hypothetically

Its a niche. Some clients are into low quality and cheap escorts. Right or wrong? MintBoys requires a subscription also, if you want anyone to actually....see you. I thought it was free too, based purely on how the interface looks. ..ambitious, lol.

Maybe I’m being superficial but MintBoys feels like a BackPage Deluxe. I feel it attracts a caliber of low quality escorts, and yes, while one may suggest there are also low quality escorts on RentMen, at least the site is pretty.

Are you looking for a commercial escort photographer (which could, quite frankly, be anyone with a DSLR) or do you want something a little more artsy?

Sadly, no.

I certainly don’t mind when geared up at Berghain.

I thought maybe I didn’t articulate properly. But I realize there are very few active (if any) African American escorts on the forum to reassert, nor a plethora of clients who hire escorts of color, as the responses indicated, so I just left it alone, truthfully. The text in my ad has remained the same and is modest. I’ve uploaded new photos over the course of the summer but nothing fetish-specific. @BaronArtz did point out it may be because I live abroad. But I’m in Florida now and even getting the “cant wait sir,” “do you have any requests sir,” “I love your photos sir.” Its excessive. Maybe I just look like a damn sir, lol.

Mintboys is suspicious lol

If the escort is picking up the tab in hopes of repeat business, is his “gratitude” purely authentic? It’s up to the discretion of the escort to choose whether or not to “pick up the tab” or cover any other expenses during your time together, whether brief or extended. Would I anticipate it? No. Does it happen, of course.

We’re not talking about when speaking to the postman or someone in the office @craigville beach , lol.

..and a black one. And just for clarification I’m not race-baiting nor am I the type to pull the race card or scream “that’s racist,” but I think it’s important for everyone to note that my, our, experience navigating escorting is very different from everyone else’s. That’s why I posed this question. Thanks for the insight everyone.

(Shoulder shrug) idk, I’m like 16.

Occam’s Razor has a double edge. But, yes.

Are any of these threads really worth the countless number of pages they accrue? Not really, yet here we are. But I chose a topic that has not been regurgitated innumerable times to start a healthy discussion about context. You could always, idk, keep it moving, sir.

Reverse race-play which is a very much a thing. Master/slave play amongst two white men is not the same as master/slave play amongst a POC and a white man for a variety of reasons. Additionally, there is an influx of white men who I feel address me “sir” because they automatically associate skin color, in a sexual context, with dominance hence sometimes the “sir” being accompanied with “white slave here for bbc” and similar language. Not always, but sometimes. So I guess I’m asking the forum, for peace of mind, why they would be motivated to use the word when contacting an escort.

While I initially picked up on this with American clients before moving abroad, now that you mention it, it does happen more frequently in Europe.

lol, in the spaces and context it’s being used...no.

No, just memberships at the present time.

I was. But it is communicated simply as a gift, not a reactivation.

An increasing number of prospective clients are greeting me with “sir.” Would any clients care to elaborate what motivates one to call an escort “sir.” I’m not naive, I know the context in which it is used is not purely formal salutations, but nor does my ad insinuate I’m into master/slave or dom/sub play, nor am I wearing a “master’s cap” in any of my photos. Is it motivated by race or is there just a huge influx of “bttm slaves,” gravitating towards me? I usually request they stop calling me “sir,” to which some respond “sorry, sir” LOL but idk.. I typically don’t entertain these inquiries as the language to follow usually isn’t appropriate nor does it come from a good place (i.e. “BBC,” theatrical interracial porn lingo). Sir is less ambiguous but still feels.... Thoughts?

No. I’ve had a client reactivate my membership during a brief hiatus as he was eager to get ahold of me. I had no ill feelings about it. One can cancel the membership, remove the content or lock his photos. Or simply assign “not available” for a timeframe and not login.

He is likely waiting for someone to gift him a membership lol. The memberships are inexpensive for some, but not for all.

When an account is expired, an escort is unable to read his messages. He can see that you’ve contacted him but is unable to open the message. He may login but has limited functionality, hence why you’re seeing a timestamp but your messages have yet to be read Gift him a basic membership so he can read your messages

Internalized racism.

UFFFFFF.

Regardless of how accessible one’s information may be on the web, porn actors don’t all change their name for discretionary purposes. Did you consider their on-screen persona don’t often correlate with who they are day-to-day, hence the name of a character? The same applies to an escort. If someone screams “Andre!” in the street or greets me as such, I know that it is a client or someone who has identified me from a world which is not my primary, because that is not my name lol. Granted, I tell clients anyway, it makes clients distinguishable among others. Who I’m hired to be and who I am don’t correlate, the same applies to most porn actors, hence the name change.