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I also want to say that in the spirit of protecting political correctness and promoting a “rose colored glasses”, approach to how things operate in the real world.... it appears that we are trying to fade out the fact that racism is well and prevalent in the gay community. We cannot sweep that under the rug. I feel that ones societal beliefs and sexual preferences can, in many cases blur. Typically, from what I have observed, many whites who don’t find other ethnicities attractive, have views outside of their sexuality that are aligned with general social racism. When I am in environments with racist white gays, I’m never offended that they aren’t attracted to me... I am annoyed that they feel that I shouldn’t even be present in their space.. (bars, clubs, events, etc.)... because in reality, the space isn’t theirs. From what I have witnessed, most people who have racial sexual “preferences”, also have social racial beliefs and ideologies that promote segregation, separatism, and a Eurocentric, elitist mentality. I’m not bothered by that either. I’m bothered that no one ever seems to have the balls to just be real with it.

Good points!!! However, One can also have these preferences and be 100% racist as well. Regardless of the person’s level of bigotry, that individual has the right to be attracted to (or not), whomever they choose. It deserves no explanation.

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I totally see your points!!!! Being black and gay is a unique experience in that you experience so many barriers due to preference... of course there were guys that didn’t like be because I was black... then there were other blacks who didn’t like me because of my complexion.... add in all of the other characteristics that people use to judge you, and it creates a huge wall of questioning ones self-worth. I drilled in my head over and over not to care about others opinions of me and it saved me from a lot of heartache and poor decisions. I truly empathize for those who have not Learned that valuable lesson yet. I live in DC, and there are plenty of white guys who can’t stand blacks... I laugh when I go to my predominantly white gay gym daily and get the “what are you doing here”, dirty looks from white gays, and the competition of the sprinkles of ethnic guys to get their attention and validation. I take my fabulous black ass in every cycle, yoga class and weight room and fry the place up, and pay all of these people’s delusions, stereotypes, isms, preferences, insecurities and issues absolutely no mind, and throw shade with dignity and class. ???? ??

I totally see your points!!!! Being black and gay is a unique experience in that you experience so many barriers due to preference... of course there were guys that didn’t like be because I was black... then there were other blacks who didn’t like me because of my complexion.... add in all of the other characteristics that people use to judge you, and it creates a huge wall of questioning ones self-worth. I drilled in my head over and over not to care about others opinions of me and it saved me from a lot of heartache and poor decisions. I truly empathize for those who have not Learned that valuable lesson yet. I live in DC, and there are plenty of white guys who can’t stand blacks... I laugh when I go to my predominantly white gay gym daily and get the “what are you doing here”, dirty looks from white gays, and the competition of the sprinkles of ethnic guys to get their attention and validation. I take my fabulous black ass in every cycle, yoga class and weight room and fry the place up, and pay all of these people’s delusions, stereotypes, isms, preferences, insecurities and issues absolutely no mind, and throw shade with dignity and class. ???? ??

I agree that my stance could have been softer, as this is a touchy subject.

I agree that my stance could have been softer, as this is a touchy subject.

I both agree and disagree with you. 1.) Our “preferences”, are prejudices 2.) “Preferences” aren’t fair, but it doesn’t matter. When it comes to whom someone sleeps with, they owe no explanation. 3.) Who we are attracted to, does play a significant role in how we deeply feel about that person’s race as a whole, which is why so many ethnic snow queens seek the validation of white men. It’s not just a preference for them, it’s a deep seeded, euro-centric validation. A white man’s acceptance will make them feel better about who they are . 4.) There’s no such thing as “just a preference”. Every single last one of or so called preferences are shaped by social/environment, influences that start at our upbringing. We truly don’t own many of our decisions. Lol.....

I both agree and disagree with you. 1.) Our “preferences”, are prejudices 2.) “Preferences” aren’t fair, but it doesn’t matter. When it comes to whom someone sleeps with, they owe no explanation. 3.) Who we are attracted to, does play a significant role in how we deeply feel about that person’s race as a whole, which is why so many ethnic snow queens seek the validation of white men. It’s not just a preference for them, it’s a deep seeded, euro-centric validation. A white man’s acceptance will make them feel better about who they are . 4.) There’s no such thing as “just a preference”. Every single last one of or so called preferences are shaped by social/environment, influences that start at our upbringing. We truly don’t own many of our decisions. Lol.....

