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The reviews indicate that he might be from DC. Maybe visiting?

As someone who has seen Ryan a few times I wanted to hopefully qualify this, as “weird” can be a bit subjective. From my observation he seems like an introvert. So the social interaction of meeting essentially strangers does seem uncomfortable to him. Could also be chemistry. Not sure. So, yeah the small talk was a bit forced, but I did not at all feel any of this in the massage itself.

Great idea!! I’m jealous!

Saw him again yesterday evening. Very nice experience. Think I'll go for a three-peat next time he's in town.

I saw him years ago in New York and had one of the best experiences I've ever had. We totally clicked, talked like old friends, had fun together and I enjoyed a great massage and his awesome body. Texted back and forth the next day too with general chit-chat. That was at a time when he only did massage in New York and was a nurse full time in LA, so I guess things could have changed, but I'd repeat in a heartbeat.

I saw Max a few days ago. Same story as the past few replies: good massage on bed, intuitive, sensual, super sweet (and sexy!) guy. Awesome experience overall. I’ll definitely repeat when he’s back in my town.

Lol...our own version of “ride share”?!

I saw a traveling provider recently and experienced the same thing. Minutes after the session started I noticed that he was only using one hand and not very attentively. Clearly he was texting with the other hand. I gave him the benefit of the doubt thinking it would be brief...it wasn’t. After about 5 minutes of this I did look up and it was confirmed. I told him that if he wasn’t into the massage I would leave...and I started to get up to go. To his credit, he was extremely apologetic, said he was putting it down for good, and offered to discount the session by $50. Reluctantly I stayed, but I’m glad I did. The rest of the session was good and he did not use his phone again.
 
Gotta speak up sometimes. Although not sure all providers would have responded as gracefully as he did.

Lol...our own version of “ride share”?!

Lol...our own version of “ride share”?!

Now the cash flow problem.... lol

One word... ORGY!!!
 
That solves that choices and time dilemma.

He'll be in San Francisco at the end of the month, but I think so will everyone else for Folsom. It's going to rain men... So, many choices, so little time...

Hello again men!
 
Had to share my latest experience/response from a masseur. Contacted Ron in SF (https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/1260/) and asked about availability. First response was welcoming saying he’d love to work on me. When I provided my usual disclosure about my size and asking if he’s welcoming of different body types, I received some lame passive aggressive response that he’s nursing a hand injury and it’s difficult for him to work on “bigger guys” right now and has to work lighter than normal until he is fully healed.
 
Hmm...maybe I like lighter pressure anyway (I don’t but that’s not the point...lol). A hand injury recovery as a masseur that inhibits one’s ability to perform as normal might have been something to disclose up front, not after someone tells you their size. Gotta call BS on that one.
 
Message received. Pass, and move on. My method worked as usual to filter out these guys and save me the time, trouble, and money.

Hello again men!
 
Had to share my latest experience/response from a masseur. Contacted Ron in SF (https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/1260/) and asked about availability. First response was welcoming saying he’d love to work on me. When I provided my usual disclosure about my size and asking if he’s welcoming of different body types, I received some lame passive aggressive response that he’s nursing a hand injury and it’s difficult for him to work on “bigger guys” right now and has to work lighter than normal until he is fully healed.
 
Hmm...maybe I like lighter pressure anyway (I don’t but that’s not the point...lol). A hand injury recovery as a masseur that inhibits one’s ability to perform as normal might have been something to disclose up front, not after someone tells you their size. Gotta call BS on that one.
 
Message received. Pass, and move on. My method worked as usual to filter out these guys and save me the time, trouble, and money.

Hello again men!
 
Had to share my latest experience/response from a masseur. Contacted Ron in SF (https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/1260/) and asked about availability. First response was welcoming saying he’d love to work on me. When I provided my usual disclosure about my size and asking if he’s welcoming of different body types, I received some lame passive aggressive response that he’s nursing a hand injury and it’s difficult for him to work on “bigger guys” right now and has to work lighter than normal until he is fully healed.
 
Hmm...maybe I like lighter pressure anyway (I don’t but that’s not the point...lol). A hand injury recovery as a masseur that inhibits one’s ability to perform as normal might have been something to disclose up front, not after someone tells you their size. Gotta call BS on that one.
 
Message received. Pass, and move on. My method worked as usual to filter out these guys and save me the time, trouble, and money.

Obviously if a masseur is working for a spa, a tip is totally expected and should be given (Unless the service was terrible) because the spa takes a large cut of the fee. But if the masseur is working out of their home, taking the full profit, which these days is way more than most people make an hour, usually cash, I don’t feel obligated to tip. It’s got to be completely mind blowing to give more than $160 for a massage in my opinion. If someone’s flat rate was around $100, then I’d likely throw in some extra.

Didn't hear back, but decided to take the plunge and book with him. Glad I did. The massage was excellent. Amazing firm pressure, and overall one of the best technical messages I can recall. Can tell he is skilled.
 
He is responsive and pleasant. I recommend and will probably be back.

Didn't hear back, but decided to take the plunge and book with him. Glad I did. The massage was excellent. Amazing firm pressure, and overall one of the best technical messages I can recall. Can tell he is skilled.
 
He is responsive and pleasant. I recommend and will probably be back.

I just wanted to send an update. Leo now offers incall appointments in a studio he shares with others. I saw him this past weekend, and it was great. He’s really kind, welcoming, and definitely has legit skills. I recommend him.

Thx Honcho
I responded via Private message to him

I’ve assumed that the table weight limit question was either a signal that it’s a crafty way to filter out fatties or that the provider has a cheap table. lol
 
Just yesterday had a masseur ask for pics in order to discuss the content of the session. I said thanks but no thanks. I don’t need to subject myself to that scrutiny if I also have to shell out a significant amount of money. This was from MF, not a dating site for Pete’s sake.

I am so glad your table is sturdy enough to hold the weight of both of us. hope to visit again soon.

A masseur that decides to get on top of a table that has such a low weight limit is foolish. Unless both client and masseur are twinks, most men should be able to guauge approximate weight of the two of you.

Well, I am recently down about 60# since the beginning of the year...and he is pretty slender. Also, I’m 6’3”.
 
Where do you practice? Maybe I’ll come see you...lol