Monarchy79

As someone who has received a lot of racism in my own life, I think you are somewhat reaching with your use of the term “racist“..... and forgive me, but it’s hard to take the idea of racism seriously when the reasoning is because someone has a “type”, that they will or will not give a massage to ...lol
 
Racism is such a deeply-rooted institutionalized construct that has ruined and altered so many lives for generations, that it’s hard for me to take these “massage-racists” allegations seriously. Why? Because it doesn’t matter...
 
When I think of racism, I think of the linkages to prison populations with the criminal justice system, in which the bureau of federal prisons makes billions off of cheap prison labor.
 
When I think of racism, I think of the history of the socio-economic disenfranchisement of people of color, in business, real estate, education, and even the disparities of how our credit is reported.
 
So although I appreciate and respect your enthusiastic abborhence towards racism in this discussion.... please ask your self... is this really important?
 
There are issues with race that extend far beyond this that people never seem to want to address, which makes this forum topic quite ironic. Lol
 
So for me, as a black man, I’m more concerned with being shot by the cops, having a white woman call the cops on me for sitting in a Starbucks, racism on the job, and my overall state of well being in this country...
 
I could care less whether some dude prefers to massage me or not.

Instead of bumping go see him and report back.

Why do people assume that those who order escorts, do so because they can’t get laid for free?
 
I have a good friend who has a great body, good looks, has a successful career and CHOOSES to have a regular escort.
 
His reason? He can guarantee good sex, he will get exactly what’s expected, and he doesn’t have to deal with the bulllshit of dating, bars, apps, and all of those other things that brings out the worst in guys.

Good Post!!!
 
I think what bothers me most is how shallow, arrogant, delusional, and entitled men can be (both gay and straight)... a guy can be a “2”, and will affirm with ultimate confidence that he has no interest than anyone below a “7”.
 
On dating apps, there are fat old men, who strictly demand the company and dating of only slim, young men.
 
Although people have the right to have whatever preferences they choose, it cracks me the hell up how so many guys reach beyond their own “standing”, and absolutely degrade those that are actually their equals...
 
Now I’m a 39 year old black guy in average shape.... I find other black guys in my same age range in the same shape attractive.... do you know how many of these clowns in my same range refuse to even acknowledge my existence because they are reaching “higher”.... (yet never get what they are asking for) ???????
 
I just think that men in general have an extremely deluded sense of true self-awareness......

Good Post!!!
 
I think what bothers me most is how shallow, arrogant, delusional, and entitled men can be (both gay and straight)... a guy can be a “2”, and will affirm with ultimate confidence that he has no interest than anyone below a “7”.
 
On dating apps, there are fat old men, who strictly demand the company and dating of only slim, young men.
 
Although people have the right to have whatever preferences they choose, it cracks me the hell up how so many guys reach beyond their own “standing”, and absolutely degrade those that are actually their equals...
 
Now I’m a 39 year old black guy in average shape.... I find other black guys in my same age range in the same shape attractive.... do you know how many of these clowns in my same range refuse to even acknowledge my existence because they are reaching “higher”.... (yet never get what they are asking for) ???????
 
I just think that men in general have an extremely deluded sense of true self-awareness......

Good Post!!!
 
I think what bothers me most is how shallow, arrogant, delusional, and entitled men can be (both gay and straight)... a guy can be a “2”, and will affirm with ultimate confidence that he has no interest than anyone below a “7”.
 
On dating apps, there are fat old men, who strictly demand the company and dating of only slim, young men.
 
Although people have the right to have whatever preferences they choose, it cracks me the hell up how so many guys reach beyond their own “standing”, and absolutely degrade those that are actually their equals...
 
Now I’m a 39 year old black guy in average shape.... I find other black guys in my same age range in the same shape attractive.... do you know how many of these clowns in my same range refuse to even acknowledge my existence because they are reaching “higher”.... (yet never get what they are asking for) ???????
 
I just think that men in general have an extremely deluded sense of true self-awareness......

This goes to show how shallow and delusional men are....
 
I actually commend this overweight escort for his confidence.
 
What’s ironic is that he looks no different that most of the customers that escorts have.
 
Yes, I said it!!!
 
Many of you all will fat
shame and judge someone else, but demand “respect”, and consideration when the “troll shoe” is on your foot...
 
Many of you should be ashamed of yourselves.

This goes to show how shallow and delusional men are....
 
I actually commend this overweight escort for his confidence.
 
What’s ironic is that he looks no different that most of the customers that escorts have.
 
Yes, I said it!!!
 
Many of you all will fat
shame and judge someone else, but demand “respect”, and consideration when the “troll shoe” is on your foot...
 
Many of you should be ashamed of yourselves.

This goes to show how shallow and delusional men are....
 
I actually commend this overweight escort for his confidence.
 
What’s ironic is that he looks no different that most of the customers that escorts have.
 
Yes, I said it!!!
 
Many of you all will fat
shame and judge someone else, but demand “respect”, and consideration when the “troll shoe” is on your foot...
 
