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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from DasMarquee in Responding to clients who say I love you   
    In my personal experience there are two ways in which this happens.
     
    The first and most common way, is after a shared intimacy, after a passionate session or few years of getting to know one another, he looks at you with a glint in his eye, says "I fucking love you, man" slaps your ass, smiling and moves unto something else. In my experience, when a session goes the way I want it to go, I fall in love a little, I feel butterflies a little, I cherish that special moment looking into each other's eyes, which makes it very easy for me to imagine he will also feel that.
     
    There is no promise, no contract, no attachment, no exchange of vows, and more importantly, no benefiting from the other's vulnerability. There is only love, encounter, tenderness, passion, all lived powerfully in a magic moment, then forgotten, till next time.
     
    The other way is when after one or many sessions you notice the client suffering, tentative, demanding a lot of attention, constantly trying to break the pre agreed privacy boundaries, asking for reassurance, information, promises, or a lot of time outside of the time you spend together. Sooner or later when together, he will break down and in a very emotional way he will say something like: "I have not been doing well, I am suffering so much because of my feelings for you... I love you so much that I _______". You get my drift.
     
    In this case, I listen attentively and compassionately and explain that under these circumstances I am unable to continue seeing him because that would only be damaging to him. I clarify that because of my professional ethical rules I will never -under any circumstance- start an emotional partnership with a client because I believe the power imbalances and mutual transferences and expectations will make the relationship unhealthy from the very beginning. I then strongly encourage him to look for professional help, someone with whom he can talk about this. Not another escort, who might potentially take advantage of his vulnerability, but a psychologist who might be better equipped to help him through that.
     
    I tend to prefer not to wait till all this happens and look for the signs of emotional attachment before they further develop.
     
    I have no problem with having a passionate, romantic boyfriend experience. Love traveling to romantic places with dear old clients of mine, with whom I can allow myself to be vulnerable and absolutely available because they understand, respect and celebrate the boundaries and nature of our relationship. What I won't do under any circumstance is keep seeing a client and charging him even if I know well that I will never be able to give him what he believes he wants. Making money out of heartbreak, to me, is just not an ethical thing.
     
    To me love and vulnerability have never been a problem. They are the goal.
     
    Attachement, expectations, blurred boundaries and emotional exploitation are an absolute no no. As soon as they show up, I will end the relationship.
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from + friendofsheila in Clever Drag Name   
    it might be that I am an escort, but the sexiest name that sends chills to my spine is:
     
    Summer Clearance
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from + easygoingpal in 411 on bigdickginger   
    Don't know him at all, but for the life of me I can't see any of the classic tell tell signs of photoshop on that picture.
     
    NYCman, I think you know what this means... you have to take one for the team and find out. =)
     
    Anything in the pursuit of knowledge!
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from + robear in 50: To Speedo, or not to Speedo?   
    My dear Friendofsheila,
     
    I am going to write something that might send some NorthAmerican sensibilities into a frenzied tizzy. I say fuck rules, fuck sensibilities, fuck aesthetics, fuck what others might think. I wholeheartedly recommend you to try on a few different pairs of bathing suits and when you find the one with which you feel the best, the most comfortable, the sexiest, the most mobile then commit to it and wear it with pride. Beyond abs, much father than herculean glutes and a behemoth of a bulge, there is nothing sexier than confidence, relaxation and to see a man who is at peace with what he is wearing, owns it and asks for nobody's permission.
     
    Life is so punily short, hard and elusively fleeting to waste any second of it.
     
    May you find the sexiest, most amazing pair that makes you feel that you love who you are now.
     
    Beach power to you, my brother!
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from Andy2 in 50: To Speedo, or not to Speedo?   
    My dear Friendofsheila,
     
    I am going to write something that might send some NorthAmerican sensibilities into a frenzied tizzy. I say fuck rules, fuck sensibilities, fuck aesthetics, fuck what others might think. I wholeheartedly recommend you to try on a few different pairs of bathing suits and when you find the one with which you feel the best, the most comfortable, the sexiest, the most mobile then commit to it and wear it with pride. Beyond abs, much father than herculean glutes and a behemoth of a bulge, there is nothing sexier than confidence, relaxation and to see a man who is at peace with what he is wearing, owns it and asks for nobody's permission.
     
    Life is so punily short, hard and elusively fleeting to waste any second of it.
     
    May you find the sexiest, most amazing pair that makes you feel that you love who you are now.
     
    Beach power to you, my brother!
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from Zapped in 50: To Speedo, or not to Speedo?   
    Charlie, you may have missed one other option.
     
    Your choice of what you do could also depend exclusively on what you yourself think about it and your degree of comfort with who you are and what you are wearing.
     
    Use yourself as a compass. We will never be able to please them all. They will always find a disgusting flaw in us, so you might as well just do as you wish.
     
    I am going to close with one of my favourite quotes of all times:
     
    “We probably wouldn't worry about what people think of us if we could know how seldom they do.”
     
    Olin Miller
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from + WmClarke in 50: To Speedo, or not to Speedo?   
    My dear Friendofsheila,
     
    I am going to write something that might send some NorthAmerican sensibilities into a frenzied tizzy. I say fuck rules, fuck sensibilities, fuck aesthetics, fuck what others might think. I wholeheartedly recommend you to try on a few different pairs of bathing suits and when you find the one with which you feel the best, the most comfortable, the sexiest, the most mobile then commit to it and wear it with pride. Beyond abs, much father than herculean glutes and a behemoth of a bulge, there is nothing sexier than confidence, relaxation and to see a man who is at peace with what he is wearing, owns it and asks for nobody's permission.
     
