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The OP must have never worked in customer service in America🤣…

The OP must have never worked in customer service in America🤣…

I think what I forgot to mention was that I barely use Facebook anymore: I added most people on there during college plus a few years after that in S.F. Bay Area, and I graduated in 2011. I have no family on Facebook at all, and I now live in L.A. All the stuff I ever post on there nowadays are duplicates from Instagram, which I do use, so I was glad he didn’t request to follow me there.
So far, he only liked one of my photos; I may like his photos there, but that as much interaction I plan to have with him on Facebook, lol.

All the guys are good-looking in this show, even the bigger guy and the other two drill instructors: it’s just everybody has to shave their face and head. The casting director definitely knew what they were doing.
Max Parker (Sullivan) is certainly my favorite, but I’m having a crush on Miles Heizer (Cope) too: I’m a bottom, and was never into twinks, but Miles makes want to top, lol.

All the guys are good-looking in this show, even the bigger guy and the other two drill instructors: it’s just everybody has to shave their face and head. The casting director definitely knew what they were doing.
Max Parker (Sullivan) is certainly my favorite, but I’m having a crush on Miles Heizer (Cope) too: I’m a bottom, and was never into twinks, but Miles makes want to top, lol.

All the guys are good-looking in this show, even the bigger guy and the other two drill instructors: it’s just everybody has to shave their face and head. The casting director definitely knew what they were doing.
Max Parker (Sullivan) is certainly my favorite, but I’m having a crush on Miles Heizer (Cope) too: I’m a bottom, and was never into twinks, but Miles makes want to top, lol.

All the guys are good-looking in this show, even the bigger guy and the other two drill instructors: it’s just everybody has to shave their face and head. The casting director definitely knew what they were doing.
Max Parker (Sullivan) is certainly my favorite, but I’m having a crush on Miles Heizer (Cope) too: I’m a bottom, and was never into twinks, but Miles makes want to top, lol.

I live in L.A., but I haven't visited the North Hollywood Spa for years. Today I happened to be out and about nearby and have time, so I decided to try my luck.
For casual hookups, I generally only prefer mutual oral, but I know I may not get that from one person, so my agenda was simple, get a BJ and give a BJ. After stalking the halls, video rooms, and the steam room for about 1.5 hours looking for either, I got the BJ. I was surprised to find out trying to give one wasn't that easy as another guy there was literally sucking all the dicks before I can even get close to any of the guys I liked. For example, If I saw someone I liked arriving, I'd wait a little bit for them to get settled, but when I saw the person I liked again in the video room, that one guy would be already doing it. While I like to give people space and try to exchange looks first, he would just get down and do it. I guess as a strategy, that makes sense, as few men would actually stop someone from giving them a BJ--only one guy turned him away.
I couldn't bring myself to just go for it, I'm too shy, and even if it's just a hookup, I still need to confirm some degree of affection before giving a BJ. I gave myself a time limit there, so right before I reached the time limit, I just jerked off and leave, and of course another decent looking guy asked if he could come to my room right when I had to leave, so I turned him away.
Hiring someone may cost more money, but in hindsight, I realized I'd rather spend those few hours doing something more productive than walking around at a gay spa to maybe hookup with a person I like.🤷‍♂️ Well, at least I got my steps in for the day.

It honestly kinda is: It felt like he had to lick all the all-you-care-to-eat cupcakes, so no one else can eat them🤣...

I live in L.A., but I haven't visited the North Hollywood Spa for years. Today I happened to be out and about nearby and have time, so I decided to try my luck.
For casual hookups, I generally only prefer mutual oral, but I know I may not get that from one person, so my agenda was simple, get a BJ and give a BJ. After stalking the halls, video rooms, and the steam room for about 1.5 hours looking for either, I got the BJ. I was surprised to find out trying to give one wasn't that easy as another guy there was literally sucking all the dicks before I can even get close to any of the guys I liked. For example, If I saw someone I liked arriving, I'd wait a little bit for them to get settled, but when I saw the person I liked again in the video room, that one guy would be already doing it. While I like to give people space and try to exchange looks first, he would just get down and do it. I guess as a strategy, that makes sense, as few men would actually stop someone from giving them a BJ--only one guy turned him away.
I couldn't bring myself to just go for it, I'm too shy, and even if it's just a hookup, I still need to confirm some degree of affection before giving a BJ. I gave myself a time limit there, so right before I reached the time limit, I just jerked off and leave, and of course another decent looking guy asked if he could come to my room right when I had to leave, so I turned him away.
Hiring someone may cost more money, but in hindsight, I realized I'd rather spend those few hours doing something more productive than walking around at a gay spa to maybe hookup with a person I like.🤷‍♂️ Well, at least I got my steps in for the day.

