Voltaire7

Cruising a prisoner and MP during the Boer war

I remember all of the men I've had sex with, but that's only the past ten years or so. Escorts I hired are the most vivid memories, the few craigslists hookups are less detailed because they were short encounters and less satisfactory.
 
I say, with some shame, that I couldn't begin to remember all of the girls and women I slept with before I met my wife, nor estimate how many there were. I was trying to prove to myself that I was straight, and was very promiscuous.

Amen to that!

Seriously!!?? What a lot to expect of Anthony Rapp. And why? To "protect" Spacey from something he has no reason to want to protect him from? And at what risk? Perhaps to expose himself to the suggestion that he wanted to blackmail Spacey?

Good to hear, because you've sure given that impression.

Anthony Rapp has a successful career. What does he possibly have to gain from this? And since the allegation is occurring at the time he says it, not at the time of the events in question, he IS exposed to a suit for slander by saying this. Kevin Spacey can't be touched for what he allegedly did at this point.
If he were some underemployed 40something coming out of the woodwork, yeah one might question the motives.
 
And did you look at the fucking pictures of Rapp from back then? He was 14, but he looked like he was 10 years old. I imagine he's coming out now in hopes of preventing Spacey from doing it again.

And you, krkwood, don't be so dismissive ...
 
Again: no denial from Spacey ... instead, the age-old excuse: "inappropriate drunken behavior."

Is it all hysteria? Or just this particular accusation?

In high school before I came out I had a huge crush on Heather Locklear (this was early 80s when she was in Dynasty).

Kate Beckinsale... I had a huge crush on her. She's gorgeous...........
http://orig04.deviantart.net/d987/f/2014/347/2/3/kate_beckinsale_hypno_ice_cream_by_thestonemiester1-d89qln6.jpg

Because I needed another reason to adore you ....
 
I've used the term "homoflexible" as one way to describe my sexual interests. The women I've crushed on aren't famous - just people I've encountered in my daily life. Earlier this summer I was at a party with friends and fell hard for a sorta-butch but apparently heterosexual (and absolutely beautiful) woman. We flirted a lot - she was whip-smart and gave me a verbal run for my money and then sat across from me at dinner. Fortunately the semi I had wasn't visible under the table.

Lol. Don't like labels but I grew up as a closeted man nd did enjoy sex with women by was always attracted to men. When I did take the plunge it's all men all the time.

You sure you're gay?

Oh please, don't tell me you guys can't get a little woody over this chestnut! (In this movie, she had Paul Lynde for a father. At least he accomplished something in regards to "kids".)
 

In chronological order...
 
Julie Newmar (Batman)
Barbara Feldon (Get Smart)
Kim Richards (Nanny and the Professor; Escape to Witch Mountain)
Lynda Carter (Wonder Woman)
My best friend's mother
Jane Curtain (Saturday Night Live)
Susan Sarandon (The Rocky Horror Picture Show)

Yeah, I'm also in the 'define sex' group. I can't remember a time I wasn't experimenting, I could have been the schoolmate with @sync . And no, there was no abuse. But later my dad did have a girlfriend who had a son about my age, so he and I were having sex to orgasm pretty much every weekend over a couple of years. We were 11-12. Then our parents split up, so I didn't see him for a while but I do remember the 'rents hooking up again a couple of years later and so the son and I were alone again overnight. At first he was all "I don't do that gay stuff anymore" but of course, he did.

I agree with the friends questioning the definition of "first time you had sex". So I am just going to bring the first association that came to my mind when I read the OP question.
 
My family was living in Buenos Aires, and we would travel every year to spend summer at the small town my parents were from. A cousin lived there, my same age. He was irresistibly attractive. I am not talking about me, he was irresistible for a lot of people, men and women. After he turned 15 he would fuck his teacher (a woman), several neighbors (men and women), and the town's catholic priest.
 
My memory was from a little bit earlier, when we were about thirteen years old. I was completely ignorant of sex, believe it or not. I would have erections watching TV, from women and from men, but would not understand what was that (my first cum had been a nocturnal ejaculation, I started masturbating after that). I remember walking into his bedroom when he was taking a nap, very early in the afternoon. I remember his smell intoxicating me, arousing me instantly. I think his smell was his super power, probably exceptional pheromones. I remember his respiration, in deep sleeping. I approached to his bed, I take his hands, put them on his chest without awaking him, getting close to his mouth to kiss him, and before even touching his lips, I remember the orgasm taking over me. It was the first time I realized my strong attraction for other boys. I started to arrange sleeping together with my cousin, and we would have sex without penetration faking we were sleeping. He became my first love, although he never loved me being too busy fucking half of the town. I would expend the whole year waiting for summer to be with him, masturbating and planning.
 
Later on, he moved from the small town to Santa Fe, a provincial capital, get into a relationship with a girl, and stop playing with men. He died in a car accident when we were 18 years old and I was In Buenos Aires getting into college. He was driving drunk with another male friend and two women, none of them was his girlfriend. He smashed the car on the front of a cargo truck.
 
His death was the final piece tat triggered my making peace with my homosexuality and finally coming out at age 21, including to my parents at age 23.

My God! I think we were together for a couple of weeks in the early sixties. He said he was married.