GeminiCA

I absolutely LOVE a boy with an "updo".... And the big cock doesn't hurt the deal.

This is the scene I first saw in college nearly twenty years ago that turned me on to gay massage. While I personally prefer something with a bit more technical massage when I’m on a table, I’m still grateful to Bobby Blake and that twink for piquing my interest!

I’ve received such a note, a call actually. There are upstanding masseurs.

I’ve received such a note, a call actually. There are upstanding masseurs.

i agree. However, a friendly note to clients seen in a certain window telling them that they may have picked up something would be nice.

I somewhat find it kind of pointless to find “patient zero”, when it comes to STIs.....
 
1.) The idea of “who gave it to you”, is usually based on a bunch of assumptions.
 
2.) Unless you have a been a long-term celibate, prior to engaging with another person, you can’t assume that the last person you played with gave you the STI....
 
let’s say you’ve been a bit naughty over the past month... and at least twice a week, you’ve had sex with a different guy. Once of them possibly could have had an STI and gave it to you... but that doesn’t indicate that the LAST person you played with gave it to you...
it could have been days or weeks after you’ve contracted it, that the symptoms surfaced, which not only means that the last person you played with didn’t give it to you, it could also mean that you had it earlier than you realized, and you possibly participated in spreading it. Lol.

Or the masseur could have gotten it on his own from his private sex life, it doesn't have to come from a client.
 
If the massage session only goes to HE and MT, it can be a very safe way to enjoy a very sensual time, but if it gets to oral and other forms of penetration, or even skin to skin contact, all bets are off no matter the situation.

You don't owe him a review. I suppose you won't return; therefore, just move on without further concern. You hired him, were respectful (I gather) and paid him the agreed fee.
 
You owe him nothing else.

I would privately give him constructive but honest feedback . If you cannot wrote a genuine positive public review, then I would skip it.

That is one of the best suggestions I've seen in a while.

Saw him a couple months ago (and several times before) and he is always loads of fun.

So it's been awhile since last massage, and I went back into my favorites at rent masseur to see who I might have put in there for future consideration and I found
https://rentmasseur.com/Fit_Daniel
He looks like a nice lad with the kind of body I like and the sound of his ad is good, but then I searched this forum and came up with one not very positive thread on him to my disappointment. The last post on him that I could find was dated July 2019 so I decided to just see if maybe there was more after that or if anyone else had had some experience with Dan better than that last July post I pasted below. Apologies if this is your post uncredited.
"I actually had many massages from Dan. I thought he did a good job with the basic massage, and he allowed extensive mutual touch; I often returned the massage. He's low-key but a nice person. I finally quit him, though, because because the massage never evolved. His massage is not erotic. Private parts--his and yours--are strictly off limits."
So....anyone have anything to add? I'm always open to PM's. Find them most informative. Thanks.

I want to hire his photographer

He looks perfectly fine to me!
 
He's on my list for the next time I visit LA.

I've never been mock per se but laughing has occurred.
 
I can sometimes have very intense orgasms... very intense. Some of my regulars have laughed as I laughed when I've come down off my intense high. One regular (who is a member of this forum) sometimes will do things right after my orgasm to prolong that sort of irritating feeling when your penis doesn't want to be touch because its ultra-sensitive after orgasm. He'll sometimes have a devilish smile or laugh as I try to get him to stop. It's all in good fun mind you, but he likes to torture me a bit. I ultimately get my revenge because when he orgasms, I do the same thing back to him laughing the whole time.

Meet in lobby, acknowledge each other with a nod, head into the elevator together, make sure the coast is clear as he follows you to the room, go in together - if you run into co-workers / friends - it happens - have the pro make a loop / grab ice / go to vending machine and come back to your room when clear - you can crack door of / be waiting close behind door to make his entrance quick and sneaky
 
Or get him a second key...

The inability on a profile to determine if a provider is cut or uncut. I can make a presumption if you're Latino or Euro, but that doesn't make it 100 % accurate.

Travel ads more than 30 days prior to the date of arrival.

If that is how how treats clients, his massage skills don't even matter. Ignoring you and ghosting you after you already schedule a session? I have zero tolerance for that behavior.

I prefer not to know and see what happens and how the session develops. As long as members of this forum say they had a good experience, I’m good. As always YMMV. So your experience might not be the same as others.
 
Yes some masseurs don’t like give specific details about the session via text. I never ask. Rentmasseur helps a little by having 3 options therapeutic, sensual and erotic but that’s just a general idea of what the masseur is willing to do.

Why even respond if you have no intention of hiring them (or anyone?) so you can roast them publicly on this forum?
 
They were foolish to respond like that, and I don’t condone that, but you’re basically just admitting to being a time waster.

Yes, but due to OnlyFans and similar services, there is an uptick in people who subscribe to RentMen just to view content with little intent to hire. This behavior was already unnerving for a lot of escorts, but it has increasingly become the norm. A lot of escorts lack the communication skills and professionalism to deal with this behavior in stride, and here we are. No, that’s not why the platform exist but a member is also entitled to do as they please with their membership.

I think part of the issue too is the ghosting and blocking that has become norm as a passive form of rejection. So when someone is encountered by an active rejection like "I don't think it would work out" they don't have the skill set and perspective to deal with that and lash out. Which can then be exacerbated by drugs and desperation.

Both are masseurs branching out into escort territory.
 
Rainer looks hot but had personal hygiene issues when I hired him as a masseur.
 
Bigboyjoey has 100K followers on Instagram but a lackluster presence as a masseur charging 200/hour in NYC. As an escort, he is charging 400/hour. Steep for a newbie … From his IG I notice he is a circuit party boy.
 
Do you want stinky from LA or overpriced from NY? Your choice ….

invite him to a nice dinner and drinks, pay him for his time and reminisce over past experiences. you end up being one fine classy gentleman in his mind and he may even from that kindness, get turned on and initiate a little "dessert". if he doesn't and thanks you for a nice time with a hug, then you know that he is truly winding down and chances are the session would not have been as memorable as the last ones. many times when someone knows they are getting out of their respective field they just dont "give it their all" to the finish line.
 
either way....you end up a winner closing down a memorable relationship of sorts and not the loser of a very forgettable session.