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I'll file this as "sort of unexpected after the first time"...
 
I got a recommendation from a fellow forum member on a guy who used to be at a local spa that caters mostly to guys and has a male massage team (located in one of the city's gay neighborhoods), but is a legit spa. My friend heard that masseur that he had some action with, but was likely a very YMMV situation, was somewhere out in the burbs now, so since I'm in the burbs, I decided to investigate. I found the masseur at a normal spa (hair, nails, etc) not too far off the path between home and work. Booked an appointment, and the first massage was a solid technical massage, with not even a hint of anything more. Although when I was saying good by, I glanced down and spotted a pretty decent bulge on the guy, and he may have noticed!
 
A month went by, and my shoulder/back were pretty sore and tight, so decided to go back in, expecting just a good massage. First half was pretty normal has he hit my back and legs, maybe a little more glute work that the first meeting. but as he started to work up to my shoulder again, his leg was definitely pressed against me arm, that was hanging to the side. As he sort of worked around the top of the table to my other shoulder, I felt him press against my other arm, and it definitely wasn't his leg I felt. I have to admit, I was excited, but also pretty nervous in the setting. My heart was pounding as it all sort of started to register.
 
He kept the (good) massage going working my shoulders and back, but now his hands were sliding under the draping to my ass cheeks frequently until his hands were sliding right into my crack and against my hole. As he was transitioning down to my legs, I felt him take the sheet from my feet and slide it down the length of me so i was totally undraping. The feeling of that sheet sliding down me was so hot. from there, he continued to do leg work, sliding up to my ass. At one point, he positioned one leg so the sole of my foot was against the opposite knee, sort of a 4 shape. from there, he had clear access to my balls and ass, even sliding under to my rock hard dick. He did that routine on both sides, really giving a full massage that had become extremely erotic. Just as I thought he was wrapping up my legs, I felt him bury his scruffy face between my cheeks. He rimmed me like a champ, and you can tell he loves doing it. Finally he said, "let's flip you over."
 
I did, naked and rock hard, obviously. He was too...at some point he had slid out of his clothes! Handsome, hairy guy...not a muscle bod by any stretch, more of an everyday build (but I dig the guy next door vibe more). From there, he massaged my legs a bit more, stroking my cock and eventually leaning over and sucking it. I eventually busted a huge load, and then reached over and stroked his dick until he shot a hot load, first clear across the table (and me), and the rest all over my chest.
 
I saw him a few more times before lockdown. He's left that spa, but my eyes are definitely open to see where he pops back up when we're all through this!

I'll file this as "sort of unexpected after the first time"...
 
I got a recommendation from a fellow forum member on a guy who used to be at a local spa that caters mostly to guys and has a male massage team (located in one of the city's gay neighborhoods), but is a legit spa. My friend heard that masseur that he had some action with, but was likely a very YMMV situation, was somewhere out in the burbs now, so since I'm in the burbs, I decided to investigate. I found the masseur at a normal spa (hair, nails, etc) not too far off the path between home and work. Booked an appointment, and the first massage was a solid technical massage, with not even a hint of anything more. Although when I was saying good by, I glanced down and spotted a pretty decent bulge on the guy, and he may have noticed!
 
A month went by, and my shoulder/back were pretty sore and tight, so decided to go back in, expecting just a good massage. First half was pretty normal has he hit my back and legs, maybe a little more glute work that the first meeting. but as he started to work up to my shoulder again, his leg was definitely pressed against me arm, that was hanging to the side. As he sort of worked around the top of the table to my other shoulder, I felt him press against my other arm, and it definitely wasn't his leg I felt. I have to admit, I was excited, but also pretty nervous in the setting. My heart was pounding as it all sort of started to register.
 
He kept the (good) massage going working my shoulders and back, but now his hands were sliding under the draping to my ass cheeks frequently until his hands were sliding right into my crack and against my hole. As he was transitioning down to my legs, I felt him take the sheet from my feet and slide it down the length of me so i was totally undraping. The feeling of that sheet sliding down me was so hot. from there, he continued to do leg work, sliding up to my ass. At one point, he positioned one leg so the sole of my foot was against the opposite knee, sort of a 4 shape. from there, he had clear access to my balls and ass, even sliding under to my rock hard dick. He did that routine on both sides, really giving a full massage that had become extremely erotic. Just as I thought he was wrapping up my legs, I felt him bury his scruffy face between my cheeks. He rimmed me like a champ, and you can tell he loves doing it. Finally he said, "let's flip you over."
 
