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There are certain things about which we’ll never know the full story.

Currently I’m having an “on the clock off the clock” fling with a very cute guy in his mid-20’s. We’ve become quite fond of each other and are developing a great friendship. At this point I’m simply enjoying it and feeling buoyant. I’m also a realist, so I have no illusions about its ultimate direction, since I’m not interested in partnering with anyone. Sometimes these gossamer relationships appear and should simply be relished.

He’s gorgeous. I like having a Navy with boys like that.

I just learned this last night. I took a special friend out to dinner at a trendy place last night and I asked him if he thought our server was gay and he said “yes, did you see his pride tat?”. He asked the server about a few of his tattoos and he replied that he’d gotten them in Japan, adding that they have the best tattoo artists in the word.

As with most of East Asia, they are fond of Germans, though.

That’s a better description for sure.

That’s happened to me a few times, twice with R/T airfares for which I thankfully secured refunds. I’ve only had a few $50 deposits result in no-shows. 95% of the time I’ve never been asked for a deposit: but, of course, this topic has been discussed ad nauseam, and here I am contributing to it yet again!

I think 32.

Viva España!

It’s more a great body for a 35 yo.

I turned one away years ago who looked nothing like his ad. He started getting demanding and I glared at him and said “you don’t want to go there” and he left without any drama. Other than that I’ve had my share of dopes and duds but never anyone who would warrant non-payment. Like others, I leave the comp on the counter where they can see it. The hot encounters have far exceeded the duds, thankfully.

I’ve only contributed to local groups, esp. conservation-oriented, and have never received solicitations from other charities. I also give to an AIDS group in town, but request anonymity since I’ve heard they do share lists.

Oh pretty boy, 🥰

I’ve thought about engaging, but something has always held me back. He’s very cute, though.

Perhaps he means ephebe-ish, since the range is usually 15 to 19. Some younger guys can look like teens until they’re 30. 22 to 30 is the range I love. Speaking of the early aughts, does anyone remember NYC-based blond Dylan? He used to travel to LA and Key West often. We became very close and would gossip on the phone often. Spent several overnights with him, once at my then-house in Laguna. He graduated from college in NY and went on to be an accountant. I wish I could have made it to his 21st birthday party at Lah-ti-Dah in Key West. That was right after our first meeting in Manhattan, where I traveled often for business. He once told me that I should stay in his UES apartment instead of my hotel, since I could enjoy sleeping on his Frette bed linens!

The worst thing about the surgery is the recovery period. I couldn’t bear not being able to do my daily workouts or cardio.

You guys are much more adventurous than I! I’m too squeamish and I’m one of those that doesn’t get off on being orally serviced unless I have some feelings for him.

Any odd entreaty, email or text is immediately trashed and noted as scam. They’re relentless at times.

Not in my case.

Yes, good luck! I always worry about rectal injuries when it comes to FFing.

The only area other than my head that has seen hair loss are my lower legs, most likely from years of wearing over the calf dress socks with suits. I never had hair on my back or ass, except in the crack, and the chest hair has always been sparse. Because of the sparseness, I have it sugared a few times a year to highlight my pecs. My pubic hair and underarm hair is as full and dark as ever. Because of the patchy hair on my legs, I get them sugared in the warm weather when they’re lightly tanned and I’m wearing short shorts. I also bike a ton, so it feels good in the wind. My T is consistently over 600 without supplementing. I’m quite fortunate in that regard, since high T confers enormous benefits as one ages. I have a ton of energy for and older fella.

The blond, please!

What a cutie!