SK in SD

I think this post by the always insightful @GLEE proves my point that a truly great BFE includes excellent and natural communication between the client and the escort, providing pleasure both socially and sexually for each other and mutually satisfying both! This is certainly one of the main reasons I hire and have developed continuing relationships with some of the best escorts working today!
 
TruHart1

As a client, I know when I am furnished what I feel is a true boyfriend experience, where I actually have not only an extraordinary sexual connection, including everything that excites me sexually, from amazing tongue work while French kissing, to having my nipples manipulated in the most sensual ways possible, to hearing his groans of pleasure as I rim him and suck him, to feeling myself nearing that point of no return as he sucks or f**cks me, but also our sharing with each other in mutually enjoyable conversations before moving on to the sexual play, which is followed by intimate cuddling after we climax.
 
There is nothing quite so intimate to me as being in his arms, with my head on his chest and our arms around each other, sharing our thoughts quietly for a bit, sometimes even napping with each other for a short time. I do think that a boyfriend experience is not necessarily the same for every man, though. I always hope to be treated as if I am the most desirable man the escort has ever met, for the time we enjoy together. As I've said many times since I began this hobby, I do fall in love with the best escorts I hire just a bit during the time we spend together, in bed or out, during both the on-the-clock and off-the-clock time we are together.
 
Now since I am only one client, with only my personal definition of the boyfriend experience expressed here, I'd be interested to get back to the "Ask An Escort" topic requested by the OP. I would love to hear from any escorts out there who are willing to explain what the "boyfriend experience" is for them with clients from their own professional perspective.
 
TruHart1

Yes, definitely. In fact, he really isn't shy about "touching your junk," it is just done in a non-sexual way. Once I opened my mind to that, I received a massage to some muscles that have always been neglected in other massages.

I've seen him twice. His rates are a steal! (He also offers a 90-minute massage for $60)
In my experience, his service is strictly therapeutic... no extras, no happy ending, keeps his clothes on.
I wouldn't say that he gives the absolute best massage I've ever had, but he's quite good, and is probably the best value I've found for a legit massage. I'll repeat. Frequently.

I'll give 5 Stars to his photos alone.
Tasty

Can someone post a link to his ad and/or PM me details? Thanks

Recently saw Gaspar... really amazing massage. Very skilled and in tune with my stress points. He was very much my type, fuzzy and masculine. Great body and wonderful personality. I’ll be seeing him again!

Probably not. Not to derail this thread into politics any further than it's already gone, but Clinton won the Coachella Valley as a whole with about 75% of the vote. (Source: https://www.desertsun.com/story/news/politics/elections/2016/12/07/desert-voted-overwhelmingly-clinton-and-weed/95111550/) And if that's the numbers of the entire valley, then I assume that the men who are hiring masseurs probably voted for Clinton in an even larger margin since gay men, as a whole, trend towards the Democratic Party over the GOP.

At least these guys aren't "sportif and give good sexi."

Make that 3 for 3!

Now middleeasternali is https://rentmasseur.com/PersianArab
 
Nice guy. Massage OK. But he's more about the sensual/extras. I would not repeat due to the high price.
His body is not that great... body fat around the tummy area. But other appendages will draw your attention, so not a big issue.

Maybe this perk can be reserved for repeat and nice customers.

I know op mention this was outcall but these are things in general for me...
 
At home or when traveling, make sure you have a decent sound system for your music. A Bluetooth speaker goes a long way versus a tinny cell phone speaker.
 
Also don't text or check your phone with a client. We can tell.
 
Make sure you have used the bathroom before starting the session. I have had guys exit to pee before I understand nature calls but try to do everything to reduce the chance that you'll have to break pause the session. It's awkward lying on the table face down, naked, and and oiled up with nothing happening.
 
Don't short people on their time and give yourself enough of a buffer between clients. If I hire you for 90 min that's for the massage. Not from the second I walk into the door. Allowing a buffer is good because 1 the massage could escalate to something more and if you have an appointment later, you want to give yourself enough time to to give that client a good massage as well.
 
