FTM Zachary Prince

I'm curious: do y'all send thank you notes to your doctors/dentists/lawyers/therapists after an appointment? Do y'all expect to receive them? I realize we don't all have the same understanding of the nature of client/escort relationships, but I tend to think of them as professional visits, so I never automatically send thank you notes or expect to receive them, unless I would like the relationship to develop into a different kind of friendship.

I'm (mostly) a Top but I love to swallow cum! Great responses from @JudasKane & @KennF ...

I'm (mostly) a Top but I love to swallow cum! Great responses from @JudasKane & @KennF ...

Labels describe. Labels don't define.
 
"Top" describes whose cock will be going into some "Bottom's" ass.
 
Being a "Top" doesn't define what other things they also do. Rimming, being rimmed, in your case swallowing, etc...
 
Top doesn't even define who is physically on top or who is in control. There are plenty of aggressive bottoms who like to fuck themselves on a guy's thick cock. In that position, the Top is on bottom and more passive, while the Bottom is on top doing most of the work.

Top/vers/bottom is merely an indicator of who would be doing anal penetration (or in the case of BDSM -- who is the active participant).
 
Imagine the possibilities if we didn't let this label for a single sexual activity (anal sex) limit the types of interactions that can take place between two (or more) people.
 
( Also, I top and I love swallowing. )

You do realize that scrub is not meant to be used on the tissue of the anus, right?
 
That promotes tearing, which in turn makes diseases easier to pass on or accept. These scrubs are meant for the cheeks, not the hole.

Long blowjobs are a pretty common occurrence for me... switching up techniques every few minutes keeps me from getting too tired. I honestly consider blowjobs to be a work of art when done properly. I like to use a lot of saliva and a lot of eye contact. I use my whole face in fact and consider a good BJ to be on the level of "cock worship" in terms of energy exchange.
 
I don't have any trouble finding partners who can last a long time during my blowjobs. I know how to tease, read how close someone is, and switch things up to keep someone on the edge rather than allowing them to sail over it.
 
Besides, a lot of guys only cum from jerking off or from fucking, and can receive a BJ virtually indefinitely without cumming. I HAVE managed to make a few guys cum from BJs who say that they never do otherwise.
 
I love to involve a little smooth prostate stroking along with a nice long BJ. The end result is infinitely more explosive...
 
Also, now I really wanna film myself sucking cock!!

Long blowjobs are a pretty common occurrence for me... switching up techniques every few minutes keeps me from getting too tired. I honestly consider blowjobs to be a work of art when done properly. I like to use a lot of saliva and a lot of eye contact. I use my whole face in fact and consider a good BJ to be on the level of "cock worship" in terms of energy exchange.
 
I don't have any trouble finding partners who can last a long time during my blowjobs. I know how to tease, read how close someone is, and switch things up to keep someone on the edge rather than allowing them to sail over it.
 
Besides, a lot of guys only cum from jerking off or from fucking, and can receive a BJ virtually indefinitely without cumming. I HAVE managed to make a few guys cum from BJs who say that they never do otherwise.
 
I love to involve a little smooth prostate stroking along with a nice long BJ. The end result is infinitely more explosive...
 
Also, now I really wanna film myself sucking cock!!

YUM

I gave someone a champagne enema once. Does that count ?

I am getting OLD and I get tired quickly now, So when I get tired of the sucking, I just raise their legs a bit and start tonguing their ass. The alternating back and force helps me last longer....

If you're street smart, future-thinking and can minimize the effects of age, it's a career. A great one.

Many professional athletes have relatively short "careers" because their athletic prime doesn't last beyond their 30s, but they stay involved in their sports in other ways, such as in coaching or managing. This thread made me wonder whether great escorts might extend their careers in the same way. A smart neophyte escort might do well by hiring Kevin Slater to coach him to a top ranking in the escort profession.

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Cock-sucking is like CARDIO... there's nothing like PRACTICE to improve performance & endurance!!
 
My neck usually gives out before my jaw so if that becomes an issue then I tend to alternate between rimming & sucking cock which seems to solve the problem... no complaints so far.

Lol I read the title and I thought this was about an escort entering your ass, making a few movements, and having an orgasm right away.

The vagueness of the term certainly leads to as many different interpretations as there are clients and providers.
However, I think a general impression can be culled from our individual ones: That BFE is just as much (if not more so) about compassionate mental-emotional affection and interaction as it is about whatever else may take place.
 
For me, it means that we spend time together and there's a general ebb and flow with our physical interaction as opposed to having a laundry list of physical acts to take place. A fair amount of time could be spent hand holding, cuddling, talking about the great mysteries of life, etc --- generally behaviors one may expect in an established relationship versus what behavior one may expect from picking someone up at a bar.
 
I think I would be remiss if I didn't mention a fantastic piece about BFE by @tylerthebadwolf for thought catalog - https://thoughtcatalog.com/tyler-darlig-ulv/2017/05/what-being-a-professional-companion-really-is-because-it-isnt-sex-work/

It's amazing just how relevant a 2006 Thread still is....

I could if my client was "into" that. I generally recommend doing them at least a few hours in advance to let everything settle down before we meet. Doing an enema for the first time feels odd and it may irritate your body slightly. Usually within a few hours afterward everything returns to normal-feeling down there for you, which is the ideal state for trying something new like bottoming.
 
More importantly, make sure you choose a Top who is talented with beginners. Your first experience can be painful & awkward or smooth & pleasurable, depending on the skill level of your Top. It's also great to practice opening up your ass a bit in advance on your own with a small butt plug if you can.

For some the former, for some the latter.
 
Kevin Slater

My last night in Sydney, I picked up a kid at a bar; took him to my room; and tied him up with all the luggage straps, and gave him a blow job.
 
OH! You were discussing Small Talk! Ooops ...

Stare blankly at the wall awaiting the next appointment.

Someone just told me he was asked:
 
What do you do in between appointments?

Lol I always am asked about what I'm studying and why, we talk about my pets and where I live. Little questions I think are nice to start to build a context for each other - the questions that are annoying that are asked frequently are:
 
Do your parents accept you?
What is your real name?
Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?
How long have you been doing this?

Occasionally it's because of a true emergency. Often it's simply lack of respect.
 
I can't say that this ever happens to me anymore because I make my clients jump thru lots of hoops to book me in the first place (tends to weed out those who aren't serious), but it sure used to happen a lot when I was newer to escorting.
 
Nowadays, I would never consider an Outcall "confirmed" if I didn't have the address. I would neither hold the time in my schedule for the client nor spend any of my time preparing for the meeting without the address. Unless perhaps it was a regular and he had a very good reason for not knowing the address in advance.
 
In my opinion, if you're not ready to give me your address then you're not really serious about the booking.