I live in L.A., but I haven't visited the North Hollywood Spa for years. Today I happened to be out and about nearby and have time, so I decided to try my luck.
For casual hookups, I generally only prefer mutual oral, but I know I may not get that from one person, so my agenda was simple, get a BJ and give a BJ. After stalking the halls, video rooms, and the steam room for about 1.5 hours looking for either, I got the BJ. I was surprised to find out trying to give one wasn't that easy as another guy there was literally sucking all the dicks before I can even get close to any of the guys I liked. For example, If I saw someone I liked arriving, I'd wait a little bit for them to get settled, but when I saw the person I liked again in the video room, that one guy would be already doing it. While I like to give people space and try to exchange looks first, he would just get down and do it. I guess as a strategy, that makes sense, as few men would actually stop someone from giving them a BJ--only one guy turned him away.
I couldn't bring myself to just go for it, I'm too shy, and even if it's just a hookup, I still need to confirm some degree of affection before giving a BJ. I gave myself a time limit there, so right before I reached the time limit, I just jerked off and leave, and of course another decent looking guy asked if he could come to my room right when I had to leave, so I turned him away.
Hiring someone may cost more money, but in hindsight, I realized I'd rather spend those few hours doing something more productive than walking around at a gay spa to maybe hookup with a person I like.🤷‍♂️ Well, at least I got my steps in for the day.

I live in L.A., but I haven't visited the North Hollywood Spa for years. Today I happened to be out and about nearby and have time, so I decided to try my luck.
For casual hookups, I generally only prefer mutual oral, but I know I may not get that from one person, so my agenda was simple, get a BJ and give a BJ. After stalking the halls, video rooms, and the steam room for about 1.5 hours looking for either, I got the BJ. I was surprised to find out trying to give one wasn't that easy as another guy there was literally sucking all the dicks before I can even get close to any of the guys I liked. For example, If I saw someone I liked arriving, I'd wait a little bit for them to get settled, but when I saw the person I liked again in the video room, that one guy would be already doing it. While I like to give people space and try to exchange looks first, he would just get down and do it. I guess as a strategy, that makes sense, as few men would actually stop someone from giving them a BJ--only one guy turned him away.
I couldn't bring myself to just go for it, I'm too shy, and even if it's just a hookup, I still need to confirm some degree of affection before giving a BJ. I gave myself a time limit there, so right before I reached the time limit, I just jerked off and leave, and of course another decent looking guy asked if he could come to my room right when I had to leave, so I turned him away.
Hiring someone may cost more money, but in hindsight, I realized I'd rather spend those few hours doing something more productive than walking around at a gay spa to maybe hookup with a person I like.🤷‍♂️ Well, at least I got my steps in for the day.

I live in L.A., but I haven't visited the North Hollywood Spa for years. Today I happened to be out and about nearby and have time, so I decided to try my luck.
For casual hookups, I generally only prefer mutual oral, but I know I may not get that from one person, so my agenda was simple, get a BJ and give a BJ. After stalking the halls, video rooms, and the steam room for about 1.5 hours looking for either, I got the BJ. I was surprised to find out trying to give one wasn't that easy as another guy there was literally sucking all the dicks before I can even get close to any of the guys I liked. For example, If I saw someone I liked arriving, I'd wait a little bit for them to get settled, but when I saw the person I liked again in the video room, that one guy would be already doing it. While I like to give people space and try to exchange looks first, he would just get down and do it. I guess as a strategy, that makes sense, as few men would actually stop someone from giving them a BJ--only one guy turned him away.
I couldn't bring myself to just go for it, I'm too shy, and even if it's just a hookup, I still need to confirm some degree of affection before giving a BJ. I gave myself a time limit there, so right before I reached the time limit, I just jerked off and leave, and of course another decent looking guy asked if he could come to my room right when I had to leave, so I turned him away.
Hiring someone may cost more money, but in hindsight, I realized I'd rather spend those few hours doing something more productive than walking around at a gay spa to maybe hookup with a person I like.🤷‍♂️ Well, at least I got my steps in for the day.