    Life is so punily short, hard and elusively fleeting to waste any second of it.
     
    May you find the sexiest, most amazing pair that makes you feel that you love who you are now.
     
    Beach power to you, my brother!
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from + Summerson in 50: To Speedo, or not to Speedo?   
    "The small man
    Builds cages for everyone
    He Knows.
     
    While the sage,
    Who has to duck his head
    When the moon is low,
    Keeps dropping keys all night long
    For the
    Beautiful
    Rowdy
    Prisoners."
     
    --Hafiz
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from SeattleWorkingMan in 411 Juan Bruno   
    Hello, gentlemen! (And all)
     
    It would appear that the rumours of my demise have been greatly exaggerated.
     
    Thank you for your kind words, and for all your opinions. Yes, I have been away from this forum for a year. A kind soul told me that there were a few questions being asked about me, so I thought I'd stop by and answer them to the best of my ability.
     
    Yes, I am happily now living in the realm of the fully grown man. I am no spring chicken, nor I want to be, but I would imagine that if you want a young boy, you would not hire a 40 year old man. (You'd think).
     
    If you like grown men with lots of experience, I might be a good match for you, though.
     
    Even though it might feel vaguely flattering to think that some of you feel that me and my pictures have been in your lives for up to 20 years, I have only been escorting for 14 years, which I realize, in Hooker years it makes me 150.
     
    While two dick pictures in my profile are indeed very old, I have kept them thinking my dick looks exactly the same. (It must be all that dick botox). If you saw pictures of me older than 6 years ago you would find it hard to believe I am the same person. (I am not. I was a boy with a boy body then, now I am a man).
     
    One third of my pics are from this year. The other third from last year. The rest are as old as two years old. (exception made of those two dick pics) As soon as I stop looking the same, I discontinue them but like to keep oldish pics just to create continuity in my visual identity. If you want to see pictures that are less than one week old, please refer to the ones at the bottom of this message.
     
    I realize that for some of you I will still be 75 years old, using pictures from the early daguerrotype days. I have to make my peace with that. In this time in which factual information has no weight, I am not shocked to see this also applies to escorts.
     
    Also, I include PNP in my ad because I am perfectly comfortable if my client is partaking in relaxing stuff. I am not comfortable around clients doing the harsh chemicals. Personally, the risks far outweighs the pay off. All hail Pot and Poppers! Mostly my client partakes, while I take care of him sober.
     
    Lastly, BabyBoomer, I didn't delete that post. I am glad you shared it. Thank you! I still stand for every word in it. My guess is that the powers that be might have disliked the unflattering portrait I painted of this community and some of its members, and decided to take it down. Truth is I don't know.
     
    On a different note... Yes, Thor is an entirely beautiful man all around. If I had to choose who to fuck between me and him I would also choose him, which I did. He is very happily retired and has absolutely no interest in any kind of proposal. Thanks for your kind words about him.
     
    Without much further ado, I again thank you for your kind words. I wish you are all well and happy, and I hope everyone will treat you with the same kindness you show others.
     
    Should you have any other question about my services, please feel free to email me at juanbruno@me.com.
     
    Hugs and good wishes,
     
    Juan Bruno
     
    www.rentmen.com/juanbruno
     


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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from + Axiom2001 in 411 Juan Bruno   
    Hello, gentlemen! (And all)
     
    It would appear that the rumours of my demise have been greatly exaggerated.
     
    Thank you for your kind words, and for all your opinions. Yes, I have been away from this forum for a year. A kind soul told me that there were a few questions being asked about me, so I thought I'd stop by and answer them to the best of my ability.
     
    Yes, I am happily now living in the realm of the fully grown man. I am no spring chicken, nor I want to be, but I would imagine that if you want a young boy, you would not hire a 40 year old man. (You'd think).
     
    If you like grown men with lots of experience, I might be a good match for you, though.
     
    Even though it might feel vaguely flattering to think that some of you feel that me and my pictures have been in your lives for up to 20 years, I have only been escorting for 14 years, which I realize, in Hooker years it makes me 150.
     
    While two dick pictures in my profile are indeed very old, I have kept them thinking my dick looks exactly the same. (It must be all that dick botox). If you saw pictures of me older than 6 years ago you would find it hard to believe I am the same person. (I am not. I was a boy with a boy body then, now I am a man).
     
    One third of my pics are from this year. The other third from last year. The rest are as old as two years old. (exception made of those two dick pics) As soon as I stop looking the same, I discontinue them but like to keep oldish pics just to create continuity in my visual identity. If you want to see pictures that are less than one week old, please refer to the ones at the bottom of this message.
     
    I realize that for some of you I will still be 75 years old, using pictures from the early daguerrotype days. I have to make my peace with that. In this time in which factual information has no weight, I am not shocked to see this also applies to escorts.
     
    Also, I include PNP in my ad because I am perfectly comfortable if my client is partaking in relaxing stuff. I am not comfortable around clients doing the harsh chemicals. Personally, the risks far outweighs the pay off. All hail Pot and Poppers! Mostly my client partakes, while I take care of him sober.
     
    Lastly, BabyBoomer, I didn't delete that post. I am glad you shared it. Thank you! I still stand for every word in it. My guess is that the powers that be might have disliked the unflattering portrait I painted of this community and some of its members, and decided to take it down. Truth is I don't know.
     
