Bluefin

Reading through your whole post, I don't see anyplace where you stopped him.....or told him that was not what you wanted. Like you said " "He basically controlled the session and took it where he wanted it to go." And you did not stop him, or tell him this was not what you wanted, and that you wanted more massage and less action. You just went along with what he was doing. The fact is, this was YOUR session....not his. As clients we can't act like victims when masseurs lead us astray from what we want, and blame it all on them. It is up to US to speak up, which you did not do in your session. In the future if this happens, speak up. As clients, we end up in situations like this, frustrated and unhappy, if we don't communicate with the masseur, whether it is before or during the massage. Speak up next time.

Tell them before the massage how you would like it to play out. Legit massage x minutes and then proceed to sensual/erotic. They can't read your mind. Maybe his other clients go right for the erotic part and he thinks everyone wants that. Communication might sound clinical but it might make you happier at the end.

Whatever you are into. I like a 2 hr. massage session. I come for the massage, and the HE is just icing on the cake. But there is a client population that likes a quickie. They are super horny, and are really just there for the HE.....and waiting through 50 minutes of massage to get what they really came for is frustrating. So they book the 30 minutes , save the cash, and get to the good stuff much quicker. Great fit for them.

30 minute massages work for some short on time or money. It's actually a good way to get the feel for a new masseur you're thinking of using. Most times you can extend the time once you are there or just do the 30 minutes and know you don't want to use that masseur without spending the 60 or 90 minute charge.

I think 60 min is too short. I personally wouldn’t bother for 30 min.

I think 60 min is too short. I personally wouldn’t bother for 30 min.

I think 60 min is too short. I personally wouldn’t bother for 30 min.

I think 60 min is too short. I personally wouldn’t bother for 30 min.

Generally I wish people would just put a city name in the title of their post. Would make navigating and searching so much easier.

So many posts with absolutely nothing to say!

http://media4.forestparkreview.com/Images/2/2/56606/2/1/2_2_56606_2_1_690x520.jpg
 
I thought the OP meant a grocery market.

Here’s an excellent example of NYC provincialism: Believing America’s best sushi is found in NYC. :confused:
 
(Hint: Think HI, WA, CA)

Generally I wish people would just put a city name in the title of their post. Would make navigating and searching so much easier.

Generally I wish people would just put a city name in the title of their post. Would make navigating and searching so much easier.

Yes he has an ad on both.

Highly recommend. Great experience.

I'm way more likely to look at threads where it's obviously stated where the masseur lives. Anyway, would be helpful!! thanks!!!

Fine to ask, but I think it'll be about as effective as the signs in the office kitchen about making another pot of coffee when you take the last cup.

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/good-asian-masseurs-in-san-francisco.138735/

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/good-asian-masseurs-in-san-francisco.138735/

I had a session with Takashi too--had an absolutely great time. He may very well be my new go-to guy. The massage itself was great. I wasn't looking for anything overtly sexual, so his style was perfect for me. He also has a stunning body--worked out chest, lean abs.

I just had my second massage with Takashi today. He’s polite and sweet, and gives a helluva massage! And, the pics on RentMasseur are absolutely him. I stared at them after seeing these threads, and I do not understand the confusion. He’s HOT, and was very enthusiastic about pleasing me. There are a few good Massuers I have seen in SF - but Takashi is the total package. Cannot WAIT to go back!

With all due respect, I have met him and I know that is him. I even asked him about it and jokingly stared at him to make sure it was him as I did question him about it in the beginning. I joked with him I would run away if it was not him as I got there before he got home so I was waiting in front of his apartment when he got home a few minutes later.
 
But nonetheless, the guy I met had a very nice body and a handsome so I was not at all disappointed.

Personally, it looks like he just got out of a Psychiatric facility.

Agreed. They should SLOWLY build to the HE from the beginning.