Many of you should be ashamed of yourselves.

People are such hipocrites... and the “customer is always right”, mentality is pure toxic bullshit.
 
If customers can post commentary on masseurs (many people tear them down and unfairly trash them with ill intent), then why can’t a masseur address an issue he had with a client? He didn’t mention the person’s name or any other identifying information.
 
As a customer, it makes my blood boil, how some of you think that just because you are paying for a service, that you have the “right”, to have one-sided benefits that cater to your egoes.
 
Some of you don’t realize it, but some of you are BAD CUSTOMERS and teeter along the lines of social retardation.
 
“Lavender Guy”, stalked this masseur on another site, then after being rejected, finds out he is a masseur, and then books an appointment with the intent of manipulating him into sex. When the masseur doesn’t fall for the catfishing, he then lies about an allergy and demands a refund.
This dude is beyond “involuntary celibacy”, and creeped me the hell out.
 
There’s no way he should be excused for his behavior, nor should the masseur keep quiet.
Actually, he should warn other masseurs about this guy... he’s a safety risk!!!

The plot thickens!!!
I knew there was more to this story... you didn’t provide him with the expected “services”, so he then demands a refund for his “allergy”....
 
?

People are such hipocrites... and the “customer is always right”, mentality is pure toxic bullshit.
 
If customers can post commentary on masseurs (many people tear them down and unfairly trash them with ill intent), then why can’t a masseur address an issue he had with a client? He didn’t mention the person’s name or any other identifying information.
 
As a customer, it makes my blood boil, how some of you think that just because you are paying for a service, that you have the “right”, to have one-sided benefits that cater to your egoes.
 
Some of you don’t realize it, but some of you are BAD CUSTOMERS and teeter along the lines of social retardation.
 
“Lavender Guy”, stalked this masseur on another site, then after being rejected, finds out he is a masseur, and then books an appointment with the intent of manipulating him into sex. When the masseur doesn’t fall for the catfishing, he then lies about an allergy and demands a refund.
This dude is beyond “involuntary celibacy”, and creeped me the hell out.
 
There’s no way he should be excused for his behavior, nor should the masseur keep quiet.
Actually, he should warn other masseurs about this guy... he’s a safety risk!!!

Don’t be tempted by the nice body. Tried him once and won’t again. Nice guy, but no... just no.

The plot thickens!!!
I knew there was more to this story... you didn’t provide him with the expected “services”, so he then demands a refund for his “allergy”....
 
?

Well... if you’re going to do it, go for the gusto..
 
I personally think most marriages (of all kinds) are shams:
 
1.) straight women marry for financial security
 
2.) straight men marry to have a woman cook, clean, manage his life and wash his dirty underwear.
 
3.) gay guys marry to combine incomes, and maximize vacation budgets and spending power (while screwing whomever they want in the process)
 
So the wedding is usually the best part of any marriage..
???

1.) If he’s allergic to lavender, I’m wonderig why he didn’t specify this allergy prior to the massage.
 
2.) Did he not smell the lavender as he was being massaged with the lotion? Lavender has a distinctive smell. I find it strange that he didn’t notice this during the massage.
 
3.) If you showed him pics of the lotion used, would he be willing to show you pics of his allergic reaction to the product?
 
I know I’m going to get slammed for this, but in my opinion, he shouldn’t be refunded. His allergy is HIS responsibility.
 
For example, if a customer has a specific food allergy, and they visit a restaurant and order a meal, they typically confirm if that ingredient is in the dish they want, prior to ordering it. They don’t eat the food, without verification, then demand a refund after they’ve eaten the food and have had an allergic reaction.
 
Lavender is a commonly used aromatherapy product. If one received a massage, it would make sense to ask if it is being used, if there’s an existing allergy.
 
However, if you do decide to give him a refund, inform your local peers in the business of this customer’s allergy.... just in case he’s running a scam.
 
Also, now you can ask prospective clients if they have any allergies before performing massages. ☺️

1.) If he’s allergic to lavender, I’m wonderig why he didn’t specify this allergy prior to the massage.
 
2.) Did he not smell the lavender as he was being massaged with the lotion? Lavender has a distinctive smell. I find it strange that he didn’t notice this during the massage.
 
3.) If you showed him pics of the lotion used, would he be willing to show you pics of his allergic reaction to the product?
 
I know I’m going to get slammed for this, but in my opinion, he shouldn’t be refunded. His allergy is HIS responsibility.
 
For example, if a customer has a specific food allergy, and they visit a restaurant and order a meal, they typically confirm if that ingredient is in the dish they want, prior to ordering it. They don’t eat the food, without verification, then demand a refund after they’ve eaten the food and have had an allergic reaction.
 
Lavender is a commonly used aromatherapy product. If one received a massage, it would make sense to ask if it is being used, if there’s an existing allergy.
 
However, if you do decide to give him a refund, inform your local peers in the business of this customer’s allergy.... just in case he’s running a scam.
 
