Vegas_Millennial

I like the pink side!

In Los Angeles or Palm Springs at Christmas, I need a heavy jacket in the evenings. I'll be in Wilton Manors (Ft Lauderdale), Florida, for Christmas 🎄this year. Hope to get some pool time in each day. It may not be "warm", but I shouldn't need a jacket even at night.

Palm Springs should be even colder than Los Angeles. Deserts can get cold in the winter!

@TorontoTwink, the link to your Rent Men profile in your signature seems to be out of date.

Sounds like you're still trying to decide if this is a career or a hobby. Your first topics on CofM were that you look "too straight" to be picked up by anyone at gay venues, so you're always going home alone. Then, that you're "too hot" to sleep with the few men that do approach you at those venues. Later, you thought about being an escort but requiring client pictures up front to only get paid to accompany good looking men. Now, you're an escort over age 40, who rarely does anal or give oral, wants to command higher than average NYC rates for full-service well-reviewed providers, tells a customer you're insulted with a low-ball offer, yet are upset because the low-ball offer guy was hot and you would have fucked him for free! If there's one thing I've learned from the escorts who contribute to this CofM, is that escorting is not a great way to monetize your personal sex life. Consider going to massage school and learning how to give a proper massage. A client can hire you for a massage, and then you can decide when you meet the client if you want to fuck him as well. Apparently, the young hot 20-something had good success booking masseurs doing that very thing (according to the Original Post of this topic), so absolutely he should continue doing what works for him while it does.

Most of the dancers are not doctors; most don't have any formal university education. Tip what you feel like, if it's too little, the dancer will leave. After a pole or shower dance, I tipped 100 pesos (about $6 US) of I was actually watching the dance and the dancer got naked. If the dancer just stood there in his underwear or Speedo, or if my back was turned to the show, I don't tip. A few people tip more, many less or not all. While a few dancers dressed as a firefighter or police officer during the dance, no one was dressed as a Lieutenant My go-to gay hotel, Hotel Mercurio, closed last year. Casa Cupula is gay and nice, but pricey. Check out Pinata PV. I haven't stayed, but it has a good central location and is gay men only. Avoid Mantamar/Almar, it's gay in name-only. Every person I've met who stayed there (myself included) complained of the pages of fees and the headache it was to bring a guest to your room. I stay mostly at my timeshare closer to the airport and Uber into the Romantic Zone most evenings. Try to find a hotel in the Romantic Zone with decent reviews and is not all-inclusive.

Random question… when you ask if bareback is ok and they say yes, does that imply that they’re also ok with breeding? Or, do you ask about that separately? No, I never ask in advance to be bred. Gotta leave some things up to the professional to decide in the moment.

Ask HIM (before you agree to it). I've had responses that ranged from outrageous $1000 to free. Around song 4, I once asked a dancer if he was available to come to my hotel room for sex. He quoted me a very reasonable price (around $100), stating that I already paid most of his fee in tips for his lap dance songs. In the past few months at strip clubs (including NYC and other places), I've been quoted prices from hundreds of dollars for a blowjob (which I declined), to $100 for bareback fucking right there in the club (which I accepted).

As for Deposits, Nudes, and Sexting: I keep my messages brief. 2 to 3 messages, confirming rate, date/time, location, and that bareback is okay. I have the money ready and in view when we meet, but always pay at the end. And NEVER send a deposit for an hour/multi-hour meeting. I'm okay with ordering a RideShare. I always send one clothed picture of myself so the provider knows who he is meeting (after we agreed upon a date/time and rate...I don't want the provider to feel he has to give me a "good looking" discount 😉). In the rare instances a provider initiates some "sexting" as foreplay in advance of our meeting, I respond and may include a nude photo of myself to keep the energy going. But I always wait for the provider to initiate, which has happened only a few times.

I use sex with my gardener in lieu of payment. If he mows my lawn and I refuse to give him a blowjob, then am I the one being sexually assaulted or is he? These hypotheticals are ridiculous, because I would: A. Never refuse to compensate the man who mows my lawn, and B. Never refuse to blow the man who mows my lawn.

Hunqz is used quite a lot throughout Europe. Hunqz and other sites are mentioned in the Travel forums, under the respective continents in which you are wishing to hire. As always, never send any deposits, regardless where you find these guys.

The rest of us would like to know as well. Feel free to post here.

Existing discussion in the Men's Health section: Plus, a new trial for once a year injections: https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/164922-consider-gilead’s-new-us-based-prep-trial/?do=getNewComment

Attitudes change over time. 20 years ago:

Johnsons announced via Facebook that it will sell tickets for New Year's Eve, but I haven't seen it yet on its website.

Depends on the masseur and probably the market. I’ve taken in the whole magilla a number of times from guys I’ve hired on RMass and even MF, none of whom advertised on RM as escorts. I never expect it though. Yes, sometimes the masseur trips and the entire penis goes in accidentally. It's happened to me a few hundred times.

Towels are worn by some at Wet Dreams, because the boys just got out of the shower show. The rest wear underwear, but will lower it often. At 69, the boys are in their underwear and lower it often.

I read somewhere (Financial Samurai) that wealthy people should not have more than 40% of their net worth tied up in their house. So, with $2 Million net worth, someone's house should not exceed $800K. I've looked, and I can't buy a $800K one bedroom in Manhattan and feel wealthy. I'm looking at moving to Ft Lauderdale in 2 years, and even $800K there doesn't buy anything that would scream "wealthy".

You won't pay that little for taxes on a condo/co-op in a year in Manhattan, much less on an actual house in the West Village. I'm guessing a house in Manhattan in @pubic_assistance's neighborhood (West Village) starts at $12-15 Million. So, $90,000/year in taxes is less than 1% of the property value, which is about right.

That's the beauty of staying out in public and my going back for a private dance. If the dancer stops performing to my liking, I simply stop paying. And if I'm not paying enough, the dancer leaves. There's no need to negotiate up front that way.

Yes, yes, yes, yes My rule of thumb is to pay a dancer about 1/2 his private dance rate to stay with me in public and grope/kiss/massage/caress/suck. In the US where prices are typically $20-$25/song (3-5 minutes) for a private dance, I'll give the dancer $10/song to play with me publicly. At 69, where the dancers are fully nude in public, I gave 200-500 pesos ($11-28 US) every 5-10 minutes. In hindsight, I probably gave too much; because, it was impossible to get rid of a guy after I've had fun with him and was ready to move on to a new guy. If I had paid less, perhaps they would have moved on.

Nudity. Glute work. Sphincter massage. If a penis gets inserted, then only "Just the tip". Anything past the tip is escort territory.

I went through this when I first lived alone at the age of 20. Although still single at middle-age, I find it a comfort that I rent 2 of the bedrooms in my house to single straight men. Just hearing the movement of someone else in the house is comforting.

My good friend insists Mississippi is the land of straight black muscle. He drives through the state with his Grindr on and lots of closeted black men are available in every county to fuck his brains out on the down low. My frind is a chubby older white dude who doesn't hire; and, he says the black men there just crave his white fat ass.

If looking for a group of people known for: - Not changing their mind. - Always in the mood to have sex. - Not playing mind games. Women may be the LAST group you're looking for.