Dallas Jayson

Stag is set for a "soft" reopening this Friday, May 14th. Oregon's governor, "Shut-Down" Katie Brown, has loosened the screws on restaurants and bars, allowing currently a 25% capacity, so Stag will be limited to 30 patrons for now. New owners and management has sunk a ton of effort into an updated remodel, redoing the stage and seating areas. The new manager, Ali, (known as Aladdin in his previous stripper life), tells me he has 25 performers lined up and ready to go opening night- and has altered the focus a bit. A more main-stream, less "alt-emo" type of dancer is the new focus, I'm curious how that will be experienced. While the interior work is ongoing, the club will be closed on Mondays until more capacity is allowed later on this summer. so, six nights a week, and new staffing, might need a break-in period, but we will see.
 
Silverado, having a kitchen and ground-floor dining area open to the outside, had customers the few times that I've driven past. While the stripper stage in the basement has meant that I'm not yet comfortable attending, I'll have to check the activities soon, once the vaccinations pick up.

Seems like his attractiveness was as big an issue as his work.

I was there a few days ago.  Horrible massage from an unattractive masseur.  The massage itself was so bad that when I got back to my hotel, I ordered a massage from Soothe.  Ironically, they first wanted to send me the same masseur that I had seen at Sir Spa (I of course cancelled that massage and asked for a different masseur).

I’ve reached out to Manquest about this “criminal” review.  He hasn’t responded yet.
There’s also a review about him being shady.  
Is 2 bad reviews out of 13 enough red flags?
 

Enough 4 me.  

Two unfavorable reviews out of 13 would usually make me proceed with caution, but would not necessarily decide not to hire a guy. However, one that says "criminal" and another that says "shady" is a different story.

I agree

I look to my clients for 3 things. Be clean and fresh (that’s the top requirement and an absolute red line), be punctual (I have a schedule, if you’re unavoidably delayed please communicate, we can always reschedule), be respectful and polite (I’m a human being not a piece of meat). That’s all. If they’re those things then I’m able to give my best for them. They’ll get my total attention and focus because there’s no issues with cleanliness, rushing or dealing with attitude to distract me. 
Their body size, shape or colour isn’t any issue atall. A good provider knows that sexiness goes way beyond physical appearance. There’s something sexy and attractive about everyone and a great provider will know how to find it in their client and bring it out. The fact that you’ve come for a session in the first place makes you attractive in my opinion. It means you chose me to share it with…and that’s definitely a positive for me! It starts things off well and I’m eager to show you that you made the right choice. 
Long post, sorry but I think this is important because lots of my clients say they worried about being sexy enough to have a massage and fun. It’s a shame because everyone can be sexy and they shouldn’t worry about their body shape. Just be clean punctual and nice. 

As an overweight client, I always disclose my weight to a potential masseur or escort.  I've found providers care less about my physique and more about cleanliness.  I've never had any provider explicitly decline me for my weight. 
I assume that a provider that replies with a message, "I am not available" at the time requested without suggesting an alternative appointment option are politely saying "Something in the information you have provided does not meet my standards.  Look elsewhere."  
 

With all due respect, the OP wasn't looking for advice on how to spend his money.  It's awesome you have been able to shed the excess weight, and that's a big achievement you should rightly be proud of, but the OP's immediate concern is about how he might be received at his current weight.

After being overweight for most of my adult life I don’t offend easily and have a thick skin. (Pun intended).  I’m not sure if you even read my post, but that’s just what I am doing, having gone from 477 to 250 lbs in three years.  My health is better than it has ever been the past ten years and my doctor tells me I’ve added years to my life.
The point of the post was to get feedback on what I should expect from providers at this size. 
I can assure you that any overweight person does not need to be told to get to a gym, we live in these bodies and whether or not we show it, we know deep down the effect excess weight has on our health.  Unsolicited advice like this is neither helpful or supportive.  

Anybody who’d reject you based off physical looks shouldn’t be in the biz. Any provider would be lucky to have you and the ones who reject you again shouldn’t be providing. I’ve never rejected anybody for anything, it’s also not my place to do that. The truth is that I’m here to provide, not judge. I understand the rejection for size because I’ve been there. Just keep your head up cause we’re not all AHoles🥰

If you feel somehow uncomfortable with your weight, I suggest to be upfront with the provider and see how he reacts about it. If he is not okay with your weight, he is not worth your time. As a provider, I would never reject a client because of his weight. The things I expect from a client are respect, politeness, good hygiene, and being std clean.

As an overweight client, it's always a worry for me. Thankfully, I have yet to message someone who had an issue when I told him in my initial contact. I do stick to well known (on here) escorts so that could be why I have been fortunate.

I am in the same position. Over the last 20 years I went from 180 to 480 to 220. I have only once had a provider turn me down. However, when I was above about 250, I always informed providers ahead of time. Many suggested a floor mat or futon, which I find very comfortable and secure. 

Yes check with the provider. When I do massage there’s a size limit for the table, but that means the bed can be used instead. Yay! 
If you check you’ll find out beforehand whether the provider cares or not about your body size. It’s better than turning up and finding out they’re sizeist. 

Any provider worth his salt should be happy to see you, but it never hurts to briefly describe yourself beforehand, especially if it will make you feel more comfortable during the session.
Kevin Slater

Yep. Here’s the rentmen ad. Lots of not-so-private cock pics: 
https://rent.men/Manifeastation

Am I the only man who is confused by the ONLYFANS craze ?
WHO are all these people who are paying to watch some guy jerk off  or show you his ass ?
Can't you pull up free porn these days ?
 

If it were easy money, everyone on the platform would be making bank....  And most aren't.  Most end up giving it away in an attempt to get traction.
Finding people to film with, legal releases, editing, lighting, social media.  There's nothing easy about doing what the guys who make $50k+ a month do on OF.
With so many people flooding the platform, it's also getting tougher for guys to cut through the noise.

and they may not be interested in be so public

Takes a lot of work, like anything, to be successful. Same with masseurs and escorts… not “easy money”. 

Overall, Atlanta has HORRIBLE masseurs...
Those you posted: I booked Kevin many years ago.  It was a great massage.   He was patterned then so very little besides the massage. He is single now and from what I heard he is more open to other stuff.  I recall the massage being great.
The other guy you referenced:  Never booked with him. However based on his profile price etc I cant see spending 180 on him IMHO
Hard to make recommendations when we dont know what you are looking for.  If you can share that or some other links, I would be more than happy to help.  I live in Atl and have booked with many - too many to list here.  So share some more links or PM me and I will help as best I can.

Good looking man, great bod and impressive cock in his private pics.

He’s good. Would recommend.