-shopping exchange. However, let it go and do not engage further with repetition. This may help amplify his opposing anxiety about not winning a pleasurable experience. He will have all of the info you are willng to provide and he alone will grapple with the worry of loss. Mirroring/replicating his loss anxiety will not add one iota of gain to the likelihood of scoring a paid booking. You may decide on an arbitrary set of images to append to the written guide. Consider learning something more about how memory and actual experience impact theoretically on a monger's future decisions about hiring. This will require research on your part. If you can subtly reference these aspects in your summary manual, that is, identify clients' struggles with stop-loss play choices, it may give you an edge. Adding the utility of empathy to the utilities of money and orgasm. In my non-entertainment business prior to retirement, the above strategies freed up my time. It was impossible to assess its impact on client recruitment volume but it alleviated the anxiety about spending valuable non-compensated time or psychological energy closing the tiresome deal.
  5. Porn or escort guys cuz you want to communicate, ArVa? Or general eye candy not in sex entertainment, soley for your viewing pleasure? Any reference group preferences? For example, I tend to follow Latin Amer fitness guys who actually reside south of the Mexico/Guatemala border. I try to keep it to a 100 max at a time. They usually have tens of thousands followers and do not follow me back. My account, however, is private because it is pretty obvious that I go for gogo men, strippers, etc who might be willing to tap into my capacitative wallet. I have a generic IG account but still worry that family/friends will "trip into" the private account thru other social media entry points. I have personal images in the private account because if I reach out for flirting purposes I want the target to see my age, looks, and shape status. Still working on how to present myself. I travel south and can meet up. I am older >60, solvent, and pay for play. Maybe I should remove my own images from the worship and sex-focused account so that there is no verification that it is me, make the account public, and just send personal pics via flirty IG message option to guys in sexy stage entertainment, etc ... do they do private shows, etc?
  6. It seems that currently the stripper scene in CDMX is very meagre, sadly, given the city's size, and no setup for private dances within the venue. I did have some private at either Botas or BB two years ago, the one on Niza, east border Zona Rosa, cannot remember which of these two now extinct clubs. But it was complicated and the house was very involved in wanting a cut. I would visit regularly and throw wads of cash around if there were clubs with hot muscular gogo guys available in private cubicles. In contrast, there is a system for private dances in Puerto Vallarta ... I have experienced at Wet but did not connect with any at Anthropology. I think it was 500 pesos for 15-20 minutes, timed by the clock, not per song. Private dances are not synched with stage show song tracks like in Toronto/Montreal. For fun, check out the Mexican troupe called Badboystour, formerly Zuppaboys, eg on Instagram, a sort of Latino Magic Mike Revue. I don't know if they they get a lot of bookings. If you have pots of money to burn, hahaha. One of them has an interesting story line, of which some of you may be aware.
  7. Alejo/Hamptonn ... new neck tattoo about a month ago. I know him from Insta, major player competitor South Amer, last contest 2 months ago. Interestingly, his Insta first name and contest name are not the same, but it is definitely the same guy, because his placement rank, related Insta content, and official contest pics all line up. He has since packed on some off-season bulk. Freakin' hot. JO material. When I go to Colombia I will see if he is available (his current plans NYC and Dallas). Good to know his status here because he also may have buddies in Colombia who 'get down' for worship.
  8. I am not too familiar because my gym is in my building, for owners. But I would think any in or near the village are populated by gay men. Or maybe the monthly 'zine Fugues has some ads ... I read the paper version but it is also online. The chain Econofitness is big here. ProGym for IFBB, Musclemania, etc, eye candy, and if you don't mind the possibility of feeling inferior, but not cruising. In the east end but walkable to the Metro stn there.
  9. I live in Montreal. Campus, and to some extent Stock, "crashed" some 12 years ago when dance prices doubled from $10 to 20 per song and a concomitant stock market correction further thinned the crowds. Otherwise, I think both are consistent, with mild ups and downs. Perhaps infrequent attenders have a different comparison basis if hitting 'up' versus 'down' days on extensively spread-out visits. Actually, I find that Campus has declined a little more the past few years and I am much more inclined to take a private at Stock.
