hypothetically

Followed by the “text me when you’re here,” I’m sure. It’s for one’s security. That’s all.

Stop speculating and hire more receptive /responsive providers. Simple.

...or you could, idk, just ask for their physical address? Or a general landmark/restaurant nearby if they don’t want to provide. Unless you’re just being a creep.

Yes, while working this summer in Berlin I did have a client with a disability, and I prefer it is communicated, not because a disability is at all an issue but because the logistics of our sexual interaction is different, and I may have questions per said logistics.

It is always alarming to me that it is predominantly black men who inquire with me if it is ok that they are black, because the frequency of black men refusing to take them as clients is exceptionally high.

The escort community is small and niches discuss amongst one other which clients to entertain and which to avoid. Referrals and recommendations are very much a thing. There is no forum. If you pay and you exercise respect, you are a 5 and shouldn’t worry about such things.

If you are seeking validation from illusionists, you need to work on you first. Your weight is not the issue. I have had overweight clients who are confident and empowered by hiring, and I have had overweight clients who are in a spiral (because of their physical appearance) communicate these insecurities during a session and don’t really feel any better about themselves post-session. At the end of the day, I’m an escort, not a therapist. The only person who can make you feel better about you, surprise...is you. It is also imperative you are transparent and honest when hiring, and if that is fueling your anxieties, then again..you need to work on you, friend. That energy will be front & center when the session begins and while some escorts will do a phenomenal job alleviating said anxiety, most will not.

This. Yell it for the clients in the back.

Lol if your goal was to ask this question the least sexiest way possible, you definitely succeeded. Nonetheless, invest in a fiber supplement geared towards bottoms. Pure for Men is an option, but there are alternatives.

One’s personal sexual preferences, professional sexual preferences, and on-camera sexual preferences don’t often correlate. Good eye, but what an escort is doing in a film serves no relevance to what he’s selling you. While I understand a client’s frustrations with seeing escorts perform on film or offer varying services to others, we do get to choose what we do with our bodies, and with whom. Unless an escort is willing to negotiate with you, it’s not really any of your business.

This.

I knew the answer was “no” before I even clicked on the thread title.

it’s not the same Darius.

When I came out I frequented gay bars because that’s really the only opportunity you have to be around other gay men, people “like you”....but I never felt the people in gay bars were reflective of who I was so I’ve never really enjoyed gay bars and ultimately stopped going years ago. It’s just not “on brand” for me.

I never understood the allure. The visual alone, of someone shoving a tiny bottle up their nostril mid-sex isn’t the sexiest. And bottoms usually get a little too rowdy when using sometimes. Which I also don’t like. But I also take into consideration they could be doing something much worse, so I tolerate it.

Not many here that actively participate.

I was mostly speaking to age group. “The biggest demographic group are males between 18 – 24 years old, while 75% of all users are aged between 18 and 24. 37% of US internet users are now on Instagram. 90 percent of Instagram users are younger than 35.” Source

Nah

...ok.

Your idea was not stupid. I offered you two suggestions. Why you’re angry, idk. But I’m going to let you have your moment honey, and I hope you find a solution...for your friend. Jesus, lol.

Let’s just answer the man’s question as to not spark anyone’s fuse. Lord, lol. Can’t say shit on this forum lol.

Deleting a post shortly after it has gone live and calling it a “stupid idea” after people have offered you helpful suggestions is not “aggressive?” LOL...okay! And I’m “reactive” for answering your inquiry and suggesting you keep your post live? Whew! Someone’s testy as hell.

That’s aggressive. You asked a simple question which will yield many a helpful reply. Relax lol.

This will result in a slew of wacky inquiries from wacky people...even autobots. Both platforms I’ve suggested give the user an extra layer of security as there is a verification and reviewing process.