I live in L.A., but I haven't visited the North Hollywood Spa for years. Today I happened to be out and about nearby and have time, so I decided to try my luck.
For casual hookups, I generally only prefer mutual oral, but I know I may not get that from one person, so my agenda was simple, get a BJ and give a BJ. After stalking the halls, video rooms, and the steam room for about 1.5 hours looking for either, I got the BJ. I was surprised to find out trying to give one wasn't that easy as another guy there was literally sucking all the dicks before I can even get close to any of the guys I liked. For example, If I saw someone I liked arriving, I'd wait a little bit for them to get settled, but when I saw the person I liked again in the video room, that one guy would be already doing it. While I like to give people space and try to exchange looks first, he would just get down and do it. I guess as a strategy, that makes sense, as few men would actually stop someone from giving them a BJ--only one guy turned him away.
I couldn't bring myself to just go for it, I'm too shy, and even if it's just a hookup, I still need to confirm some degree of affection before giving a BJ. I gave myself a time limit there, so right before I reached the time limit, I just jerked off and leave, and of course another decent looking guy asked if he could come to my room right when I had to leave, so I turned him away.
Hiring someone may cost more money, but in hindsight, I realized I'd rather spend those few hours doing something more productive than walking around at a gay spa to maybe hookup with a person I like.🤷‍♂️ Well, at least I got my steps in for the day.

I live in L.A., but I haven't visited the North Hollywood Spa for years. Today I happened to be out and about nearby and have time, so I decided to try my luck.
For casual hookups, I generally only prefer mutual oral, but I know I may not get that from one person, so my agenda was simple, get a BJ and give a BJ. After stalking the halls, video rooms, and the steam room for about 1.5 hours looking for either, I got the BJ. I was surprised to find out trying to give one wasn't that easy as another guy there was literally sucking all the dicks before I can even get close to any of the guys I liked. For example, If I saw someone I liked arriving, I'd wait a little bit for them to get settled, but when I saw the person I liked again in the video room, that one guy would be already doing it. While I like to give people space and try to exchange looks first, he would just get down and do it. I guess as a strategy, that makes sense, as few men would actually stop someone from giving them a BJ--only one guy turned him away.
I couldn't bring myself to just go for it, I'm too shy, and even if it's just a hookup, I still need to confirm some degree of affection before giving a BJ. I gave myself a time limit there, so right before I reached the time limit, I just jerked off and leave, and of course another decent looking guy asked if he could come to my room right when I had to leave, so I turned him away.
Hiring someone may cost more money, but in hindsight, I realized I'd rather spend those few hours doing something more productive than walking around at a gay spa to maybe hookup with a person I like.🤷‍♂️ Well, at least I got my steps in for the day.

I live in L.A., but I haven't visited the North Hollywood Spa for years. Today I happened to be out and about nearby and have time, so I decided to try my luck.
For casual hookups, I generally only prefer mutual oral, but I know I may not get that from one person, so my agenda was simple, get a BJ and give a BJ. After stalking the halls, video rooms, and the steam room for about 1.5 hours looking for either, I got the BJ. I was surprised to find out trying to give one wasn't that easy as another guy there was literally sucking all the dicks before I can even get close to any of the guys I liked. For example, If I saw someone I liked arriving, I'd wait a little bit for them to get settled, but when I saw the person I liked again in the video room, that one guy would be already doing it. While I like to give people space and try to exchange looks first, he would just get down and do it. I guess as a strategy, that makes sense, as few men would actually stop someone from giving them a BJ--only one guy turned him away.
I couldn't bring myself to just go for it, I'm too shy, and even if it's just a hookup, I still need to confirm some degree of affection before giving a BJ. I gave myself a time limit there, so right before I reached the time limit, I just jerked off and leave, and of course another decent looking guy asked if he could come to my room right when I had to leave, so I turned him away.
Hiring someone may cost more money, but in hindsight, I realized I'd rather spend those few hours doing something more productive than walking around at a gay spa to maybe hookup with a person I like.🤷‍♂️ Well, at least I got my steps in for the day.

