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Have we determined whether he is a good guy or a bad guy?

I can't describe how much I detest endless, bottomless scrolling! Keep the f*cking page breaks!! And everyone: stop 'upgrading' sites that don't need 'upgrading'!!

One long time star that I've never seen advertise anywhere: Adam Killian. I'd hire him in a heartbeat.

I thought for sure you were going to say they said "Who's Jamie Leigh Curtis?"

I'm tired of memes that start with "I don't know who needs to hear this, but...." (insert some castigation that is directly aimed at the person you KNOW needs to hear it.)

I would think paying for a membership to Rentmen would entitle a subscriber to have any honest, less-than-five-star review stay on display, rather than being subject to removal by the provider. Speaking of reviews, are there any plans to resurrect that function on this site?

Thanks to today's mass shooting, I was introduced to hot Maher Kawash of Chicago! With the ABC affiliate, of course!

Some July 4th play things from my childhood:

I'd like to know this, too. When I make an initial contact with a provider, I do it with the utmost respect, sincerity and flexibility. This rarely gains me any response whatsoever. Especially not from well reviewed escorts. I'd love to know what I'm doing wrong.

Anyone? https://rent.men/Logan_Aus

Is the 'Gold' membership on Rentmen something a provider can purchase for himself? Or is is usually 'bestowed' upon him as a gift from an appreciative client? What if the provider is contemplating retirement? Does the 'Gold' gift membership keep his ad alive whether he wants it or not? Even if he's no longer accepting appointments? I've seen one ad for a 'Gold star' escort who hasn't logged on to Rentmen in over a year. Is the 'Gold star" supposed to imply some kind of higher level of professionalism or trustworthiness? (Because so far, for me, it signifies "least likely to respond in any way to a polite and respectful inquiry.") 🙂

As a side question - I wondered if there is a way to tell if a 'chat' recipient has deleted a conversation on his end. And would it disappear on my end, too? If I receive no response to a polite and respectful initial inquiry am I supposed to keep trying? Or does my original offer 'live' on his message board for future reference? (I gather the 'double check mark' next to a message indicates the recipient has at least seen the message, even if he doesn't bother to reply.)

His first review is dated May 20, 2022 and I really do think he 'burst upon the scene' just a little before that date. (the review describes him as a new comer.) Area code is from Manhattan.

...or gladiator movies.

God bless the escort who states their preferred method of contact in the body of their profile.

THIS! Also: How DARE you waste my time by contacting me to try to engage in a service I myself am advertising as being for sale on Rentmen?!

No. I am not.

I find it hard enough to hook up WITH a phone number. Can't imagine attempting it without exchanging numbers.

I use mine to flake out, stalk, bother, and get myself off because I'm a shady, dishonest, insincere deadbeat.

I could not disagree more.

I've initiated chats with three providers. One of them has ignored me completely for reasons unknown. The other two replied quickly, and happily shared their phone numbers. (Although one of them already had it listed on his profile.) Have had pleasant exchanges with both of them - I really think the chat helps break the ice. I will take it to texting when I'm ready to engage. The only emails I ever get from RM is an alert when so-and-so left a message on the chat board or in messenger.

Thanks for your answer, Dante. As for texting, I do feel that there are legitimate reasons why a client might use a burner number, and assuming they're all flakes or time wasters is painting with a pretty big brush. I'm sure there are plenty of flakes out there who use a 'legitimate' number. And I'd bet there are plenty of escorts who use burner numbers, too. I'm really starting to resent the flakes out there who make it tough for us serious guys to make a deal. 🙂

I should have specified in my original post do TEXTS from a burner number offend or set off alarms somehow? I can kind of understand not wanting to answer a call from a blocked number (although if I were in the provider business I would expect a certain amount of that). But is there anything about a friendly text from an unrecognized number that would cause you to ignore or block it? Is that somehow indicative of insincerity or a likelihood of flaking?

Agree. I am eager, sincere, respectful and willing to pay. Yet the providers I reach out to don't even bother to acknowledge receipt of my queries on any platform. One might think business is too good.