    On a different note... Yes, Thor is an entirely beautiful man all around. If I had to choose who to fuck between me and him I would also choose him, which I did. He is very happily retired and has absolutely no interest in any kind of proposal. Thanks for your kind words about him.
     
    Without much further ado, I again thank you for your kind words. I wish you are all well and happy, and I hope everyone will treat you with the same kindness you show others.
     
    Should you have any other question about my services, please feel free to email me at juanbruno@me.com.
     
    Hugs and good wishes,
     
    Juan Bruno
     
    www.rentmen.com/juanbruno
     


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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from + pitman in 411 Juan Bruno   
    Hello, gentlemen! (And all)
     
    It would appear that the rumours of my demise have been greatly exaggerated.
     
    Thank you for your kind words, and for all your opinions. Yes, I have been away from this forum for a year. A kind soul told me that there were a few questions being asked about me, so I thought I'd stop by and answer them to the best of my ability.
     
    Yes, I am happily now living in the realm of the fully grown man. I am no spring chicken, nor I want to be, but I would imagine that if you want a young boy, you would not hire a 40 year old man. (You'd think).
     
    If you like grown men with lots of experience, I might be a good match for you, though.
     
    Even though it might feel vaguely flattering to think that some of you feel that me and my pictures have been in your lives for up to 20 years, I have only been escorting for 14 years, which I realize, in Hooker years it makes me 150.
     
    While two dick pictures in my profile are indeed very old, I have kept them thinking my dick looks exactly the same. (It must be all that dick botox). If you saw pictures of me older than 6 years ago you would find it hard to believe I am the same person. (I am not. I was a boy with a boy body then, now I am a man).
     
    One third of my pics are from this year. The other third from last year. The rest are as old as two years old. (exception made of those two dick pics) As soon as I stop looking the same, I discontinue them but like to keep oldish pics just to create continuity in my visual identity. If you want to see pictures that are less than one week old, please refer to the ones at the bottom of this message.
     
    I realize that for some of you I will still be 75 years old, using pictures from the early daguerrotype days. I have to make my peace with that. In this time in which factual information has no weight, I am not shocked to see this also applies to escorts.
     
    Also, I include PNP in my ad because I am perfectly comfortable if my client is partaking in relaxing stuff. I am not comfortable around clients doing the harsh chemicals. Personally, the risks far outweighs the pay off. All hail Pot and Poppers! Mostly my client partakes, while I take care of him sober.
     
    Lastly, BabyBoomer, I didn't delete that post. I am glad you shared it. Thank you! I still stand for every word in it. My guess is that the powers that be might have disliked the unflattering portrait I painted of this community and some of its members, and decided to take it down. Truth is I don't know.
     
    On a different note... Yes, Thor is an entirely beautiful man all around. If I had to choose who to fuck between me and him I would also choose him, which I did. He is very happily retired and has absolutely no interest in any kind of proposal. Thanks for your kind words about him.
     
    Without much further ado, I again thank you for your kind words. I wish you are all well and happy, and I hope everyone will treat you with the same kindness you show others.
     
    Should you have any other question about my services, please feel free to email me at juanbruno@me.com.
     
    Hugs and good wishes,
     
    Juan Bruno
     
    www.rentmen.com/juanbruno
     


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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from KCRob in 411 Juan Bruno   
    Thanks again, folks. Best wishes to everyone!
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from KCRob in 411 Juan Bruno   
    Thanks again, folks. Best wishes to everyone!
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from Ghadd in 411 Juan Bruno   
    Hello, gentlemen! (And all)
     
    It would appear that the rumours of my demise have been greatly exaggerated.
     
    Thank you for your kind words, and for all your opinions. Yes, I have been away from this forum for a year. A kind soul told me that there were a few questions being asked about me, so I thought I'd stop by and answer them to the best of my ability.
     
    Yes, I am happily now living in the realm of the fully grown man. I am no spring chicken, nor I want to be, but I would imagine that if you want a young boy, you would not hire a 40 year old man. (You'd think).
     
    If you like grown men with lots of experience, I might be a good match for you, though.
     
    Even though it might feel vaguely flattering to think that some of you feel that me and my pictures have been in your lives for up to 20 years, I have only been escorting for 14 years, which I realize, in Hooker years it makes me 150.
     
    While two dick pictures in my profile are indeed very old, I have kept them thinking my dick looks exactly the same. (It must be all that dick botox). If you saw pictures of me older than 6 years ago you would find it hard to believe I am the same person. (I am not. I was a boy with a boy body then, now I am a man).
     
    One third of my pics are from this year. The other third from last year. The rest are as old as two years old. (exception made of those two dick pics) As soon as I stop looking the same, I discontinue them but like to keep oldish pics just to create continuity in my visual identity. If you want to see pictures that are less than one week old, please refer to the ones at the bottom of this message.
     
    I realize that for some of you I will still be 75 years old, using pictures from the early daguerrotype days. I have to make my peace with that. In this time in which factual information has no weight, I am not shocked to see this also applies to escorts.
     
    Also, I include PNP in my ad because I am perfectly comfortable if my client is partaking in relaxing stuff. I am not comfortable around clients doing the harsh chemicals. Personally, the risks far outweighs the pay off. All hail Pot and Poppers! Mostly my client partakes, while I take care of him sober.
     
    Lastly, BabyBoomer, I didn't delete that post. I am glad you shared it. Thank you! I still stand for every word in it. My guess is that the powers that be might have disliked the unflattering portrait I painted of this community and some of its members, and decided to take it down. Truth is I don't know.
     
