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I just searched "hogging" on the forum. I have a very long history with strip clubs and also find very few dancers that interest me. I can usually snag time with them and sometimes become a solid regular without huge demands. I get off on body appreciation and I am relatively easy to take. But now some bitterness and resentment has poisoned the waters.
 
I saw a "gem" recently and have upped my attendance several times in pursuit, but it is apparent he has an admirer who is invested in blocking the cutie from any interaction with other patrons. I realize the dancer is complicit and does an ongoing cost-benefit analysis. The cock-blocker may be suffering more than me if fixated and obsessed with the dancer (more than I am) along with potentially spending a small fortune to maintain exclusivity. However, it is fascinating how the hottie's inaccessibility actually detracts from other dancers' appeal.
 
My observations to date lead me to suspect this customer wants to rescue the dancer from the trade and secure a boyfriend. But for the grace of god I have not yet been there.
 
Yet I want to deck the possessive patron ... how dare he interfere with my whoring and generous spending! And my 'big head' has declared I will ignore this dancer if he is "released". He will have to work at getting my attention. Hahaha. The 'little' head may override.
 
I know, I know; I need to grow up.

:rolleyes: 
After reading the recs, I decided to send JpLa an email from www.rentboy.com. He warmly and eagerly responded; I hope to meet him when I venture to Los Angeles within a few months.
I'll also try to arrange to see one or two of the others who are highly recommended as well. Thanks fellows! Your encouragement is most appreciated!
 
If others desire to chime in here on this particular post-- I'm willing to receive and consider as well!

And that is why Eric Hassan is highly praised for his skill and ability to connect with his clients. Friendships can be attained and most of us would like to have repeat experiences with someone we trust. Loyalty is the key ingredient to building a successful brand. No wonder why so many of the unprofessional types change profile names and come on and off the scene so quickly. If you are in it to just make a quick buck and deliver average experiences, your career will be short lived.

JPLA. Let us know how it went after you are able to walk again. You will hurt so good.

And that is why Eric Hassan is highly praised for his skill and ability to connect with his clients. Friendships can be attained and most of us would like to have repeat experiences with someone we trust. Loyalty is the key ingredient to building a successful brand. No wonder why so many of the unprofessional types change profile names and come on and off the scene so quickly. If you are in it to just make a quick buck and deliver average experiences, your career will be short lived.

And that is why Eric Hassan is highly praised for his skill and ability to connect with his clients. Friendships can be attained and most of us would like to have repeat experiences with someone we trust. Loyalty is the key ingredient to building a successful brand. No wonder why so many of the unprofessional types change profile names and come on and off the scene so quickly. If you are in it to just make a quick buck and deliver average experiences, your career will be short lived.

What I read here is that you think that escorts are being paid to do a job and that the rate we ask is fair for us to do that job without needing or expecting a tip. I agree with you.
 
At the end, you stated "stop deluding yourself that they actually care." I just want you to know that I care. I do this work because I care about other human beings and this is work that matches well with my skill set and passions. There might be some folks who don't care, and that's OK - there are TONS of us who do.

The tip should be included in their price. This is just like escorts charging more for an outcall and then asking you to Uber them to you. That is ridiculous. I should pay more to host?
 
Tipping was a learning curve for me. I have learned better as I have inquired about things in the forum and worked with good providers. Sometimes, I ask, what do I get for being a superior client? You should receive outstanding or superior service for the escort’s fee. Some do not deserve their full fee and some are not priced according to their experience.
 
A good warning: if someone even mentions a tip in advance, they are an amateur and you are destined for a bad experience. Mark my words. Almost guaranteed. Similarly, those who ask for payment up front. They have a plan to escape halfway through the exercise.

JPLA. Let us know how it went after you are able to walk again. You will hurt so good.

Well, at least he paid attention in 10th Grade history class.
 
I would have gone with Etruscan.

What about this, leave the thread alone.
 
The boy does not fit in our catalogue, so we become bitchy and bossy.

Skin Flute

JPLA. Let us know how it went after you are able to walk again. You will hurt so good.

Hi. I think the question is very broad and really depends on the individuals. Trade has major appeal for some clients. I suppose the big pro for Gay escorts is fewer limits. In real life I look for balance. When hiring I look for bi, straight, or straight acting. Different is appealing, and I want what I can’t usually have for free.

I've written about sexual orientation and sexual activity orientation before. So, I'm not going to get into that aspect of this scenario. Instead, I'm going to touch on the perception aspect, since that's what this is really all about. In other words, many of us have a thing for "straight guys" because of cultural and social expectations around masculinity.
 
For me, I have a thing for "straight guys" because my preference is for a masculine guy with a confident cocky attitude. I like "bros" and grew up around many military guys, so that kind of buttoned up yet intense confidence coupled with "guy" attitude.
 
That leads me to guys who market themselves as "straight," "bi," or "ask me." I'm slowly branching out, but haven't found a "gay" professional who pushes my buttons. I'm sure I'll get there one day.
 
