nycman

I agree that the 10 day delay is a bad move that serves no purpose. No conference is more important than your home. Call your lawyers. Be brutally honest with them. Listen to their advice. It will be painful to hear. Get the loser out of your house as quickly and as cleanly as you can. Best of luck. It won’t be pretty.

I’ve had it happen more than a few times. Reactions have run the gambit. Younger ones tend to panic. Older ones tend to laugh it off. A polite smile is perfect. Less and you risk a full Glenn Close encounter. ”I will not be IGNORED!” (Yes, that happened) More and you risk friends/lovers having too many questions. I’ve never understood the panic some escorts (and Grindr hook ups for that matter) seem to experience. Just brush off prying questions with: <Bored Tone> “We met at a party last week.” “He’s a nice guy.” <End Scene>

I’m sorry this happened to you Unicorn. You owe the other lover a huge thank you for helping you see the light. Even if his motivation wasn’t 100% pure, he did you a big favor. He very easily could have just moved on with his life and let you continue to play the part of the fool. One is easily fooled by that which one loves. - Moliere

He drafted the entire way.....meh.

I agree....he’s not a pretty boy. But he is one hell of a gorgeous man!

I’ve always been of the mindset that if I have to “push“ or “purchase” my way to the next higher tier, then I’m probably not flying that airline enough to make it worth the expense or effort In the first place.

I get up. I look fabulous. The end. (just kidding....moisturize, hydrate, moisturize, hydrated.....repeat ad infinitum.) I’m partial to Kiehl’s products but I’m convinced Oil of Olay works just as well.

I’ve hired escorts when I was fat and I’ve hired escorts when I had a six pack. Guess what....I had better experiences when I was fat. I‘m sure the reasons are myriad....including the escorts’ brains being as fickle and screwed up as mine. Yes, I’ve had great (and bad) experiences regardless of my body, but my batting average of “incredible” hires was higher when I was fat. Now get that self defeating crap out of your head. Get of there. And ”Play Ball”!

“Average” incubation period is 21 days, but the range is 10 to 90 days. Unless he was not sexually active at all for 3 months prior to the massage.... I’m not buying that he got syphilis from a massage. Not saying it’s impossible, I’m saying it’s unlikely and I’m willing to bet that a detailed history would turn up a “more likely” exposure.

Wow, someone who thoughtfully listens to the advice given here and takes it all in stride? Looks like those escorts missed out on an enjoyable evening with a lovely gentleman. Their loss!

I say move on. Too many fish in the sea. I suspect that you might be making this process all too complex. Just send a text one week out to see if they're available. If yes, send a follow up text briefly describing your wants (top, bottom, BFE, etc.). If he responds in the affirmative, send a final text setting the date, time, and place. More than that and you risk sounding too needy and like a time waster. Emailing after you've been blocked is creepy. Don't do it.

Lord...how did I manage to dodge this train wreck? Seems like I’m the only one. Thanks for the laughs!

I need to update my living will..... “If incapacitated, daily blow jobs until death”

Sounds dreadful. Move.

That exact philosophy has served me well for quite a while. The man knows fun!

I think she got a great deal. I would have traded my little brother for a old car any day.....even today.

Looks more “MedSpicy” than “XtraHot”.....grin And the massage prices are ridiculous.

RIP Rip. You were an insane beacon of fabulousness to a little gay boy growing up in the Deep South. Thank you.

“Bed massage” = pass. “Traveling” = pass. “Biotone cream” = pass My place + my sheets + my table + my oil = win, win, win, win

How long does it take to fuel that damn thing?.....Grin He’s worth the price of the JetFuel and then some btw.

He’s real and real fun!

No. Not at all. I tend to politely tip $5 if I like the guy enough to chat but not enough to have a lap dance with him. If I’m not interested at all, I make that clear up front. If he hangs out despite my lack of interest, thats on his dime. If he’s annoying I physically move away. If he persists...I politely ask management to help him understand my lack of desire. Never had a problem after that.

Not a huge fan of the messy tats...but damn that ass! I’d pay a small fortune to get a shot at that!

I hate when some “reconfirms” a set appointment. Mostly because I envision fiascos like this happening. If you need to or plan on “reconfirming” the day of the appointment....tell me upfront so I’ll know to be expecting your call and/or text. I will tell your that for me it’s unnecessary, because I consider our appointment “set”, but I will do it if you insist. “Reconfirming” out of the blue sets us both up for an unintentional failure.

I say fuck it. You never know when the chemistry is going to ignite. I’ve had amazing experiences with men that are miles outside my league in the “looks alone” category. And I’ve had horrible evenings with men that should have been paying me. You never know.....so swing for the fence!