    On a different note... Yes, Thor is an entirely beautiful man all around. If I had to choose who to fuck between me and him I would also choose him, which I did. He is very happily retired and has absolutely no interest in any kind of proposal. Thanks for your kind words about him.
     
    Without much further ado, I again thank you for your kind words. I wish you are all well and happy, and I hope everyone will treat you with the same kindness you show others.
     
    Should you have any other question about my services, please feel free to email me at juanbruno@me.com.
     
    Hugs and good wishes,
     
    Juan Bruno
     
    www.rentmen.com/juanbruno
     


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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from beachboy in 411 Juan Bruno   
    Hello, gentlemen! (And all)
     
    It would appear that the rumours of my demise have been greatly exaggerated.
     
    Thank you for your kind words, and for all your opinions. Yes, I have been away from this forum for a year. A kind soul told me that there were a few questions being asked about me, so I thought I'd stop by and answer them to the best of my ability.
     
    Yes, I am happily now living in the realm of the fully grown man. I am no spring chicken, nor I want to be, but I would imagine that if you want a young boy, you would not hire a 40 year old man. (You'd think).
     
    If you like grown men with lots of experience, I might be a good match for you, though.
     
    Even though it might feel vaguely flattering to think that some of you feel that me and my pictures have been in your lives for up to 20 years, I have only been escorting for 14 years, which I realize, in Hooker years it makes me 150.
     
    While two dick pictures in my profile are indeed very old, I have kept them thinking my dick looks exactly the same. (It must be all that dick botox). If you saw pictures of me older than 6 years ago you would find it hard to believe I am the same person. (I am not. I was a boy with a boy body then, now I am a man).
     
    One third of my pics are from this year. The other third from last year. The rest are as old as two years old. (exception made of those two dick pics) As soon as I stop looking the same, I discontinue them but like to keep oldish pics just to create continuity in my visual identity. If you want to see pictures that are less than one week old, please refer to the ones at the bottom of this message.
     
    I realize that for some of you I will still be 75 years old, using pictures from the early daguerrotype days. I have to make my peace with that. In this time in which factual information has no weight, I am not shocked to see this also applies to escorts.
     
    Also, I include PNP in my ad because I am perfectly comfortable if my client is partaking in relaxing stuff. I am not comfortable around clients doing the harsh chemicals. Personally, the risks far outweighs the pay off. All hail Pot and Poppers! Mostly my client partakes, while I take care of him sober.
     
    Lastly, BabyBoomer, I didn't delete that post. I am glad you shared it. Thank you! I still stand for every word in it. My guess is that the powers that be might have disliked the unflattering portrait I painted of this community and some of its members, and decided to take it down. Truth is I don't know.
     
    On a different note... Yes, Thor is an entirely beautiful man all around. If I had to choose who to fuck between me and him I would also choose him, which I did. He is very happily retired and has absolutely no interest in any kind of proposal. Thanks for your kind words about him.
     
    Without much further ado, I again thank you for your kind words. I wish you are all well and happy, and I hope everyone will treat you with the same kindness you show others.
     
    Should you have any other question about my services, please feel free to email me at juanbruno@me.com.
     
    Hugs and good wishes,
     
    Juan Bruno
     
    www.rentmen.com/juanbruno
     


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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from desertguy1954 in 411 Juan Bruno   
    Hello, gentlemen! (And all)
     
    It would appear that the rumours of my demise have been greatly exaggerated.
     
    Thank you for your kind words, and for all your opinions. Yes, I have been away from this forum for a year. A kind soul told me that there were a few questions being asked about me, so I thought I'd stop by and answer them to the best of my ability.
     
    Yes, I am happily now living in the realm of the fully grown man. I am no spring chicken, nor I want to be, but I would imagine that if you want a young boy, you would not hire a 40 year old man. (You'd think).
     
    If you like grown men with lots of experience, I might be a good match for you, though.
     
    Even though it might feel vaguely flattering to think that some of you feel that me and my pictures have been in your lives for up to 20 years, I have only been escorting for 14 years, which I realize, in Hooker years it makes me 150.
     
    While two dick pictures in my profile are indeed very old, I have kept them thinking my dick looks exactly the same. (It must be all that dick botox). If you saw pictures of me older than 6 years ago you would find it hard to believe I am the same person. (I am not. I was a boy with a boy body then, now I am a man).
     
    One third of my pics are from this year. The other third from last year. The rest are as old as two years old. (exception made of those two dick pics) As soon as I stop looking the same, I discontinue them but like to keep oldish pics just to create continuity in my visual identity. If you want to see pictures that are less than one week old, please refer to the ones at the bottom of this message.
     
    I realize that for some of you I will still be 75 years old, using pictures from the early daguerrotype days. I have to make my peace with that. In this time in which factual information has no weight, I am not shocked to see this also applies to escorts.
     
    Also, I include PNP in my ad because I am perfectly comfortable if my client is partaking in relaxing stuff. I am not comfortable around clients doing the harsh chemicals. Personally, the risks far outweighs the pay off. All hail Pot and Poppers! Mostly my client partakes, while I take care of him sober.
     
    Lastly, BabyBoomer, I didn't delete that post. I am glad you shared it. Thank you! I still stand for every word in it. My guess is that the powers that be might have disliked the unflattering portrait I painted of this community and some of its members, and decided to take it down. Truth is I don't know.
     
