sfguy72

I generally go for massage with extras, but a few years ago I really messed up my neck and was desperate for a genuinely good massage to help. None of the previous "sensual" masseurs I thought could do the trick. So I looked in CL and found a guy. Handsome in his pic, but more importantly the ad read like he was skilled. So I booked with him.
 
My first session was great and he really knew what he was doing. Focused on my neck, he was very knowledgeable and was able to alleviate the pain. He even gave me stretching exercises to do on my own to continue the healing. He is gay and in person was very sexy. I was there for legit massage and that's exactly what I got. He was fully clothed the whole time and I was draped. I secretly hoped extras would happen, but no. I did get an erection but it was ignored. But I didn’t care b/c I was totally satisfied since the massage was such high quality. So much so that I booked a second session maybe a month or two later.
 
Second session was just like the first: draped, legit, and amazing again. Didn't think I would repeat with provider that didn't provide "sensual" techniques.
 
Third session was much like the first two. At this point I was not even thinking it was more than a really great massage. Well...Half way through the session he brushed up against my hand and I swore he was hard. Thinking it was accidental and telling myself I must be mistaken that he was erect I didn't give it any more thought....until the same thing happened on the other side. Still a little hesitant I waited for the 3rd and 4th "accidental" brush and decided to be bold and rub a little back on his shorts with my fingers. He was definitely hard! Repeated this game a few times. He kept me draped, but with each pass and stroke up my leg to thigh, he went a little higher and the sheet covered less and less until a good portion of my business was exposed... I was obviously very excited. HE and mutual touch occurred, then more excellent massage technique. Felt like I struck gold. In addition he is really sweet, engaging, and smart. We had some really nice conversations.
 
I saw him a number of times after and they were like the third visit. Sadly he has moved away and I think has stopped doing massage. Haven’t found anyone else who matches the skill and fun mixed in.

The rate seems pretty high for strictly therapeutic 

The rate seems pretty high for strictly therapeutic 

Did you just volunteer?

I saw a traveling provider recently and experienced the same thing. Minutes after the session started I noticed that he was only using one hand and not very attentively. Clearly he was texting with the other hand. I gave him the benefit of the doubt thinking it would be brief...it wasn’t. After about 5 minutes of this I did look up and it was confirmed. I told him that if he wasn’t into the massage I would leave...and I started to get up to go. To his credit, he was extremely apologetic, said he was putting it down for good, and offered to discount the session by $50. Reluctantly I stayed, but I’m glad I did. The rest of the session was good and he did not use his phone again.
 
Gotta speak up sometimes. Although not sure all providers would have responded as gracefully as he did.

Sade’s Love Delux is so perfect for playtime.

I just wanted to send an update. Leo now offers incall appointments in a studio he shares with others. I saw him this past weekend, and it was great. He’s really kind, welcoming, and definitely has legit skills. I recommend him.

For those still looking for a Gay clothing-optional hotel in Palm Springs, here's a good article describing each one:
https://www.wolfyy.com/blog/palm-springs-gay-resorts-clothing-optional/

@sfguy72 - Santiago would be the next place I would consider if you are looking for a gay resort.  Other gay resorts you might look into are Vista Grande, Hacienda (a little more pricy), and All Words.  CCBC is a little further out of town.
Some members also have stayed at one of the Marriott properties in the past.

I was thinking more about being in the middle...

Hell yeah! I'd love to watch Alex top versatile Cain. That'd have to be a scorcher!

Formerly GngrMuscle. Highly recommend!

Yes, just today. Good massage skills, super sexy, and very nice. Very responsive to texts. Doesn’t speak English well, so very little small talk before the massage. The rate is fantastic. Amazing smile!

Yes, just today. Good massage skills, super sexy, and very nice. Very responsive to texts. Doesn’t speak English well, so very little small talk before the massage. The rate is fantastic. Amazing smile!

Has anyone met with him recently?

Hey all,
 
Any info on this cutie: https://rentmasseur.com/KyleBanks

@hairyfratdude11 - I've seen Cain a couple of times when he visited San Francisco. I believe he will adjust and slow down to your pace. Switching from seeing a masseur to seeing an escort, you'll find that it's a big step up. I've done both in the past... Cain is versatile and can take on both roles as top or bottom (he states that in his RM profile); however, keep in mind that he is a big guy with a big tool. If you don't have a lot of experience as a bottom, you might want to practice with someone smaller or with a toy to help you prepare for a tool that is big and gets very hard. I hope you have a great first experience... Cheers!

And for those of you who loved Russ Barker's 70s pornostache, he says that it's "not going nowhere."

I spoke to Russ today to ask him a couple questions. He thanked me for defending his 'stache.' He had a very daddy-esque tone, quietly commanding and authoritative. He is a top, but he seems like a very nice one, definitely not one of those narcissistic types. And he would be marvelous - among other things - as a dad fantasy or the aforementioned cop fantasy. He also love to read and this came through in his message because he was actually able to write clearly.

I don’t know....I find it strangely appealing.

What a tool! Glad you saved your cash. Spend it on someone worthy of it.

Why would ANY masseur get irritated by a potential client , viewing their Private Gallery multiple times , whether it is 2X or 100X? I think it would be flattering, and encouraging, for a masseur to see a potential client viewing their Private Gallery often. It is a sign the client is interested and will most probably book a massage session in the future. It costs the masseur NOTHING for a client to view their private photos multiple times, so what is the big deal? By blocking a potential client after 1 or 2 or even 10 views of their Private Gallery, you have pissed off that client and lost a likely appointment. What an idiotic move on the masseur's part. Blocking= lost client=NO MONEY. Makes absolutely no sense. (unless you are masseur diva with attitude)

I’ve not met him, although I thought about contacting him. Very handsome man, but something about the tone of the text in his “About Me” section feels cranky. Probably the use of all caps straight away. Just my opinion and gut reaction, but it did make me hesitate. Who knows, he could be perfectly lovely.

I can personally vouch for that. Enjoyed meeting you in SF. Hope you were able to find a decent bowl of spaghetti....if not, maybe I’ll treat you next time!

I concur with Ace and Robster.