I did, naked and rock hard, obviously. He was too...at some point he had slid out of his clothes! Handsome, hairy guy...not a muscle bod by any stretch, more of an everyday build (but I dig the guy next door vibe more). From there, he massaged my legs a bit more, stroking my cock and eventually leaning over and sucking it. I eventually busted a huge load, and then reached over and stroked his dick until he shot a hot load, first clear across the table (and me), and the rest all over my chest.
 
I saw him a few more times before lockdown. He's left that spa, but my eyes are definitely open to see where he pops back up when we're all through this!

Jocks are always hot, but for everyday, I like boxer briefs or trunks/square cut. Tommy John trunks are my daily go to.

Jocks are always hot, but for everyday, I like boxer briefs or trunks/square cut. Tommy John trunks are my daily go to.

Sir Spa is probably the closest thing to that. Massages, face and body treatments, manicure/pedicure services, etc...they pretty much do it all. There's a nice locker room with a small steamroom...i'd say it fits 6 max, comfortably, and nice large showers. No sauna though. There are other spas I'm sure, but Sir is good because it caters to men, and is still legit.

I agree with those who have said it. Don't shit where you eat. Full disclosure, I'm a married guy here, and the last thing I would want was a guy at work, especially at a lower level, making an advance, even if there had been some flirting. that may sound hypocritical, but i would be completely paranoid afterwards. and if he declines, you'll be in a bad spot. maybe it's slightly different if he makes a move, but it could get messy for him and you, either way. I know it's tough...i've had to restrain myself in a few work situations where my radar was pinging, one just this year on the road, but it's so easy for these things to go south.

I agree with those who have said it. Don't shit where you eat. Full disclosure, I'm a married guy here, and the last thing I would want was a guy at work, especially at a lower level, making an advance, even if there had been some flirting. that may sound hypocritical, but i would be completely paranoid afterwards. and if he declines, you'll be in a bad spot. maybe it's slightly different if he makes a move, but it could get messy for him and you, either way. I know it's tough...i've had to restrain myself in a few work situations where my radar was pinging, one just this year on the road, but it's so easy for these things to go south.

I agree with those who have said it. Don't shit where you eat. Full disclosure, I'm a married guy here, and the last thing I would want was a guy at work, especially at a lower level, making an advance, even if there had been some flirting. that may sound hypocritical, but i would be completely paranoid afterwards. and if he declines, you'll be in a bad spot. maybe it's slightly different if he makes a move, but it could get messy for him and you, either way. I know it's tough...i've had to restrain myself in a few work situations where my radar was pinging, one just this year on the road, but it's so easy for these things to go south.

I agree with those who have said it. Don't shit where you eat. Full disclosure, I'm a married guy here, and the last thing I would want was a guy at work, especially at a lower level, making an advance, even if there had been some flirting. that may sound hypocritical, but i would be completely paranoid afterwards. and if he declines, you'll be in a bad spot. maybe it's slightly different if he makes a move, but it could get messy for him and you, either way. I know it's tough...i've had to restrain myself in a few work situations where my radar was pinging, one just this year on the road, but it's so easy for these things to go south.

I agree with those who have said it. Don't shit where you eat. Full disclosure, I'm a married guy here, and the last thing I would want was a guy at work, especially at a lower level, making an advance, even if there had been some flirting. that may sound hypocritical, but i would be completely paranoid afterwards. and if he declines, you'll be in a bad spot. maybe it's slightly different if he makes a move, but it could get messy for him and you, either way. I know it's tough...i've had to restrain myself in a few work situations where my radar was pinging, one just this year on the road, but it's so easy for these things to go south.