Also, now you can ask prospective clients if they have any allergies before performing massages. ☺️

I really feel like the additional information Dale added to the scenario brough proper context to the situation. And it actually showed how manipulative the client was trying to be.

1.) If he’s allergic to lavender, I’m wonderig why he didn’t specify this allergy prior to the massage.
 
2.) Did he not smell the lavender as he was being massaged with the lotion? Lavender has a distinctive smell. I find it strange that he didn’t notice this during the massage.
 
3.) If you showed him pics of the lotion used, would he be willing to show you pics of his allergic reaction to the product?
 
I know I’m going to get slammed for this, but in my opinion, he shouldn’t be refunded. His allergy is HIS responsibility.
 
For example, if a customer has a specific food allergy, and they visit a restaurant and order a meal, they typically confirm if that ingredient is in the dish they want, prior to ordering it. They don’t eat the food, without verification, then demand a refund after they’ve eaten the food and have had an allergic reaction.
 
Lavender is a commonly used aromatherapy product. If one received a massage, it would make sense to ask if it is being used, if there’s an existing allergy.
 
However, if you do decide to give him a refund, inform your local peers in the business of this customer’s allergy.... just in case he’s running a scam.
 
Also, now you can ask prospective clients if they have any allergies before performing massages. ☺️

That’s quite disturbing and teeters along the lines of stalking. Be careful and aware of your surroundings.... because this dude sounds absolutely nuts.

1.) If he’s allergic to lavender, I’m wonderig why he didn’t specify this allergy prior to the massage.
 
2.) Did he not smell the lavender as he was being massaged with the lotion? Lavender has a distinctive smell. I find it strange that he didn’t notice this during the massage.
 
3.) If you showed him pics of the lotion used, would he be willing to show you pics of his allergic reaction to the product?
 
I know I’m going to get slammed for this, but in my opinion, he shouldn’t be refunded. His allergy is HIS responsibility.
 
For example, if a customer has a specific food allergy, and they visit a restaurant and order a meal, they typically confirm if that ingredient is in the dish they want, prior to ordering it. They don’t eat the food, without verification, then demand a refund after they’ve eaten the food and have had an allergic reaction.
 
Lavender is a commonly used aromatherapy product. If one received a massage, it would make sense to ask if it is being used, if there’s an existing allergy.
 
However, if you do decide to give him a refund, inform your local peers in the business of this customer’s allergy.... just in case he’s running a scam.
 
Also, now you can ask prospective clients if they have any allergies before performing massages. ☺️

That’s quite disturbing and teeters along the lines of stalking. Be careful and aware of your surroundings.... because this dude sounds absolutely nuts.

The plot thickens!!!
I knew there was more to this story... you didn’t provide him with the expected “services”, so he then demands a refund for his “allergy”....
 
?

1.) If he’s allergic to lavender, I’m wonderig why he didn’t specify this allergy prior to the massage.
 
2.) Did he not smell the lavender as he was being massaged with the lotion? Lavender has a distinctive smell. I find it strange that he didn’t notice this during the massage.
 
3.) If you showed him pics of the lotion used, would he be willing to show you pics of his allergic reaction to the product?
 
I know I’m going to get slammed for this, but in my opinion, he shouldn’t be refunded. His allergy is HIS responsibility.
 
For example, if a customer has a specific food allergy, and they visit a restaurant and order a meal, they typically confirm if that ingredient is in the dish they want, prior to ordering it. They don’t eat the food, without verification, then demand a refund after they’ve eaten the food and have had an allergic reaction.
 
Lavender is a commonly used aromatherapy product. If one received a massage, it would make sense to ask if it is being used, if there’s an existing allergy.
 
However, if you do decide to give him a refund, inform your local peers in the business of this customer’s allergy.... just in case he’s running a scam.
 
Also, now you can ask prospective clients if they have any allergies before performing massages. ☺️

1.) If he’s allergic to lavender, I’m wonderig why he didn’t specify this allergy prior to the massage.
 
2.) Did he not smell the lavender as he was being massaged with the lotion? Lavender has a distinctive smell. I find it strange that he didn’t notice this during the massage.
 
3.) If you showed him pics of the lotion used, would he be willing to show you pics of his allergic reaction to the product?
 
I know I’m going to get slammed for this, but in my opinion, he shouldn’t be refunded. His allergy is HIS responsibility.
 
For example, if a customer has a specific food allergy, and they visit a restaurant and order a meal, they typically confirm if that ingredient is in the dish they want, prior to ordering it. They don’t eat the food, without verification, then demand a refund after they’ve eaten the food and have had an allergic reaction.
 
Lavender is a commonly used aromatherapy product. If one received a massage, it would make sense to ask if it is being used, if there’s an existing allergy.
 
However, if you do decide to give him a refund, inform your local peers in the business of this customer’s allergy.... just in case he’s running a scam.
 
Also, now you can ask prospective clients if they have any allergies before performing massages. ☺️