I live in L.A., but I haven't visited the North Hollywood Spa for years. Today I happened to be out and about nearby and have time, so I decided to try my luck.
For casual hookups, I generally only prefer mutual oral, but I know I may not get that from one person, so my agenda was simple, get a BJ and give a BJ. After stalking the halls, video rooms, and the steam room for about 1.5 hours looking for either, I got the BJ. I was surprised to find out trying to give one wasn't that easy as another guy there was literally sucking all the dicks before I can even get close to any of the guys I liked. For example, If I saw someone I liked arriving, I'd wait a little bit for them to get settled, but when I saw the person I liked again in the video room, that one guy would be already doing it. While I like to give people space and try to exchange looks first, he would just get down and do it. I guess as a strategy, that makes sense, as few men would actually stop someone from giving them a BJ--only one guy turned him away.
I couldn't bring myself to just go for it, I'm too shy, and even if it's just a hookup, I still need to confirm some degree of affection before giving a BJ. I gave myself a time limit there, so right before I reached the time limit, I just jerked off and leave, and of course another decent looking guy asked if he could come to my room right when I had to leave, so I turned him away.
Hiring someone may cost more money, but in hindsight, I realized I'd rather spend those few hours doing something more productive than walking around at a gay spa to maybe hookup with a person I like.🤷‍♂️ Well, at least I got my steps in for the day.

I just got back from a 8-day long trip from Tokyo. Before my trip, I picked out a masseur via RentMasseur.com that I want to try, and amazingly, our schedules worked the first night I was there. His name is Victor. As much as he looked mixed in his photos, I thought he looked more Japanese than anything else, but he told me he's originally from Brazil, and he's only one quarter Japanese, and apparently, Japanese people don't think he looks Japanese because he's too hairy, which is interesting, because Japanese guys are the hairiest among their Chinese and Korean counterparts. Regardless of what others may think, he seemed very Japanese to me: he was very soft-spoken and courteous, plus when I paid, he accepted with both hands.
Anyway, I had the best massage ever from a masseur from RentMasseur.com. It's 100% a professional therapeutic massage. He did NOT bring a table, since Japanese hotel rooms tend to be small anyway, but he did bring pads that can lift your body up on the bed as if you were on a table. He was able to find all the tight spots on my back, and worked through them one by one. He was also able to lift himself up and use his knee on my back, or straddling me and use his thighs to pressure on my body, which is very sexy. He also did some stretching for me, which my body absolutely needed since I have a desk job.
As for extras, Victor is very open about it in our initial communication. I got exactly what I was looking for, but you just have to be patient, because the massage process is 100% therapeutic, extras only come at the end, which you may DM me for details. Needless to say, I strongly suggest you give Victor a try if you're visiting Tokyo SOON, because he is in the process of re-locating to my area, the Greater Los Angeles Area. I did not ask if he'd be doing the same thing here.
I also visited a gay sex club and a bathhouse. I was staying in the Shinjuku district of Tokyo, so both places are in Shinjuku. The club was for bjs only, and the 2 days I was there, it was pretty dead, at one point on both days, I was the only guest there, and just like clubs in the U.S., once a good-looking white man shows up, it'd be all about that guy, lol, no surprise there😆. (I'm Asian myself in my late 30s.)
The bathhouse is slightly more interesting. it's called 24 Kaikan, and it's a chain with 2 other locations in Tokyo. Since bathhouses, gay or not, are a natural part of Asian culture, I did find quite a lot older Japanese men there, like between the age 50 and 60, by which, I'm not surprised at all. For how many expats and visitors Tokyo has, I didn't see too many westerners there, but among the westerners, there were 2 much younger guys in their 20s, one South-Asian and one white, they both sounded British, and I'm not sure if they're even visiting together, but they were only playing with each other, putting on a show for all others. Another white guy there, who arrived later than I did, only showed interests for those 2 guys, which was weird to me, because why would he visit a gay bathhouse in Japan then? I did have some fun there, and I'm assuming things can get more lively at a better time: I visited on a Thursday afternoon.