I agree with those who have said it. Don't shit where you eat. Full disclosure, I'm a married guy here, and the last thing I would want was a guy at work, especially at a lower level, making an advance, even if there had been some flirting. that may sound hypocritical, but i would be completely paranoid afterwards. and if he declines, you'll be in a bad spot. maybe it's slightly different if he makes a move, but it could get messy for him and you, either way. I know it's tough...i've had to restrain myself in a few work situations where my radar was pinging, one just this year on the road, but it's so easy for these things to go south.

I would say that subtle hints are the way to go, if it's a legit establishment. Money on the table seems like a bit much. I had a guy at a legit place who gave me a massage, but nothing happened. I gave him a quick look below the belt on the way out, and the next time I left my underwear (no locker room) on the top of my clothes pile. Left my arms hanging down to the side, didn't flinch away when his leg pressed against my arm. that sort of thing. It worked.

I would say that subtle hints are the way to go, if it's a legit establishment. Money on the table seems like a bit much. I had a guy at a legit place who gave me a massage, but nothing happened. I gave him a quick look below the belt on the way out, and the next time I left my underwear (no locker room) on the top of my clothes pile. Left my arms hanging down to the side, didn't flinch away when his leg pressed against my arm. that sort of thing. It worked.

I would say that subtle hints are the way to go, if it's a legit establishment. Money on the table seems like a bit much. I had a guy at a legit place who gave me a massage, but nothing happened. I gave him a quick look below the belt on the way out, and the next time I left my underwear (no locker room) on the top of my clothes pile. Left my arms hanging down to the side, didn't flinch away when his leg pressed against my arm. that sort of thing. It worked.

Yeah, I've been told to leave them on in some hotel spas (especially the higher end for some reason). but it's usually been a female provider, so...whatever. I still don't like it either though.

I would say that subtle hints are the way to go, if it's a legit establishment. Money on the table seems like a bit much. I had a guy at a legit place who gave me a massage, but nothing happened. I gave him a quick look below the belt on the way out, and the next time I left my underwear (no locker room) on the top of my clothes pile. Left my arms hanging down to the side, didn't flinch away when his leg pressed against my arm. that sort of thing. It worked.

I would say that subtle hints are the way to go, if it's a legit establishment. Money on the table seems like a bit much. I had a guy at a legit place who gave me a massage, but nothing happened. I gave him a quick look below the belt on the way out, and the next time I left my underwear (no locker room) on the top of my clothes pile. Left my arms hanging down to the side, didn't flinch away when his leg pressed against my arm. that sort of thing. It worked.

I would say that subtle hints are the way to go, if it's a legit establishment. Money on the table seems like a bit much. I had a guy at a legit place who gave me a massage, but nothing happened. I gave him a quick look below the belt on the way out, and the next time I left my underwear (no locker room) on the top of my clothes pile. Left my arms hanging down to the side, didn't flinch away when his leg pressed against my arm. that sort of thing. It worked.

I would say that subtle hints are the way to go, if it's a legit establishment. Money on the table seems like a bit much. I had a guy at a legit place who gave me a massage, but nothing happened. I gave him a quick look below the belt on the way out, and the next time I left my underwear (no locker room) on the top of my clothes pile. Left my arms hanging down to the side, didn't flinch away when his leg pressed against my arm. that sort of thing. It worked.

I would say that subtle hints are the way to go, if it's a legit establishment. Money on the table seems like a bit much. I had a guy at a legit place who gave me a massage, but nothing happened. I gave him a quick look below the belt on the way out, and the next time I left my underwear (no locker room) on the top of my clothes pile. Left my arms hanging down to the side, didn't flinch away when his leg pressed against my arm. that sort of thing. It worked.

I went through something similar a few years ago, at age 41, after almost 20 years with a company in finance/financial services. My recommendation would be to not jump at the first thing that comes along, if you have the financial ability, if you see any red flags. I took the first offer i got. It was with a great company with a lot of employee advocates, but in retrospect, the role was not clear to me and it was a challenging commute. It took about 3 weeks to realize i made the wrong choice, and I spend just over a year there before leaving. I was miserable the whole time.
 
One of the biggest challenges I faced was leaving an organization I knew everything about, for someplace I knew nothing about. I couldn't answer a single question, which was very hard to deal with. But you have to rely on your experience...you're bringing that to the new role, so the key is to ask the right questions in the new role, and leverage overall experience, not specific company knowledge. I had to take the same approach in interviews, and it was well received.
 