I'm flexible and always ask if a masseur is available after ☓ time for Y minutes. So that way I can work around them. Usually I'll try to be the last client or the first on an slow day which means it's likely to be a very fun massage. So be flexible and offer alternative times that will work if there is a conflict.
 
A few of the masseurs I have used have sworn by Biotone as a brand. I really like when they use almond oil. It feels really good and not super greasy and doesn't stain. Also warming it up a little feels awesome.
 
Always have cold water and maybe some candy for when people leave.
 
I'm OK with being contacted after the massage but a lot of guys don't like this. Especially if they are trying to be discreet. So consider that if you reach out after the sale. At least ask if it's OK to text them later before doing so. I used to have a guy sending me half nude photos and texts about specials over 6 months after I hired him. They always came at inappropriate times. And if you do contact at least make sure the text doesn't read like you're begging and on the verge of eviction.

It is okay to turn down a client if you do not get a good feeling from your initial contact.

Couldn’t agree more. I prefer massage cream to avoid an oily mess.
1. Biotone is the best creme in my experience, makes for best experience overall. Some oil may come in handy towards the end of the session though...
2. If you only do outcall, keep the client apprised if you are running late. Offer to take a shower when you arrive, a 5 minute cleanup before you begin the session conveys respect (definitely wash your hands at a minimum)
3. Ask about pressure, trouble spots, music before you begin.
4. Be truthful in advertising. Under promise, over deliver will gain you recurring visits in my book.
5. Learn to read the client. Does the client seem comfortable? Does he enjoy conversing with me or is it a distraction? Is the client shivering because he is cold and I need to turn up the heating?
6. Send a discreet follow up note after the session if you would like the client to become a regular. People want to feel appreciated and if you enjoyed meeting somebody, why not say so.
7. Never, ever forget about an appointment and tell me you ‘overslept’ So my business means so little to you, you couldn’t even take the time to pencil me into your calendar or set an alarm??
8. If you want to win a place in my heart, take a shower after the session and invite me to wash your back! (Okay, now I’m definitely pushing the boundaries!)
9. Be gracious and maintain a sense of humor at all times; unexpected things will happen (client burping). How you react will say more about you than the client.
10. If you used oil/creme on the client’s feet during the session, always wipe the soles of his feet at the end of the session. Dont risk the client slipping and falling on a tile/wood floor.

Maybe that's just my own pet peeve but no cologne or light cologne if you really like using it, use quality products that were designed for massage and lastly, try to be engaged. That's a hard one since you won't hit it off with every customer but remember this is a service industry and some empathy is necessary to connect with your clients.

Good one!
He's open to sensual, nude from the beginning. Very open in that regard. He has an intuitive feel for what the market wants. He also enjoys massaging glutes, he knows it feels good.

A friend of mine is starting as a masseur... and he asked me for pointers and advice. I would like to know if you can help me to come up with a list of good advice for him.
 
He is very intuitive and has a natural technique and pressure, he is not trained, but he is very good for not being trained and for just starting. He has the looks, age and body going on for him. I already gave him some tips... if you have any others let me know.
 
The ones I gave him were:
 
1. Do not upcharge for sensual/nude, have just one fee. Or disclose fees in advance.
2. Be on time, polite.
3. Answer texts promptly whenever possible.
4. Never write your own fake reviews.
 
If you have any other tips let me know

I saw Paul 6 times in less than 2 months. He is amazing and very talented and by far one of my favorites for bonafide bodywork with a super sensual/erotic HE. He is also a real nice guy I could be friends with under other circumstances.

I hum the national anthem during sex LOL
 
In all honesty though I use an average size dildo as part of my “prep” process before I meet him. Just enough to get my hole sort of ready to take on the big one.

Take a deep breath and think of England.
 
Kevin Slater

I miss my local amateur folks...

Let me say he is one of the best escort experiences I can recommend. Great guy great erotic massage and always makes the experience great. I've posted on him on this board.

Poor design. Meh.