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For what it's worth I just checked the link and it appears that I blocked his profile but I can't remember why. I wouldn't have done that unless I heard something bad about him from the forum so if you're really interested I would do a deep dive and search for any previous threads about him.

Lucky for me I don’t really smoke flower. Only edibles and vapes so there’s really no smell to worry about for me.

I visit NYC quite often. The majority of those shops were just vape shops that turned into “dispensaries”. I think the city and the state are having all kinds of issues with those businesses.

Go to the top right of the page and type NYC and hit search…happy reading.

What’s he charging anyway for all these headaches and frustrations?

He’s 33???

There’s a ton of actual photos of him all over the internet from his social media posts. Not nude though….all the nudes out there are fake.

Steamworks Chicago is probably the best bathhouse overall in the country. The space is huge and clean, the prices are fair, and there's always a good mix of clientele. I've read a lot of bad reviews about it that were posted on yelp a couple of years ago but I've never experienced anything that was said in them. I go every time I visit Chicago and each time the staff has been nice to me...no issues at all. I always leave drained and satisfied!!!

I'm so sorry for your loss I can't imagine how you feel. Hopefully you can find some comfort and I wish you the best in the future. I'll stay tuned ♥️

No one can ever seem to meet up with him though. There's a few threads on here about him.

@Act25 everything Mike said is true. Ask as many questions as you like because thats what this space is for. This type of forum didn't exist when many of us started hiring but I'm glad it does now. There's a ton of experience between the forum members so please reach out to any of us and learn from our mistakes!

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Nope. You’re not supposed to exceed the speed limit either but do we really worry about that?? I’m a frequent traveler and I travel a lot by air and it’s never an issue as long as you play it smartly.

Anyone else having issues with their iPhones after updating to iOS 18??? Specifically safari running so slow it times out and some apps don’t even load. Is it a network issue??? I have Verizon

Sounds like fun. I remember going to the “Soapy” shops when I was in the military and stationed on Okinawa. That was all women masseuses though. I always wanted to find a gay massage place but of course that was during the don’t ask don’t tell period so I didn’t.

Ok there’s like 5 different threads on this guy because I just commented on one. He has multiple name changes and multiple red flags

This dude is definitely weird. At least that’s the vibe I got from him. I remember contacting him a couple of years ago in NYC for an erotic massage and he was all over the place in his texts. We set a time to meet at what he says was his hotel and then 30mins later he said meet him at a different hotel and then changed it back. Then he kept changing the time changing the rate and after that I just said screw it and decided meet Alexi instead. Personally I think I avoided a headache with this dude.

I totally appreciate your point of view and I think it’s reasonable. Honestly I don’t think it’s bad if a provider asks for deposits. After all it’s your business. I’m the type that would prefer an incall on the escort’s turf if it’s our first time to elevate any of those issues. We as clients shouldn’t be surprised if an escort asks for a deposit for a first time meeting especially when it entails traveling long distances. It’s enough risks to go around but it’s up to both parties to decide what they’re willing to accept.

If you would have no issue with tossing cash in a camp fire then sure send your deposit because that’s the risk you’re taking. It only takes one time to losing your money and then you realize how much of a risk it is. It’s just my own personal preference but I don’t send deposits of any kind. I’m more than willing to pay for an Uber or Lyft to my hotel or pay for your parking as long as we have negotiated that up front and they understand that I will pay upon arrival. I prefer if they include all that in the rate they ask for but it’s not that big of a deal. Providers that I have seen before don’t even bother to ask for deposits or travel funds because they know that I’m not a flake and I will pay.

You said yourself that you enjoyed the massage so would say if you enjoyed it then the massage was good. What’s good for me may not be what you enjoy. I say do exactly what you did…tell us your experiences and we can decide for ourselves if we’re interested in contacting that provider. Also it’s a good idea to insert the link to the provider you saw. HAPPY HUNTING 🤗