I made a switch, and although I face the same challenge around knowing nothing about the day to day of the role, I found I thought more about the role/industry/company, and how my experience was a match, and it's been a better experience just 3 months in.

I went through something similar a few years ago, at age 41, after almost 20 years with a company in finance/financial services. My recommendation would be to not jump at the first thing that comes along, if you have the financial ability, if you see any red flags. I took the first offer i got. It was with a great company with a lot of employee advocates, but in retrospect, the role was not clear to me and it was a challenging commute. It took about 3 weeks to realize i made the wrong choice, and I spend just over a year there before leaving. I was miserable the whole time.
 
One of the biggest challenges I faced was leaving an organization I knew everything about, for someplace I knew nothing about. I couldn't answer a single question, which was very hard to deal with. But you have to rely on your experience...you're bringing that to the new role, so the key is to ask the right questions in the new role, and leverage overall experience, not specific company knowledge. I had to take the same approach in interviews, and it was well received.
 
I made a switch, and although I face the same challenge around knowing nothing about the day to day of the role, I found I thought more about the role/industry/company, and how my experience was a match, and it's been a better experience just 3 months in.

I had a good time there early this week. It was a Tuesday, so the place was pretty dead. there was actually a time when they were calling a dancer up to the stage, and he never came. Seems like a guy checked in, and then bailed when the crowd wasn't showing up. So things were a little awkward for a few minutes.
 
But overall, it was a still a hot mix of dancers and they are doing half price VIP rooms for hour blocks on and off. I will say, that some/most of the guys weren't getting fully nude on stage, because they weren't being tipped, due to crowd size. some were though.
 
For the private dances, there was a sheet that specifically posted the prices for 15, 30, 60 mins, etc. Which I thought was nice. I grabbed a 15 minute dance with a guy I liked and had tipped on stage and it was great.
 
The bartender was pouring stiff drinks, and he was really hot himself. One mixed table of men and women, who were sort of hooting and hollering, which was annoying (I don't want to start that whole debate!), but given the small crowd size and the fact that they were tipping the dancers, it was fine.
 
Overall, good time, even for a Tuesday night!

I had a good time there early this week. It was a Tuesday, so the place was pretty dead. there was actually a time when they were calling a dancer up to the stage, and he never came. Seems like a guy checked in, and then bailed when the crowd wasn't showing up. So things were a little awkward for a few minutes.
 
But overall, it was a still a hot mix of dancers and they are doing half price VIP rooms for hour blocks on and off. I will say, that some/most of the guys weren't getting fully nude on stage, because they weren't being tipped, due to crowd size. some were though.
 
For the private dances, there was a sheet that specifically posted the prices for 15, 30, 60 mins, etc. Which I thought was nice. I grabbed a 15 minute dance with a guy I liked and had tipped on stage and it was great.
 
The bartender was pouring stiff drinks, and he was really hot himself. One mixed table of men and women, who were sort of hooting and hollering, which was annoying (I don't want to start that whole debate!), but given the small crowd size and the fact that they were tipping the dancers, it was fine.
 
Overall, good time, even for a Tuesday night!

I had a good time there early this week. It was a Tuesday, so the place was pretty dead. there was actually a time when they were calling a dancer up to the stage, and he never came. Seems like a guy checked in, and then bailed when the crowd wasn't showing up. So things were a little awkward for a few minutes.
 
But overall, it was a still a hot mix of dancers and they are doing half price VIP rooms for hour blocks on and off. I will say, that some/most of the guys weren't getting fully nude on stage, because they weren't being tipped, due to crowd size. some were though.
 
For the private dances, there was a sheet that specifically posted the prices for 15, 30, 60 mins, etc. Which I thought was nice. I grabbed a 15 minute dance with a guy I liked and had tipped on stage and it was great.
 
The bartender was pouring stiff drinks, and he was really hot himself. One mixed table of men and women, who were sort of hooting and hollering, which was annoying (I don't want to start that whole debate!), but given the small crowd size and the fact that they were tipping the dancers, it was fine.
 
Overall, good time, even for a Tuesday night!