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I have a regular who will sometimes use "Babe" with me and I find that kind of sweet. 

I'm allergic to "Hun" - I've had (female) clerks occasionally use that, and I find it weird. 

In my own professional life, as a college professor, but in theatre, where things often are much more casual than in typical academia, our students all tend to refer to us by first names, which is fine. But I love when I get emails from freshmen calling me "Professor" lol. (I tell them my first name is fine.)

The oddest thing was a theatre director I worked with for a long time in a youth theatre company who often used to refer to me  as "Mr. [first name]" - especially around the kids. It made me feel like a character on a kid's TV show or something. 

On 11/12/2021 at 11:59 AM, Axiom2001 said:

I refer escorts and masseurs by their posted name. 

Even when their posted name is something like xxxBigCock4Uxxx? 

(A "test" on RM I often use - if their screenname is some gobbledygook like that, I check if they have a regular name listed along with their phone number (or in the ad itself). If they do, and I'm on the fence about hiring them, they earn a few points.)

1 hour ago, Jostar said:

I know right. Saw him last week. He a awesome power bottom

In my situation, it was more about me servicing him and enjoying all of his body, not a real top/bottom thing - which clearly means he's got some good versatility. 

Just now, sydneyboy said:

I might add I was writing in general terms with no specific reference to JamesHeart.

Yes - absolutely. I just wanted to emphasize that, as far as I know, JamesHeart doesn't do this, or at least, doesn't do it any more - since this thread is ostensibly about him. 

But yes, I hear you. Thanks!

1 hour ago, sydneyboy said:

If there is ever a passion killer this is it.

Well, let me emphasize that he didn't do that with me. I talked with him on the phone the night before, and I doublechecked the fee he had told me earlier, asking if that was a "base fee" or if that was it for the full hour, and he confirmed the latter. He did not ever ask for more than what he had originally quoted.

Now - here's an interesting twist. He texted me shortly after the appointment to thank me but to also let me know that the envelope I gave him was $20 short. But he wasn't mean about it, in fact offering that I could pay him next time and saying he assumed it was an honest mistake. (It was.) I apologized and gladly Venmo'd him the 20. But he really handled the whole thing with humor and grace, which some escorts definitely would not have. 

So I'm sorry that @Youngin4Massage somehow had a different and bad experience. But I can vouch that JamesHeart was wonderful with me. 

On 4/6/2021 at 11:58 AM, Jostar said:

Just recently seen this guy. He a sweet and awesome dude with full of energy. I'll definitely seeing him again.

I would second this. Saw him today and had a great time with him. No upselling or anything like that. A very genuine, sweet, sexy guy. And very very good at roleplay, for anyone that gets into that.

The opening music of Der Rosenkavalier is literally about sex - including a rather orgasmic horn fanfare towards the end of the prelude. 

There's also some literal "sex music" in Shostakovich's "Lady Macbeth Of Mtsensk" with a trombone comically giving us the graphic story...:-)

Yes! Absolutely loved it. It's a very powerful piece, beautifully performed and directed. I thought the music was gorgeous. And, one doesn't typically go to the opera to see a step dance, but wow, that was fun!

Unless there are issues with rights and royalties, I have to imagine the Met will release this on DVD. But at very least, I'm sure it will be on the "on demand" site soon enough. 

I don’t know. I was always tempted to hire him. But never did. If he were still active and looking like he did before, I’d go for it. 

17 minutes ago, jonnychgo said:

I know that not all Transmen are the same and YMMV, but I have to say that I have always been curious to "try" eating pussy just once.  DO NOT all get on me with the "yuck, gross, etc.  Wondering if if in your experience, the Trans providers you have hired practice good hygiene down there or just ignore it as they want nothing to do with being female anymore.  Sorry I have worded this so poorly.

 

J

Your post is totally fine. And yes, in my experience they have had very good hygiene. They have also been very in tune with their bodies and seem to be very proud of the genitals they have. And, they've all been very supportive of the idea that I'm pretty brand new to this and want to learn. So hopefully you'd find yourself in the same kind of company, with a transguy who is eager to help you learn something new and different. :-)

And btw, I have thoroughly enjoyed my experiments in "dining" down there. No, it won't ever replace sucking dick lol, but speaking as someone who enjoys using my tongue all over someone's body, it's nice to have finally gotten the chance to do this. 