    On a different note... Yes, Thor is an entirely beautiful man all around. If I had to choose who to fuck between me and him I would also choose him, which I did. He is very happily retired and has absolutely no interest in any kind of proposal. Thanks for your kind words about him.
     
    Without much further ado, I again thank you for your kind words. I wish you are all well and happy, and I hope everyone will treat you with the same kindness you show others.
     
    Should you have any other question about my services, please feel free to email me at juanbruno@me.com.
     
    Hugs and good wishes,
     
    Juan Bruno
     
    www.rentmen.com/juanbruno
     


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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from + newatthis in 411 Juan Bruno   
    Hello, gentlemen! (And all)
     
    It would appear that the rumours of my demise have been greatly exaggerated.
     
    Thank you for your kind words, and for all your opinions. Yes, I have been away from this forum for a year. A kind soul told me that there were a few questions being asked about me, so I thought I'd stop by and answer them to the best of my ability.
     
    Yes, I am happily now living in the realm of the fully grown man. I am no spring chicken, nor I want to be, but I would imagine that if you want a young boy, you would not hire a 40 year old man. (You'd think).
     
    If you like grown men with lots of experience, I might be a good match for you, though.
     
    Even though it might feel vaguely flattering to think that some of you feel that me and my pictures have been in your lives for up to 20 years, I have only been escorting for 14 years, which I realize, in Hooker years it makes me 150.
     
    While two dick pictures in my profile are indeed very old, I have kept them thinking my dick looks exactly the same. (It must be all that dick botox). If you saw pictures of me older than 6 years ago you would find it hard to believe I am the same person. (I am not. I was a boy with a boy body then, now I am a man).
     
    One third of my pics are from this year. The other third from last year. The rest are as old as two years old. (exception made of those two dick pics) As soon as I stop looking the same, I discontinue them but like to keep oldish pics just to create continuity in my visual identity. If you want to see pictures that are less than one week old, please refer to the ones at the bottom of this message.
     
    I realize that for some of you I will still be 75 years old, using pictures from the early daguerrotype days. I have to make my peace with that. In this time in which factual information has no weight, I am not shocked to see this also applies to escorts.
     
    Also, I include PNP in my ad because I am perfectly comfortable if my client is partaking in relaxing stuff. I am not comfortable around clients doing the harsh chemicals. Personally, the risks far outweighs the pay off. All hail Pot and Poppers! Mostly my client partakes, while I take care of him sober.
     
    Lastly, BabyBoomer, I didn't delete that post. I am glad you shared it. Thank you! I still stand for every word in it. My guess is that the powers that be might have disliked the unflattering portrait I painted of this community and some of its members, and decided to take it down. Truth is I don't know.
     
    On a different note... Yes, Thor is an entirely beautiful man all around. If I had to choose who to fuck between me and him I would also choose him, which I did. He is very happily retired and has absolutely no interest in any kind of proposal. Thanks for your kind words about him.
     
    Without much further ado, I again thank you for your kind words. I wish you are all well and happy, and I hope everyone will treat you with the same kindness you show others.
     
    Should you have any other question about my services, please feel free to email me at juanbruno@me.com.
     
    Hugs and good wishes,
     
    Juan Bruno
     
    www.rentmen.com/juanbruno
     


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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from + sam.fitzpatrick in 411 Juan Bruno   
    Hello, gentlemen! (And all)
     
    It would appear that the rumours of my demise have been greatly exaggerated.
     
    Thank you for your kind words, and for all your opinions. Yes, I have been away from this forum for a year. A kind soul told me that there were a few questions being asked about me, so I thought I'd stop by and answer them to the best of my ability.
     
    Yes, I am happily now living in the realm of the fully grown man. I am no spring chicken, nor I want to be, but I would imagine that if you want a young boy, you would not hire a 40 year old man. (You'd think).
     
    If you like grown men with lots of experience, I might be a good match for you, though.
     
    Even though it might feel vaguely flattering to think that some of you feel that me and my pictures have been in your lives for up to 20 years, I have only been escorting for 14 years, which I realize, in Hooker years it makes me 150.
     
    While two dick pictures in my profile are indeed very old, I have kept them thinking my dick looks exactly the same. (It must be all that dick botox). If you saw pictures of me older than 6 years ago you would find it hard to believe I am the same person. (I am not. I was a boy with a boy body then, now I am a man).
     
    One third of my pics are from this year. The other third from last year. The rest are as old as two years old. (exception made of those two dick pics) As soon as I stop looking the same, I discontinue them but like to keep oldish pics just to create continuity in my visual identity. If you want to see pictures that are less than one week old, please refer to the ones at the bottom of this message.
     
    I realize that for some of you I will still be 75 years old, using pictures from the early daguerrotype days. I have to make my peace with that. In this time in which factual information has no weight, I am not shocked to see this also applies to escorts.
     
    Also, I include PNP in my ad because I am perfectly comfortable if my client is partaking in relaxing stuff. I am not comfortable around clients doing the harsh chemicals. Personally, the risks far outweighs the pay off. All hail Pot and Poppers! Mostly my client partakes, while I take care of him sober.
     
    Lastly, BabyBoomer, I didn't delete that post. I am glad you shared it. Thank you! I still stand for every word in it. My guess is that the powers that be might have disliked the unflattering portrait I painted of this community and some of its members, and decided to take it down. Truth is I don't know.
     