Please remember, I'm talking about how a provider markets themselves because it's entirely possible for guys who identify as straight to engage in same-sex activity, depending on their sexual activity orientation and the incentives/pressures involved.

If you agree to pay $400/hr for an outcall versus going to the escorts place for $350/hr, do you think you should pay more than the $400, inclusive of the surcharge? That is what was meant by “tip should be included in the rate.” Which is the same as, “what is your outcall rate?” Is it appropriate for the escort to then ask you for a tip or mention it? I think you read my post quickly. I will make it really clear: When you book, the provider should give an ALL INCLUSIVE RATE for outcall, wine, extra linens, airfare, chocolate body paint, or whatever you request. Otherwise, in my opinion, it is the same as a client trying to shortchange or renegotiate the escorts rate, upon arrival. Both are in poor taste. Be clear up front, so everyone has a positive experience. Otherwise, it gets messy and turns into a bazaar.

The tip should be included in their price. This is just like escorts charging more for an outcall and then asking you to Uber them to you. That is ridiculous. I should pay more to host?
 
Tipping was a learning curve for me. I have learned better as I have inquired about things in the forum and worked with good providers. Sometimes, I ask, what do I get for being a superior client? You should receive outstanding or superior service for the escort’s fee. Some do not deserve their full fee and some are not priced according to their experience.
 
A good warning: if someone even mentions a tip in advance, they are an amateur and you are destined for a bad experience. Mark my words. Almost guaranteed. Similarly, those who ask for payment up front. They have a plan to escape halfway through the exercise.

The tip should be included in their price. This is just like escorts charging more for an outcall and then asking you to Uber them to you. That is ridiculous. I should pay more to host?
 
Tipping was a learning curve for me. I have learned better as I have inquired about things in the forum and worked with good providers. Sometimes, I ask, what do I get for being a superior client? You should receive outstanding or superior service for the escort’s fee. Some do not deserve their full fee and some are not priced according to their experience.
 
A good warning: if someone even mentions a tip in advance, they are an amateur and you are destined for a bad experience. Mark my words. Almost guaranteed. Similarly, those who ask for payment up front. They have a plan to escape halfway through the exercise.

The tip should be included in their price. This is just like escorts charging more for an outcall and then asking you to Uber them to you. That is ridiculous. I should pay more to host?
 
Tipping was a learning curve for me. I have learned better as I have inquired about things in the forum and worked with good providers. Sometimes, I ask, what do I get for being a superior client? You should receive outstanding or superior service for the escort’s fee. Some do not deserve their full fee and some are not priced according to their experience.
 
A good warning: if someone even mentions a tip in advance, they are an amateur and you are destined for a bad experience. Mark my words. Almost guaranteed. Similarly, those who ask for payment up front. They have a plan to escape halfway through the exercise.

The tip should be included in their price. This is just like escorts charging more for an outcall and then asking you to Uber them to you. That is ridiculous. I should pay more to host?
 
Tipping was a learning curve for me. I have learned better as I have inquired about things in the forum and worked with good providers. Sometimes, I ask, what do I get for being a superior client? You should receive outstanding or superior service for the escort’s fee. Some do not deserve their full fee and some are not priced according to their experience.
 
A good warning: if someone even mentions a tip in advance, they are an amateur and you are destined for a bad experience. Mark my words. Almost guaranteed. Similarly, those who ask for payment up front. They have a plan to escape halfway through the exercise.

It is so wild to me how jaded we have become over the RM review system. With all the resources they have, they give us pure crap. I know some of us go fishing out there and contact reviewers to get their feedback. I have learned from being in the forum that one should not be too eager. That is when mistakes happen: overpayment, poor experience, etc. I tend to simply wait it out. I value forum feeds more than any other source. If enough dialogue is generated, once can generally make a well informed decision. AND sometimes that decision can be a disappointment.

It is so wild to me how jaded we have become over the RM review system. With all the resources they have, they give us pure crap. I know some of us go fishing out there and contact reviewers to get their feedback. I have learned from being in the forum that one should not be too eager. That is when mistakes happen: overpayment, poor experience, etc. I tend to simply wait it out. I value forum feeds more than any other source. If enough dialogue is generated, once can generally make a well informed decision. AND sometimes that decision can be a disappointment.

David, this is true. Many of the escorts who travel together in groups have premium accounts and post for each other. Hell, perhaps I should offer my services as a premium reviewer for a preview of time spent on an introductory interview or massage.

https://rent.men/Stlsean I knew he looked familiar! He just put up some new pics on 8/3 that show a guy who advertised in St Louis last year, I think he advertised on backpage as well as RM...cannot remember the name he was using then but he's got a beard now and seems a little bit bulkier but it's the same fella. Cannot remember if his reviews were good or bad. I did contact him this weekend and he was very pleasant and prompt...may have to take the plunge!

I had a mediocre experience with ChrisDaniel. The photos are accurate. Chris is also a very nice guy. A money bunny is an accurate description. Probably better suited as an erotic dancer.