Monarchy79

I’m so glad you made this comment... Which is also why I never tell others if my massage goes further than expected. What happens with one client isn’t guaranteed to happen to the next...

I’ve never been on an Atlantis cruise, but have gotten mixed reviews. Care to share your experience candidly?

The mere fact that they would use their government emails to discuss smuggling drugs clearly shows that they were “testing the merchandise”.... In the words of Fred Sanford: “You Big Dummy” LOL

Thanks!!!!

Hello Gents, Has anyone tried Jay? https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/35766/

Hello guys, I’ve tried some searches and came up blank. Has anyone tried Clark? https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/2186/

Amen!!!! I’m so sick of these “tease” masseurs!!!!!

In no particular order: 1. Bad breath 2. Disposable massage covers (feels like toilet paper covers, and sticks to your skin) 3. The use of baby oil 4. Toilet paper or paper towel offered post-massage 5. Dirty environment (i.e. clutter, visible junk, dirty bathroom, etc.) 6. Music that’s not relaxing 7. Loquaciousness during the massage (won’t be able to zone out) 8. Being short-changed on time 9. Bad hygiene 10. No massage skills at all

Thanks!!!!! I really appreciate it!!!

Hello Guys, Has anyone tried Andreas? Feel free to PM me details if you like. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/14683/

DIY? In the words of Sweet Brown: “Ain’t nobody got time for that!!”

IIRC: “If - I - Recall - Correctly” ☺️??

Absolutely!!! For a little trivia on the term “Santorum”..... that was a slang created a little over 10 years ago, dedicated to permanently smear the name of then Sen. Rick Santorum, who vehemently denounced gay marriage. ?

Most important tip: Be thoroughly showered (super fresh) immediately before the massage. Dirt, B.O., bad breath, funky feet, smegma, dingleberries, oily backs, and lint are dealbreakers for many masseurs... and will assure you that your “mileage may vary”... ?

What’s his instagram name?

I’ll definitely pass. Ain’t nobody got time for that!!! lol. If you’re strictly therapeutic, just lower your damn prices, work in a spa, and do not post in MF or RM, and if you do post, stop trying to be sexy!!!!

I’m dead serious. His ad also says he’s still here until tomorrow

I literally just saw this guy in my gym locker room, in briefs.... he’s still in DC, and he’s a hottie!!!

PM me the details please

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As someone who has received a lot of racism in my own life, I think you are somewhat reaching with your use of the term “racist“..... and forgive me, but it’s hard to take the idea of racism seriously when the reasoning is because someone has a “type”, that they will or will not give a massage to ...lol Racism is such a deeply-rooted institutionalized construct that has ruined and altered so many lives for generations, that it’s hard for me to take these “massage-racists” allegations seriously. Why? Because it doesn’t matter... When I think of racism, I think of the linkages to prison populations with the criminal justice system, in which the bureau of federal prisons makes billions off of cheap prison labor. When I think of racism, I think of the history of the socio-economic disenfranchisement of people of color, in business, real estate, education, and even the disparities of how our credit is reported. So although I appreciate and respect your enthusiastic abborhence towards racism in this discussion.... please ask your self... is this really important? There are issues with race that extend far beyond this that people never seem to want to address, which makes this forum topic quite ironic. Lol So for me, as a black man, I’m more concerned with being shot by the cops, having a white woman call the cops on me for sitting in a Starbucks, racism on the job, and my overall state of well being in this country... I could care less whether some dude prefers to massage me or not.

Another sidebar: Asian guys should be THE PREFERENCE for massage. Their skin is always smooth and blemish-free (seeing their skin oiled down is just amazing, totally easy for massaging.... ) And they are always clean..

Greetings All, Interesting post!!! I wanted to state that when I’m inquiring the services of a massage therapist, I purposely include my name as my name is a stereotypically “Black”, name. By doing this, he knows my race, and we don’t have to have an awkward discussion about racial preferences..... personally I don’t find it racist, or better yet it doesn’t matter to me... I’ll explain why later...I’ve always had a good experience. However, what I have experienced is Black massage therapists who prefer non-black clients... my first experience hiring a message therapist from massagem4m was one of them. Years ago this guy got so many reviews for giving outstanding massages... I naively decided to hire him. Not only was the massage mediocre and the services were poor, I just got a bad energy...as if he was disgusted to even touch me (which was far different than his reviews).... after I left feeling humiliated, I tried to figure out why.... and find the “ism”... it wasn’t a body issue, as I was (and am) in better shape than him. It wasn’t an age issue either (I’m at least 7 years younger), after deductive reasoning I realized the guy was a “snow queen”, and prefers not to engage with his own... which I wish he would have stated. I wouldn’t have wasted my time or money.... which brings me to this: I see absolutely wrong with any guy having preferences, whether it’s racist or not, and I’d prefer for massage therapists to be open about it. Giving and receiving a massage can be a very sensual, intimate experience and a good vibe and energy is part of that. Sometimes being attracted to that person is needed to heighten the experience. Now when it comes to employment, education, banking, and human rights, OF COURSE everything should be equal opportunity, but when it comes to physical contact , touch, affection, and any other action of physicality, no one is obliged to be equal opportunity, as it’s your body.... So if there’s no energy or attraction there, I don’t want the person to touch me either... it will only lead to a lackluster experience. Now let’s get to ethnic guys who call white guys racist because of their preferences.... the response I always have is this: “Why should a white guy be into you, when you’re not even into your own? He thinks the same of your race as YOU do.” The problem isn’t the white guy with his preference. It’s the ethnic guy’s with so much self-hate, that they desperately seek the validation of white men in order to feel accepted and whole. So if you’re Asian, Hispanic, Black, etc., and exclusively pursue white guys... you’re racist too. Lol

Thank you!!! Your commentary and feedback is always appreciated!!!