hypothetically

..although it should come as no surprise. Every platform’s review system is flawed, for both parties.

I lost a friend to suicide this year, and another attempted. Gay men’s mental health is so important.

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you’re welcome
 
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I lost a friend to suicide this year, and another attempted. Gay men’s mental health is so important.

Meticulously curated lives on social media often tell a completely different story than what’s going on. We have to check on our loved ones

...I don’t see how the two correlate (an escort trying to hustle you + following up and “pnp”), but if it helps you sleep better at night.

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..for anyone who needs it.

Escorting long term doesn’t exactly benefit one’s mental health. It skewers one’s perspective of what sex, money, love and interpersonal relationships mean. I think the fact that my partner having sex with other men for work is the least of my worries, as most escorts do a phenomenal job of disassociating and keeping personal and work completely separate. The mental anguish and wear and tear of working in such an industry, however, is a bit more difficult to overcome for two individuals trying to build something together.

www.gayandsober.org
(855) 638-4373
24 hour Crystal Meth Anonymous hotline
 
..for anyone who needs it.

You’re doing a lot. who is outraged?
I harmlessly mentioned a parasite with its lovely mugshot as a huge number of gay men are unaware of the risk or have never even heard of the parasite, yet it is becoming increasingly common in NYC. There’s no harm in a mention. Why anyone would get butthurt (no pun intended) about a casual promotion of gays men’s health is beyond me lol. I didn’t tell anyone not to eat ass or that they were going to die. Wash your ass and ensure your provider is doing so also and you have nothing to worry about. Simple.

However you want to spin it, the person you hire someone to be and the person they are outside the confines of your arrangement do not correlate. It may seem "silly," but it really is necessary for some escorts to mentally check in and out by using something as simple as a fake name. Blurring the lines of professional and personal in this industry isn't healthy for everyone.

Be stern, you are dealing with hustlers, after all. I’m sure that’s difficult as the providers are older/bigger than you but set boundaries. It’s okay to say “this isn’t working out,” or “that’s not what was discussed.”

Both have their perks.
I enjoy my regulars that I get to see when our travel schedules align. The familiarity in another setting makes for something special.
 
But there will always exist the allure of a new connection.

Be stern, you are dealing with hustlers, after all. I’m sure that’s difficult as the providers are older/bigger than you but set boundaries. It’s okay to say “this isn’t working out,” or “that’s not what was discussed.”

Be clear in your expectations when hiring and these things will happen less frequently.

Be clear in your expectations when hiring and these things will happen less frequently.

Escorting long term doesn’t exactly benefit one’s mental health. It skewers one’s perspective of what sex, money, love and interpersonal relationships mean. I think the fact that my partner having sex with other men for work is the least of my worries, as most escorts do a phenomenal job of disassociating and keeping personal and work completely separate. The mental anguish and wear and tear of working in such an industry, however, is a bit more difficult to overcome for two individuals trying to build something together.

Be clear in your expectations when hiring and these things will happen less frequently.

You realize you are voicing a “complaint” that the majority of the forum would LOVE to encounter, right?

I prefer text as I’m usually on the go and unable to chat discreetly or in a quiet enough setting. It doesn’t have to be “back n forth” if the individual seeking a provider is clear and thorough in his wants.

I prefer text as I’m usually on the go and unable to chat discreetly or in a quiet enough setting. It doesn’t have to be “back n forth” if the individual seeking a provider is clear and thorough in his wants.

Email??? It’s not 1999 lol.

I prefer text as I’m usually on the go and unable to chat discreetly or in a quiet enough setting. It doesn’t have to be “back n forth” if the individual seeking a provider is clear and thorough in his wants.

I prefer text as I’m usually on the go and unable to chat discreetly or in a quiet enough setting. It doesn’t have to be “back n forth” if the individual seeking a provider is clear and thorough in his wants.