When was Get Smart a radio show?? Are you sure? 

I'm trying to imagine Evan Hansen with a beard...

From what I've read and seen, it seems that he all of a sudden decided the album cover was "porn" after having supported the cover openly for many years. I would agree that he's just trying to get attention - and money. 

I *was* planning to see him when he was coming to Boston in September, but I just noticed that he seems not to be coming after all. In any case, I chatted with him a little on the RM site, and he seemed very personable and fun. 

Just now, PinkyPie said:

Oh that's ok I love small a lot reason why I say I'm a slut but I understand not for everyone

Oh no prob, lol - you should do what turns you on, of course!! :-)

I've had guys use their spit to "lube up" their cock before I suck it - that's kinda fun. :-)

1 minute ago, PinkyPie said:

Spitting on my ass and then sticking their dick inside me is the greatest feeling I'm not done with you baby not even close

For me, I'm not into anal sex, so that wouldn't turn me on lol - but having a guy spit in my face and stuff like that - incredibly hot. Or even just watching him spit across the room or something like that. :-)

13 minutes ago, davebk said:

Continues to be the hottest thing a man can do for me.  Makes me insane.

I have several fetishes - spitting is definitely the only "taboo" one to a lot of people. So when I meet a guy who's really into it, or who gets excited about trying it for the first time, it always makes for an extremely scorching hot time. So I agree with you!

3 minutes ago, tassojunior said:

i would eat used coffee grounds by the spoonful just to watch that barista move around. 

There's a great (though overdone) cabaret song called "Taylor, The Latte Boy" where this girl has a severe puppy dog crush on her barista. Sometimes I find myself humming that song while I'm in Starbucks - there are indeed often some cuties behind the counter...

2 hours ago, tassojunior said:

anything this Starbucks sells:

Just a bit of a gripe about Starbucks (which I do like a lot) and other coffee chains - how come they never have decaf "on tap?" Is it really that unpopular? I've always been a big coffee person, and in my line of work, I find I always want that mug of coffee while I'm teaching a class, or running a rehearsal, or doing a performance. But over the last year or so, I've decided to severely limit my caffeine, for health reasons. I'm fine with decaf. But to get it at a place like Starbucks, you either have to wait for a special pour-over, or wait for a decaf Americano - you can't just get a simple quick decaf. Which makes that de facto Starbucks run before a gig just a little more of a hassle. 

I used to have a coffeemaker in my office at school - but got rid of it because I almost never used it. I'm thinking about buying a new one this week. At least then I can make my decaf on my own time...

Anyone have any experience with this guy? (I could just go after his armpits for an hour lol.)

He's not responding to my text, or a request to unlock his private pics. I'm wondering what's up with him. 

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11 hours ago, E.T.Bass said:

But that's just me being me.

4 hours ago, FreshFluff said:

That’s fine. You do you. 

2 hours ago, mkm556 said:

Let's goooooo

Only someone really slimy (literally) can get away with saying that. 

Just now, jeezifonly said:

A Tony-Winning costume designer once included a rendering for “Scarpia Act III”

??

Perhaps it was one of those awful "konzept" productions where characters are made to appear when they're not called for? :-)

4 minutes ago, WilliamM said:

In your opinion. Perhaps you should apply to monitor this site. Go into monitor training as it were

I recently bought a nice new curved computer monitor. I can't tell you how or why it works optically, but I love the effect. So much nicer than the traditional kind. I think Gershwin, Porter and Berlin would agree. 

Encore, anyone? 

8 minutes ago, jeezifonly said:

An artist is paid for the performance once they show up. Whether or not they remain for final curtain calls when the character dies at the end of Act I is negotiable.

Agreed. And granted, while all the dead characters are going to take their bows after they die in the last act anyway, I do think Scarpia could wait out the relatively short 3rd act, for instance, so that the dead aren't coming back to life before the story is over. I'm not aware that any other form of theatre allows for such mid-show bows, and I think opera shouldn't either.