The few times in the past that I’ve agreed to a deposit, there was a 100% flake rate. In one case, I had paid for a flight. It’s a dilemma for sure. If someone flakes just cut them off.
He’s been advertising for several years in SD and OC. He seemed a bit too clean-cut and choosy, so I’m glad members have had good experiences with him. I’ve had a regular weekend companion for two years in that area and I’m loathe to try someone else since I get everything I want from him.
The “no-kissing” thing seems to be growing among younger providers. Perhaps they’ve had experiences with poor dental hygiene? I was close to an overnight with one until he quite matter-of-factly texted that he doesn’t kiss. Boo.
Friendboy is a nice additional resource. It’s well laid out and offers us a greater palette of providers. Why don’t we simply enjoy both sites rather than squabbling about the CMS and other arcanae?
I tip my barber 25% every time. He does pretty well. His shop is within a trendy men’s boutique, where I’m also a big customer. I give him a treat at Christmas. I also take my personal cross-fit trainer and partner out for a pricey dinner around Christmas. I believe in rewarding those who are part of making me look good for my age.
If your expectations are in line with the foregoing, you should enjoy yourself. I’d ask him to come from the gym, and then proceed to worship his body and eat that doubtless scrumptious ass. His hot blond looks alone could get me off.
Sorry to hear of your angst. Such a sentiment is not that uncommon. I’ll be with family whom I love and enjoy. But first I have to endure a Turkey Trot in freezing weather!