  10. The pedestrian-only section of the Village commenced May 3rd last year, so likely early May this year. This is the final year of the rainbow plastic-ball canopy. I would say May and June similar. By 9PM most of the strippers have arrived for the 9-3 shift. I only go to Campus and Stock, not Taboo.
  11. The taxi services at the airports in SP and Rio are accustomed to dealing with foreigners and offer flat rate vouchers priced according to your hotel zone. So you do not have to deal with paying driver, who will simply accept the receipt that you will have had the option to pay by credit card at the taxi service desk. By about my second visit I was negotiating down the taxi flat rate and by third visit using Über exclusively. You do need to be comfortable texting the driver within the app, involving copying and pasting brief translations, but usually only about 10% of the time. Über rates by distance are about 25-35% the cost in North America. Before any grasp of Portuguese, I had no difficulty arranging sessions with for-pay guys at the various sex trade sauna/bar establishments. Many hotels offer to accept pre-payment for the trip back to airport, or the doorman will help you arrange a flat cash rate with a hailed cab. Both cities have high-functioning Metro underground systems at about 1USD per fare, actually easier IMHO than NYC. I have spent months in Rio and never had the need to go anywhere that was not accessible to a Metro station. Much less time in SP but usually use Metro. I have used Über satisfactorily in Fortaleza, Salvador, Belo Horizonte, and Porto Alegre.
  12. Scheuble was perfect and I found the room rate to be very reasonable. The breakfast was extra and extremely expensive, though top-notch and bottomless, but I only had it once because I eat very light in the morning and customarily had coffee in the room and grabbed something simple from the Minagro Express three doors down (adjacent to Paragonya). All main sights were walkable.
  13. It's not animal husbandry, but I always like at least one shot somewhat depicting the state of a pricey guy's teeth.
  14. He occasionally pops into Sauna Adan for some cash, at least when I was in Madrid last Spring. He really turned my head when he walked into the lockerroom. His background origins are not the Iberian peninsula. The ad pics are all him. I would say he is at least an inch more in height. He was somewhat mechanical, but an efficient top and got the job done. I was not looking for romance. I really got off on his beautiful body and fantasized about a scene related to his identified athletic background. His skin is perfection. For the standard 50€ rate, I was not about to whine after cumming with this handsome guy. The sparse reviews sound fake. I would have pursued second helpings if I had been there longer.
  15. Yes, I have. I have been going to Campus since 1997. I will occasionally pop in for a drink on a Saturday or Sunday afternoon after buying some panties at Priape. Your assessment is not off, except very very rarely does a dancer straddle both shifts (ha, you may want an evening one straddling your stick shift, though). I cannot count on one unsticky hand the number of privates I have bought before sundown. If you are anxious that you might miss the stripper of your dreams, I suggest you roll in at 20:00, the tail end of the early roster, for an hour prior to the night roster. Put the saved admission fee towards half a beer. Mind you, I only hit about 5% my type even evenings.
  16. I just learned AM left the DR in 2010 and tried to have someone take over the blog, so no big surprise. Well, I also just learned that studying Latin for 5 years of secondary school in my country was a waste of time. You use it or lose it. In the 3rd year, they finally introduced Spanish as an option. Shoulda switched.
  17. Thread belly-up dead in the Caribbean water? Anyone know why the recommended blog by Anthony Montgomery (monaga.net) is all in Latin, seemingly the same words in each post?
  18. It is actually often easier for the dancer to approach a multiple than an individual. The implication is more initially sociable in the former but a hustle in the latter. I am not saying that is how it should be interpreted, but strip club dynamics are not the norm. A busy group is easier to walk away from because they have the pretext of being engaged while an effort to be friendly is simply the dancer's agenda. A subtle rebuff from an approached individual, albeit the dancer fulfilling the welcome-wagon role, can be more uncomfortable on both sides. Among the few interpretations is that the customer is penniless or does not think the dancer is the right type = hot. Obviously, dancers require thickness in skins.