    On a different note... Yes, Thor is an entirely beautiful man all around. If I had to choose who to fuck between me and him I would also choose him, which I did. He is very happily retired and has absolutely no interest in any kind of proposal. Thanks for your kind words about him.
     
    Without much further ado, I again thank you for your kind words. I wish you are all well and happy, and I hope everyone will treat you with the same kindness you show others.
     
    Should you have any other question about my services, please feel free to email me at juanbruno@me.com.
     
    Hugs and good wishes,
     
    Juan Bruno
     
    www.rentmen.com/juanbruno
     


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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from KCRob in 411 Juan Bruno   
    Hello, gentlemen! (And all)
     
    It would appear that the rumours of my demise have been greatly exaggerated.
     
    Thank you for your kind words, and for all your opinions. Yes, I have been away from this forum for a year. A kind soul told me that there were a few questions being asked about me, so I thought I'd stop by and answer them to the best of my ability.
     
    Yes, I am happily now living in the realm of the fully grown man. I am no spring chicken, nor I want to be, but I would imagine that if you want a young boy, you would not hire a 40 year old man. (You'd think).
     
    If you like grown men with lots of experience, I might be a good match for you, though.
     
    Even though it might feel vaguely flattering to think that some of you feel that me and my pictures have been in your lives for up to 20 years, I have only been escorting for 14 years, which I realize, in Hooker years it makes me 150.
     
    While two dick pictures in my profile are indeed very old, I have kept them thinking my dick looks exactly the same. (It must be all that dick botox). If you saw pictures of me older than 6 years ago you would find it hard to believe I am the same person. (I am not. I was a boy with a boy body then, now I am a man).
     
    One third of my pics are from this year. The other third from last year. The rest are as old as two years old. (exception made of those two dick pics) As soon as I stop looking the same, I discontinue them but like to keep oldish pics just to create continuity in my visual identity. If you want to see pictures that are less than one week old, please refer to the ones at the bottom of this message.
     
    I realize that for some of you I will still be 75 years old, using pictures from the early daguerrotype days. I have to make my peace with that. In this time in which factual information has no weight, I am not shocked to see this also applies to escorts.
     
    Also, I include PNP in my ad because I am perfectly comfortable if my client is partaking in relaxing stuff. I am not comfortable around clients doing the harsh chemicals. Personally, the risks far outweighs the pay off. All hail Pot and Poppers! Mostly my client partakes, while I take care of him sober.
     
    Lastly, BabyBoomer, I didn't delete that post. I am glad you shared it. Thank you! I still stand for every word in it. My guess is that the powers that be might have disliked the unflattering portrait I painted of this community and some of its members, and decided to take it down. Truth is I don't know.
     
    On a different note... Yes, Thor is an entirely beautiful man all around. If I had to choose who to fuck between me and him I would also choose him, which I did. He is very happily retired and has absolutely no interest in any kind of proposal. Thanks for your kind words about him.
     
    Without much further ado, I again thank you for your kind words. I wish you are all well and happy, and I hope everyone will treat you with the same kindness you show others.
     
    Should you have any other question about my services, please feel free to email me at juanbruno@me.com.
     
    Hugs and good wishes,
     
    Juan Bruno
     
    www.rentmen.com/juanbruno
     


  20. Like
    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from caliguy in 411 Juan Bruno   
    Hello, gentlemen! (And all)
     
    It would appear that the rumours of my demise have been greatly exaggerated.
     
    Thank you for your kind words, and for all your opinions. Yes, I have been away from this forum for a year. A kind soul told me that there were a few questions being asked about me, so I thought I'd stop by and answer them to the best of my ability.
     
    Yes, I am happily now living in the realm of the fully grown man. I am no spring chicken, nor I want to be, but I would imagine that if you want a young boy, you would not hire a 40 year old man. (You'd think).
     
    If you like grown men with lots of experience, I might be a good match for you, though.
     
    Even though it might feel vaguely flattering to think that some of you feel that me and my pictures have been in your lives for up to 20 years, I have only been escorting for 14 years, which I realize, in Hooker years it makes me 150.
     
    While two dick pictures in my profile are indeed very old, I have kept them thinking my dick looks exactly the same. (It must be all that dick botox). If you saw pictures of me older than 6 years ago you would find it hard to believe I am the same person. (I am not. I was a boy with a boy body then, now I am a man).
     
    One third of my pics are from this year. The other third from last year. The rest are as old as two years old. (exception made of those two dick pics) As soon as I stop looking the same, I discontinue them but like to keep oldish pics just to create continuity in my visual identity. If you want to see pictures that are less than one week old, please refer to the ones at the bottom of this message.
     
    I realize that for some of you I will still be 75 years old, using pictures from the early daguerrotype days. I have to make my peace with that. In this time in which factual information has no weight, I am not shocked to see this also applies to escorts.
     
    Also, I include PNP in my ad because I am perfectly comfortable if my client is partaking in relaxing stuff. I am not comfortable around clients doing the harsh chemicals. Personally, the risks far outweighs the pay off. All hail Pot and Poppers! Mostly my client partakes, while I take care of him sober.
     
    Lastly, BabyBoomer, I didn't delete that post. I am glad you shared it. Thank you! I still stand for every word in it. My guess is that the powers that be might have disliked the unflattering portrait I painted of this community and some of its members, and decided to take it down. Truth is I don't know.
     
    On a different note... Yes, Thor is an entirely beautiful man all around. If I had to choose who to fuck between me and him I would also choose him, which I did. He is very happily retired and has absolutely no interest in any kind of proposal. Thanks for your kind words about him.
     