I just got back from a 8-day long trip from Tokyo. Before my trip, I picked out a masseur via RentMasseur.com that I want to try, and amazingly, our schedules worked the first night I was there. His name is Victor. As much as he looked mixed in his photos, I thought he looked more Japanese than anything else, but he told me he's originally from Brazil, and he's only one quarter Japanese, and apparently, Japanese people don't think he looks Japanese because he's too hairy, which is interesting, because Japanese guys are the hairiest among their Chinese and Korean counterparts. Regardless of what others may think, he seemed very Japanese to me: he was very soft-spoken and courteous, plus when I paid, he accepted with both hands.
Anyway, I had the best massage ever from a masseur from RentMasseur.com. It's 100% a professional therapeutic massage. He did NOT bring a table, since Japanese hotel rooms tend to be small anyway, but he did bring pads that can lift your body up on the bed as if you were on a table. He was able to find all the tight spots on my back, and worked through them one by one. He was also able to lift himself up and use his knee on my back, or straddling me and use his thighs to pressure on my body, which is very sexy. He also did some stretching for me, which my body absolutely needed since I have a desk job.
As for extras, Victor is very open about it in our initial communication. I got exactly what I was looking for, but you just have to be patient, because the massage process is 100% therapeutic, extras only come at the end, which you may DM me for details. Needless to say, I strongly suggest you give Victor a try if you're visiting Tokyo SOON, because he is in the process of re-locating to my area, the Greater Los Angeles Area. I did not ask if he'd be doing the same thing here.
I also visited a gay sex club and a bathhouse. I was staying in the Shinjuku district of Tokyo, so both places are in Shinjuku. The club was for bjs only, and the 2 days I was there, it was pretty dead, at one point on both days, I was the only guest there, and just like clubs in the U.S., once a good-looking white man shows up, it'd be all about that guy, lol, no surprise there😆. (I'm Asian myself in my late 30s.)
The bathhouse is slightly more interesting. it's called 24 Kaikan, and it's a chain with 2 other locations in Tokyo. Since bathhouses, gay or not, are a natural part of Asian culture, I did find quite a lot older Japanese men there, like between the age 50 and 60, by which, I'm not surprised at all. For how many expats and visitors Tokyo has, I didn't see too many westerners there, but among the westerners, there were 2 much younger guys in their 20s, one South-Asian and one white, they both sounded British, and I'm not sure if they're even visiting together, but they were only playing with each other, putting on a show for all others. Another white guy there, who arrived later than I did, only showed interests for those 2 guys, which was weird to me, because why would he visit a gay bathhouse in Japan then? I did have some fun there, and I'm assuming things can get more lively at a better time: I visited on a Thursday afternoon.

I just got back from a 8-day long trip from Tokyo. Before my trip, I picked out a masseur via RentMasseur.com that I want to try, and amazingly, our schedules worked the first night I was there. His name is Victor. As much as he looked mixed in his photos, I thought he looked more Japanese than anything else, but he told me he's originally from Brazil, and he's only one quarter Japanese, and apparently, Japanese people don't think he looks Japanese because he's too hairy, which is interesting, because Japanese guys are the hairiest among their Chinese and Korean counterparts. Regardless of what others may think, he seemed very Japanese to me: he was very soft-spoken and courteous, plus when I paid, he accepted with both hands.
Anyway, I had the best massage ever from a masseur from RentMasseur.com. It's 100% a professional therapeutic massage. He did NOT bring a table, since Japanese hotel rooms tend to be small anyway, but he did bring pads that can lift your body up on the bed as if you were on a table. He was able to find all the tight spots on my back, and worked through them one by one. He was also able to lift himself up and use his knee on my back, or straddling me and use his thighs to pressure on my body, which is very sexy. He also did some stretching for me, which my body absolutely needed since I have a desk job.
As for extras, Victor is very open about it in our initial communication. I got exactly what I was looking for, but you just have to be patient, because the massage process is 100% therapeutic, extras only come at the end, which you may DM me for details. Needless to say, I strongly suggest you give Victor a try if you're visiting Tokyo SOON, because he is in the process of re-locating to my area, the Greater Los Angeles Area. I did not ask if he'd be doing the same thing here.
I also visited a gay sex club and a bathhouse. I was staying in the Shinjuku district of Tokyo, so both places are in Shinjuku. The club was for bjs only, and the 2 days I was there, it was pretty dead, at one point on both days, I was the only guest there, and just like clubs in the U.S., once a good-looking white man shows up, it'd be all about that guy, lol, no surprise there😆. (I'm Asian myself in my late 30s.)
The bathhouse is slightly more interesting. it's called 24 Kaikan, and it's a chain with 2 other locations in Tokyo. Since bathhouses, gay or not, are a natural part of Asian culture, I did find quite a lot older Japanese men there, like between the age 50 and 60, by which, I'm not surprised at all. For how many expats and visitors Tokyo has, I didn't see too many westerners there, but among the westerners, there were 2 much younger guys in their 20s, one South-Asian and one white, they both sounded British, and I'm not sure if they're even visiting together, but they were only playing with each other, putting on a show for all others. Another white guy there, who arrived later than I did, only showed interests for those 2 guys, which was weird to me, because why would he visit a gay bathhouse in Japan then? I did have some fun there, and I'm assuming things can get more lively at a better time: I visited on a Thursday afternoon.