“Just a preference”, is a myth. Our preferences are shaped by centuries of propaganda and environmental influence. Although I think this guy is gorgeous, I do understand that my belief of his “beauty”, is shaped by social influence of beauty, shaped by Eurocentricm, colorism, featurism, and a standard of “preference” of light skinned “black” or alleged “bi-racial”’people.

“Just a preference”, is a myth. Our preferences are shaped by centuries of propaganda and environmental influence. Although I think this guy is gorgeous, I do understand that my belief of his “beauty”, is shaped by social influence of beauty, shaped by Eurocentricm, colorism, featurism, and a standard of “preference” of light skinned “black” or alleged “bi-racial”’people.

I’m obviously black and I think the class action lawsuit against Grindr is total bullshit. 1.) you cant force someone to be attracted to you, by way of law. Getting laid and “being attracted by”, aren’t part of any “Civil Right”, in the constitution. 2.) Instead of being angry at white guys who say “no blacks, no Asians, etc.” , why not ask themselves why they are seeking the validation of white men, and desperately seeking their attention and affection? 3.) I wish more guys would post exactly what they like and don’t like on those apps. It saves me a lot of time in my searches ? I’ll never support a self-hating snow queen. They are just as cold and vile to their own race as the white men they are rallying against. ??

I’m obviously black and I think the class action lawsuit against Grindr is total bullshit. 1.) you cant force someone to be attracted to you, by way of law. Getting laid and “being attracted by”, aren’t part of any “Civil Right”, in the constitution. 2.) Instead of being angry at white guys who say “no blacks, no Asians, etc.” , why not ask themselves why they are seeking the validation of white men, and desperately seeking their attention and affection? 3.) I wish more guys would post exactly what they like and don’t like on those apps. It saves me a lot of time in my searches ? I’ll never support a self-hating snow queen. They are just as cold and vile to their own race as the white men they are rallying against. ??

Why are you shocked about Asian girls preferring white men? Gay Asian men are the same way. Hence, why Asian gay men have persecuted white gays for their “No asian”, posts on their dating profiles. Here’s my thing: If you’re a white guy and you prefer white guys.... then it’s all good. You’re white and you are attracted to your own likeness. What cracks me up are gay blacks, Asians, Latinos and others who shame white guys for liking only white guys, when they don’t even like the guys of their OWN race. It’s flat out hiporcisy.

This makes sense. For Straight men, the priority is getting pussy. Opening up to various ethnicities increases their chances of getting laid, since not all women are easy... it’s a numbers game for them. For gay men however, especially in larger gay metropolises, the options/opportunities are in abundance, and leaves them more room to be a picky, prejudicial, and unreasonable as possible. However, I don’t particulary judge guys for their preferences, I’m not bothered s by not being someone’s “type”, because of my race, body, etc. This is just sex, not employment, housing, banking, or voting.... as long as I’m not discriminated based on those factors, I could give a shit about someone's racial sex preferences.

Agreed!!! I was watching a YouTube video (on another subject), and the vlogger said that “there’s no such thing as ugly”. Our views of beauty and attractiveness are programmed into our heads based on our environment and those influencers... I’ve been literally considered butt ugly and extremely attractive if many instances and when I was younger , I was confused and didn’t know what the hell I was. Once I realized it was all relative and subjective, I stopped giving a fuck, and let people see what they chose to see...

Those apps are a joke, and provide so much irritation, which actually supports the views of the OP. Those apps are filled with: 1. Useless chatting 2. Social retards who have poor communication skills 3. Frauds and catfishes 4. And a few serial killers The “microwave” mentality that apps are promoting is not good for dating, or hooking up.

TRUTH!!! This is why most of these so called relationships, are “open relationships”.... No judgment.... just calling it what it is... most couples are just two companions who benefit from the double incomes.... they aren’t even committed to each other. So if people can be in these “compromised partnerships” together, then others can live a convenient life of occasionally having an escort if he chooses, without judgment

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With your recommendation, I think I’m going to book him. Shoot me a PM for any additional details when you have a chance.

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Lmao!!! He’s lost his damn mind. I’ll just treat myself to something nice, shopping, have a nice meal at an expensive steakhouse (Mastro’s ?) , and go home and “massage” myself.. No one is hot enough for a 400 dollar massage!!!

Please be safe. I feel better knowing you’re not traveling alone on the road anymore.