    Without much further ado, I again thank you for your kind words. I wish you are all well and happy, and I hope everyone will treat you with the same kindness you show others.
     
    Should you have any other question about my services, please feel free to email me at juanbruno@me.com.
     
    Hugs and good wishes,
     
    Juan Bruno
     
    www.rentmen.com/juanbruno
     


  21. Like
    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from + Just Sayin in 411 Juan Bruno   
    Hello, gentlemen! (And all)
     
    It would appear that the rumours of my demise have been greatly exaggerated.
     
    Thank you for your kind words, and for all your opinions. Yes, I have been away from this forum for a year. A kind soul told me that there were a few questions being asked about me, so I thought I'd stop by and answer them to the best of my ability.
     
    Yes, I am happily now living in the realm of the fully grown man. I am no spring chicken, nor I want to be, but I would imagine that if you want a young boy, you would not hire a 40 year old man. (You'd think).
     
    If you like grown men with lots of experience, I might be a good match for you, though.
     
    Even though it might feel vaguely flattering to think that some of you feel that me and my pictures have been in your lives for up to 20 years, I have only been escorting for 14 years, which I realize, in Hooker years it makes me 150.
     
    While two dick pictures in my profile are indeed very old, I have kept them thinking my dick looks exactly the same. (It must be all that dick botox). If you saw pictures of me older than 6 years ago you would find it hard to believe I am the same person. (I am not. I was a boy with a boy body then, now I am a man).
     
    One third of my pics are from this year. The other third from last year. The rest are as old as two years old. (exception made of those two dick pics) As soon as I stop looking the same, I discontinue them but like to keep oldish pics just to create continuity in my visual identity. If you want to see pictures that are less than one week old, please refer to the ones at the bottom of this message.
     
    I realize that for some of you I will still be 75 years old, using pictures from the early daguerrotype days. I have to make my peace with that. In this time in which factual information has no weight, I am not shocked to see this also applies to escorts.
     
    Also, I include PNP in my ad because I am perfectly comfortable if my client is partaking in relaxing stuff. I am not comfortable around clients doing the harsh chemicals. Personally, the risks far outweighs the pay off. All hail Pot and Poppers! Mostly my client partakes, while I take care of him sober.
     
    Lastly, BabyBoomer, I didn't delete that post. I am glad you shared it. Thank you! I still stand for every word in it. My guess is that the powers that be might have disliked the unflattering portrait I painted of this community and some of its members, and decided to take it down. Truth is I don't know.
     
    On a different note... Yes, Thor is an entirely beautiful man all around. If I had to choose who to fuck between me and him I would also choose him, which I did. He is very happily retired and has absolutely no interest in any kind of proposal. Thanks for your kind words about him.
     
    Without much further ado, I again thank you for your kind words. I wish you are all well and happy, and I hope everyone will treat you with the same kindness you show others.
     
    Should you have any other question about my services, please feel free to email me at juanbruno@me.com.
     
    Hugs and good wishes,
     
    Juan Bruno
     
    www.rentmen.com/juanbruno
     


  22. Like
    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from hornytwells in 411 Juan Bruno   
    Hello, gentlemen! (And all)
     
    It would appear that the rumours of my demise have been greatly exaggerated.
     
    Thank you for your kind words, and for all your opinions. Yes, I have been away from this forum for a year. A kind soul told me that there were a few questions being asked about me, so I thought I'd stop by and answer them to the best of my ability.
     
    Yes, I am happily now living in the realm of the fully grown man. I am no spring chicken, nor I want to be, but I would imagine that if you want a young boy, you would not hire a 40 year old man. (You'd think).
     
    If you like grown men with lots of experience, I might be a good match for you, though.
     
    Even though it might feel vaguely flattering to think that some of you feel that me and my pictures have been in your lives for up to 20 years, I have only been escorting for 14 years, which I realize, in Hooker years it makes me 150.
     
    While two dick pictures in my profile are indeed very old, I have kept them thinking my dick looks exactly the same. (It must be all that dick botox). If you saw pictures of me older than 6 years ago you would find it hard to believe I am the same person. (I am not. I was a boy with a boy body then, now I am a man).
     
    One third of my pics are from this year. The other third from last year. The rest are as old as two years old. (exception made of those two dick pics) As soon as I stop looking the same, I discontinue them but like to keep oldish pics just to create continuity in my visual identity. If you want to see pictures that are less than one week old, please refer to the ones at the bottom of this message.
     
    I realize that for some of you I will still be 75 years old, using pictures from the early daguerrotype days. I have to make my peace with that. In this time in which factual information has no weight, I am not shocked to see this also applies to escorts.
     
    Also, I include PNP in my ad because I am perfectly comfortable if my client is partaking in relaxing stuff. I am not comfortable around clients doing the harsh chemicals. Personally, the risks far outweighs the pay off. All hail Pot and Poppers! Mostly my client partakes, while I take care of him sober.
     
    Lastly, BabyBoomer, I didn't delete that post. I am glad you shared it. Thank you! I still stand for every word in it. My guess is that the powers that be might have disliked the unflattering portrait I painted of this community and some of its members, and decided to take it down. Truth is I don't know.
     
    On a different note... Yes, Thor is an entirely beautiful man all around. If I had to choose who to fuck between me and him I would also choose him, which I did. He is very happily retired and has absolutely no interest in any kind of proposal. Thanks for your kind words about him.
     