I just got back from a 8-day long trip from Tokyo. Before my trip, I picked out a masseur via RentMasseur.com that I want to try, and amazingly, our schedules worked the first night I was there. His name is Victor. As much as he looked mixed in his photos, I thought he looked more Japanese than anything else, but he told me he's originally from Brazil, and he's only one quarter Japanese, and apparently, Japanese people don't think he looks Japanese because he's too hairy, which is interesting, because Japanese guys are the hairiest among their Chinese and Korean counterparts. Regardless of what others may think, he seemed very Japanese to me: he was very soft-spoken and courteous, plus when I paid, he accepted with both hands.
Anyway, I had the best massage ever from a masseur from RentMasseur.com. It's 100% a professional therapeutic massage. He did NOT bring a table, since Japanese hotel rooms tend to be small anyway, but he did bring pads that can lift your body up on the bed as if you were on a table. He was able to find all the tight spots on my back, and worked through them one by one. He was also able to lift himself up and use his knee on my back, or straddling me and use his thighs to pressure on my body, which is very sexy. He also did some stretching for me, which my body absolutely needed since I have a desk job.
As for extras, Victor is very open about it in our initial communication. I got exactly what I was looking for, but you just have to be patient, because the massage process is 100% therapeutic, extras only come at the end, which you may DM me for details. Needless to say, I strongly suggest you give Victor a try if you're visiting Tokyo SOON, because he is in the process of re-locating to my area, the Greater Los Angeles Area. I did not ask if he'd be doing the same thing here.
I also visited a gay sex club and a bathhouse. I was staying in the Shinjuku district of Tokyo, so both places are in Shinjuku. The club was for bjs only, and the 2 days I was there, it was pretty dead, at one point on both days, I was the only guest there, and just like clubs in the U.S., once a good-looking white man shows up, it'd be all about that guy, lol, no surprise there😆. (I'm Asian myself in my late 30s.)
The bathhouse is slightly more interesting. it's called 24 Kaikan, and it's a chain with 2 other locations in Tokyo. Since bathhouses, gay or not, are a natural part of Asian culture, I did find quite a lot older Japanese men there, like between the age 50 and 60, by which, I'm not surprised at all. For how many expats and visitors Tokyo has, I didn't see too many westerners there, but among the westerners, there were 2 much younger guys in their 20s, one South-Asian and one white, they both sounded British, and I'm not sure if they're even visiting together, but they were only playing with each other, putting on a show for all others. Another white guy there, who arrived later than I did, only showed interests for those 2 guys, which was weird to me, because why would he visit a gay bathhouse in Japan then? I did have some fun there, and I'm assuming things can get more lively at a better time: I visited on a Thursday afternoon.

Took the dip to try someone new, and regretted not going with one of my usuals. The massage was good with some highlights, but got upsold while I was on the table. He may still be appealing to others, I wouldn’t repeat though.

Took the dip to try someone new, and regretted not going with one of my usuals. The massage was good with some highlights, but got upsold while I was on the table. He may still be appealing to others, I wouldn’t repeat though.

Took the dip to try someone new, and regretted not going with one of my usuals. The massage was good with some highlights, but got upsold while I was on the table. He may still be appealing to others, I wouldn’t repeat though.

I think not respecting each other is too strong, we’re just wired differently. The little things he does that bug me, he doesn’t do them to despise me, that’s just him being himself.
Just two examples, when he first started his own business, he had a client that I could tell him is a total crook one month in, but he didn’t listen to me, and maintained the client relationship for a few month, and ended up with a loss of a few thousand dollars. When we used to go restaurants before the Pandemic, whenever my order was messed up, he would always assume it must be me who didn’t order it clearly. It took him a few years to realize that it’s actually America’s work force that has a competence issue. My interpretation of that is subconsciously he doesn’t want to take my intellect seriously.
I’ve tried to talk about it with him, but he’s not a very expressive person, so He would just shut down in that case: the biggest fight we’ve ever had was caused by my trying to get him to addressed our communication issues. Just like when we talk about politics, when he didn’t have anything good to address my point of view, he just stops talking about it by changing subjects. As a result, I just compromised and learned to accept that’s just who he is.
We continue to spend time together doing daily things, we still give each advice, we tell each other to be careful when we’re out and about, and we take care of each other when either of us is sick. Like I said, we’re like two family members living together. There’s love, but no romance or passion. Considering how many people are telling me to change my ideals, I guess that’s really just normal.