LJNYC83

That person would be in the running for my favorite client ever. I’ve traveled far for some. Traveling around the corner would be amazing.

That person would be in the running for my favorite client ever. I’ve traveled far for some. Traveling around the corner would be amazing.

This is the same reason why it becomes a problem (or even insulting) when a client tries to haggle your rate down based on what they want to do. Like “hi my hourly rate is $250” “oh but I just want to perform oral on you and you don’t have to do anything to me, can’t we make that $100?”...No, because my rate is for my time. And for legal reasons that does need to be made clear.

This is the same reason why it becomes a problem (or even insulting) when a client tries to haggle your rate down based on what they want to do. Like “hi my hourly rate is $250” “oh but I just want to perform oral on you and you don’t have to do anything to me, can’t we make that $100?”...No, because my rate is for my time. And for legal reasons that does need to be made clear.

Greetings everyone! Long time listener, first time caller...haha. But seriously, I've lurked on these boards for awhile and found them very interesting, so thank you all for the conversations.
 
I finally made an account on here because I'm thinking about giving escorting a try. I'll give some info about myself and why I'm thinking of this.
 
First off, I've been a client a few times. About a decade ago when I was in my early 20s I was in a relationship with a girl. She knew I was bi at the least (maybe more like 90% gay) and gave me the okay to sleep with men still but at the time we agreed that the safest way for me to do that would be by spending time with an escort. Especially once I discovered that there were review sites and everything. It was ideal. I had great experiences as a client at the time.
 
Fast forward to now, where I'm no longer dating women, and a few years ago I took up boxing and got myself into really good shape. And the more I think about it, the more I think I would enjoy being on the other side of the coin in this. I came across an ad on Craigslist a year ago, and discovered how enjoyable it could be to spend a little time with somebody and walk away with some extra pocket money. I've done my share of CL stuff now, though the flaky nature of it all can be frustrating.
 
But then about two weeks ago I met a guy who really made me think wait, maybe I should be on Rentmen. A guy who asked me to come spend some time for $75 and by the end gave me $200 instead. The thought that I could make that instead of 50 is one that I had to pay attention to.
 
I might not be everyone's cup of tea (who is?) but one thing I pride myself on is really connecting with people and figuring out what they want. And I aim to please.
 
I haven't created a rentmen ad yet (I think I probably need some professional photos done) but mostly I'm here to see if you guys have any advice for me starting out. I started talking to an established escort the other day (I took a chance and emailed, said hey I'm looking to start this, any advice? And he's been very cool! I wasn't even expecting a response, but I figured as with any industry, it's all about connections right?)
 
Some basic details about me - I'm 34 but told quite regularly that I look younger. I'm a bit on the hairy side, which used to bother me but I've embraced it lately. I'm Sicilian and Colombian. I'm short! 5'5, which I also used to be bothered by but boxing taught me its a real advantage if you make it one! I have a full time 9 to 5 job, so I'm not looking to make this my only gig, though if I took off with it, well I'd consider my options haha. And I'm in NYC, born and raised. I won't be hosting people because I live up in the Bronx and nobody is traveling that far, which I know can take away from business, though for the right client there may be times I grab a hotel room than a friend and I can just hang out at afterwards anyway. Mostly I'm looking into this for some extra income to just enjoy life with.
 
Any advice you guys might have is highly appreciated! Thank you!

Can I wait till Thursday to post here? LoL

I live in the Bronx but grew up in Brooklyn so counts for something right?

I’d do it. I actually had a guy on RM ask if I’d send him a video of me peeing and talking in a dominate way. I did it. We agreed to $50 for it. He never sent the money (which was weird after going to the trouble to sign up and add me on Venmo) and more or less went radio silent since then. Definitely frustrating.

This is the same reason why it becomes a problem (or even insulting) when a client tries to haggle your rate down based on what they want to do. Like “hi my hourly rate is $250” “oh but I just want to perform oral on you and you don’t have to do anything to me, can’t we make that $100?”...No, because my rate is for my time. And for legal reasons that does need to be made clear.

This is the same reason why it becomes a problem (or even insulting) when a client tries to haggle your rate down based on what they want to do. Like “hi my hourly rate is $250” “oh but I just want to perform oral on you and you don’t have to do anything to me, can’t we make that $100?”...No, because my rate is for my time. And for legal reasons that does need to be made clear.

This is the same reason why it becomes a problem (or even insulting) when a client tries to haggle your rate down based on what they want to do. Like “hi my hourly rate is $250” “oh but I just want to perform oral on you and you don’t have to do anything to me, can’t we make that $100?”...No, because my rate is for my time. And for legal reasons that does need to be made clear.

I technically ended a date last night so I could go see a client. I mean we had been on the date four four hours already, had drinks and dinner, and live too far from each other for one of us TJ go home with the other anyway. So it wasn’t weird when I said hey it’s getting late, let’s get the check.

I technically ended a date last night so I could go see a client. I mean we had been on the date four four hours already, had drinks and dinner, and live too far from each other for one of us TJ go home with the other anyway. So it wasn’t weird when I said hey it’s getting late, let’s get the check.

Plus isn’t morning sex just more fun?

Plus isn’t morning sex just more fun?

Plus isn’t morning sex just more fun?

Yeah I don’t know, I’ve never had an issue cumming multiple times a day in life. I definitely do at least twice a day on average. So I wouldn’t worry if I had multiple clients in one day. So far the most I’ve ever had was two in one day. If I ever get to a point where I’m pulling in 3 clients a day, I’ll probably quit my day job lol

Plus isn’t morning sex just more fun?

Plus isn’t morning sex just more fun?

Plus isn’t morning sex just more fun?

Someone who has been a provider for much longer than I have advised me not too long ago that I should always contact people who look at my profile. If the potential client has their profile filled out, I definitely read it and use what I can to strike up a conversation. Or to decide we may not be a match (like if someone says they’re specifically looking for tall guys, or uncut guys, etc.)
 
I’ve met a couple of guys who I contacted first. And I’ve had at least one convo go nowhere. And a slew of others who never respond. But this is a business and all businesses require footwork of some sort. It’s worth the effort of taking two minutes to send someone a message who had looked at my profile. The worst thing they can do is ignore me and I haven’t lost anything. But the potential gain if they respond and show interest is totally worth it.

Yeah I don’t know, I’ve never had an issue cumming multiple times a day in life. I definitely do at least twice a day on average. So I wouldn’t worry if I had multiple clients in one day. So far the most I’ve ever had was two in one day. If I ever get to a point where I’m pulling in 3 clients a day, I’ll probably quit my day job lol

Yeah I don’t know, I’ve never had an issue cumming multiple times a day in life. I definitely do at least twice a day on average. So I wouldn’t worry if I had multiple clients in one day. So far the most I’ve ever had was two in one day. If I ever get to a point where I’m pulling in 3 clients a day, I’ll probably quit my day job lol

Thank you! I think I’ve done well in my first two months. Hopefully it only keeps going up from here!

Thank you! I think I’ve done well in my first two months. Hopefully it only keeps going up from here!