    Without much further ado, I again thank you for your kind words. I wish you are all well and happy, and I hope everyone will treat you with the same kindness you show others.
     
    Should you have any other question about my services, please feel free to email me at juanbruno@me.com.
     
    Hugs and good wishes,
     
    Juan Bruno
     
    www.rentmen.com/juanbruno
     


  23. Like
    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from + g56whiz in 411 Juan Bruno   
    Hello, gentlemen! (And all)
     
    It would appear that the rumours of my demise have been greatly exaggerated.
     
    Thank you for your kind words, and for all your opinions. Yes, I have been away from this forum for a year. A kind soul told me that there were a few questions being asked about me, so I thought I'd stop by and answer them to the best of my ability.
     
    Yes, I am happily now living in the realm of the fully grown man. I am no spring chicken, nor I want to be, but I would imagine that if you want a young boy, you would not hire a 40 year old man. (You'd think).
     
    If you like grown men with lots of experience, I might be a good match for you, though.
     
    Even though it might feel vaguely flattering to think that some of you feel that me and my pictures have been in your lives for up to 20 years, I have only been escorting for 14 years, which I realize, in Hooker years it makes me 150.
     
    While two dick pictures in my profile are indeed very old, I have kept them thinking my dick looks exactly the same. (It must be all that dick botox). If you saw pictures of me older than 6 years ago you would find it hard to believe I am the same person. (I am not. I was a boy with a boy body then, now I am a man).
     
    One third of my pics are from this year. The other third from last year. The rest are as old as two years old. (exception made of those two dick pics) As soon as I stop looking the same, I discontinue them but like to keep oldish pics just to create continuity in my visual identity. If you want to see pictures that are less than one week old, please refer to the ones at the bottom of this message.
     
    I realize that for some of you I will still be 75 years old, using pictures from the early daguerrotype days. I have to make my peace with that. In this time in which factual information has no weight, I am not shocked to see this also applies to escorts.
     
    Also, I include PNP in my ad because I am perfectly comfortable if my client is partaking in relaxing stuff. I am not comfortable around clients doing the harsh chemicals. Personally, the risks far outweighs the pay off. All hail Pot and Poppers! Mostly my client partakes, while I take care of him sober.
     
    Lastly, BabyBoomer, I didn't delete that post. I am glad you shared it. Thank you! I still stand for every word in it. My guess is that the powers that be might have disliked the unflattering portrait I painted of this community and some of its members, and decided to take it down. Truth is I don't know.
     
    On a different note... Yes, Thor is an entirely beautiful man all around. If I had to choose who to fuck between me and him I would also choose him, which I did. He is very happily retired and has absolutely no interest in any kind of proposal. Thanks for your kind words about him.
     
    Without much further ado, I again thank you for your kind words. I wish you are all well and happy, and I hope everyone will treat you with the same kindness you show others.
     
    Should you have any other question about my services, please feel free to email me at juanbruno@me.com.
     
    Hugs and good wishes,
     
    Juan Bruno
     
    www.rentmen.com/juanbruno
     


  24. Like
    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from AJ Doyle in asking the escort if they are okay with your race.   
    Take care of yourself first. Make sure that you minimize the possibilities of you having an awful experience, with a hooker, no less. Put it all out on the first email or phone call. Phone call would work better because you can hear an unrehearsed honest response. If you perceive any hesitations, chose someone else.
     
    Life is too short for you to put your vulnerable and beautiful self in the hands of someone who might not handle it with the love and care it deserves.
     
    And don't ask the general "Do you have any restrictions when it comes to ____?".
     
    Directly, honestly state your stats. If you were 350 pounds don't write you are heavy boned, if you are of ay race, mention it, don't say you are mixed or something like that. The more info he gets and the more chances he gets to react to that, the more certain you'll be he might be a nice guy and will take good care of you if you meet.
     
    "But shouldn't all escort be able to deal with....?"
     
    Honestly, who cares! You come first. Take care of yourself. Only put yourself in hands of loving people. Learn to weed out the ones that aren't.
     
    A lot of clients might try to convince you to force the escorts to accept you, to not disclose, equating disclosure with some kind of acceptance of shame. The argument has been made before that letting the escort know in advance is abusive to yourself, as if not confessing the fear will make you love yourself better. Don't let yourself be dragged into this conversation.
     
    You come first. Put yourself only in situations in which you will have better chances of being treated lovingly.
  25. Like
    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from AndreFuture in Shit comes out when you are fucking a bottom   
    Yes it has happened. From the small, dainty hints of poo to the full catastrophic Richter scale 10 events.
     
    We are sticking our dicks in an ass, so we know the risks. If it happens, one tries as hard as one can to be light about it, and relaxed.
     
    You contain the issue as best as possible. You clean yourself up, ask the bottom to clean himself. If it was only a tiny hint sometimes it is possible to continue playing after a little shower. If it is a full contingency, I recommend the bottom evacuates, showers thoroughly and then we continue doing other things.
     
    If there is actual damage in the room I think it is wise to call it a day. There is no way to continue feeling sexy if walls, beds and furniture are smeared. (NO, this is not an exaggeration. People, learn to douche. It's a life saver!)
     

     
    I would one hundred percent recommend against this. Never re-douche during a session. The ass has little corners where water hides and if you don't let water be absorbed for at least half an hour, the water WILL come out, now in a different color and texture if you stick anything in there.
     
    The grossest accidents have ever happened when someone douches and jumps into playing. I can't warn you passionately enough.
     
    Don't.
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