  19. All businesses have overhead. The average US inflation rate over past 10 years is 1.67% per year. That is reflected in income resources, COL, and purchase power. Should be a regular compass for a status quo service. I don't give a shit where they live. So charge me $5 more than last year, and so on. I have $5 more to spare. For a regular provider, that is a good deal considering the mileage racking up following the first drive off the lot. Typically, these guys do not age like a fine wine. But this aspect is provider-specific according to longevity of contract with client ... the 'within' variable. My latest long-term earned the same over 5 years though my income inflated 12%. It was actually very generous at the get go. In contrast, the 'between-provider' variable is impossible to reconcile. It is not as if there is one communist-era make and model on the lot. How can one price-set with so many factors at play, not the least of which is that the top-level inventory resides a flight away at 15-25% the US cost for play date?
  20. Hot straight guys like him in Brazil are plentiful and run 35-50 USD. I am quick to tell them they should charge more for services to northerners, Europeans, etc. Pleasant, but their amazing perfomative arousal, though at times emotionally distant (they are drawing on fantasies that are usually unrelated to clients), is a big draw for some of us. They often have to concentrate heavily while trying not to come across as detached. Outside of the act itself, there is often a relaxed engaging charm. Can be addictive. It is interesting to view their actual hetero lives in social media. The ease with which they shift between roles is in itself impressive. This guy, based on looks, would make my longlist but not likely my shortlist in one of the sex trade establishments. I am up to about 50 different guys over 4 years ... lost count.
  21. I had heard it was unpredictable but I went a few times in late Spring last year and met some dreamy Czechs (a 1st for me) and hunky Brazilians (I visit Brazil frequently). I prefer muscular model types; I am very picky about looks ... I do not get horny and seek general satisfaction; the sight of a guy has to strike me first. I am not sure I would have a repeat of the same good fortune. It was a bonus considering I loved the sights in Zürich and Basel. I am lazy, a big skeptic about photo ads, and would not have pursued URL-site-based escorts but there were a few nice ones 'on paper'.
  22. From their photos and from my memory I do believe smoking is allowed/tolerated at the bar on the first level. It is not sealed off. There are apparently ban bylaws in Zürich but I think some establishments get around it by having a designated smoking area or by arguing that they have a non-smoking area. Technically, PWSpa likely has a 90% non-smoking area but some 2nd-hand smoke may circulate. There is no outdoor zone. If it is a deal-breaker you should email them for a clear answer. But wording is everything since they may not want to to have a digital tracer indicating they are in violation. Remember they also have a sign forbidding commercial sex trade because they do not have the required Swiss license for prostitution services. Smoking may be similarly 'don't ask, don't tell'.
  23. SirBillybob

    Madrid

    Sorry, I now realize the Europe forum is trade-specific.
  24. SirBillybob

    Madrid

    I only had time within a short week last year to try out Sauna Adan, a bathouse brothel. Very hit-and-miss compared to Sauna Thermas in Barcelona where there is much more choice. Your question is cryptic. Can someone tell me (I am new) if posters are generally inquiring about escorts on this, the Euro section? If you are asking about trade vs unpaid hookups, and you want site info, make sure you check out telechapero and morbototal for more selection beyond Hunqz and Rentmen. I had minimal time for apps but found a fantastic Mexican physique model for pay on Grindr; he was visiting. Otherwise there were not too many profiles. He was not overtly advertising. The playbook is to make a compliment and have them subsequently imply they are trade, or also have some hints in your own profile.
  25. I think 350 is reasonable for this quality in NYC for a regular-length session. You have probably heard it before, but for 5,000 you can fly to Rio for a week (likely premium fare), stay in top-end accommodations, and have as hot a guy each night for an overnight. 500/hour when I am unconscious asleep?
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