Islesguy

This situation came up for me. The day before I was to see a hire that I had specifically flown to his city to see, I woke up with a scratchy throat. That's always the beginning of a "cold" for me. The whole day I was going back and forth in my mind whether to cancel or not. I booked an overnight length during the day and the day with him was the whole reason I took my trip. As luck would have it, I missed his text as I decided to go to bed early hoping extra sleep might dissipate the potential "cold" and couldn't get ahold of him in the morning before I had to leave. I decided to go ahead with session and let him know that I was feeling rundown and that is rather stay in then do all the things we planned outside. We ended up having a fantastic time (imo at least) and he was very accommodating to my reduced abilities. If was contagious (I rarely am when sick), he never mentioned getting sick when I told him I got home safely a couple of days later. He asked me to let him know how my flight home went.

Inside of the NYC limits, I have only opened the Uber app twice. The first time was a disaster as the neither of the drivers showed up and I ended up finding a cab on 8th near Penn station (usually impossible). The other was late at night in Brooklyn when I needed to get to Atlantic Terminal quickly. There is literally no point is getting an Uber in NYC 95% of the time.

I went through Cub Scouts and quit the night I became a Boy Scout. You did get badges in Cub Scouts but no sash.

Thanks. I will definitely check them out. Do you mean intense as in the sex or as in scary like a horror movie. Either is find for me, I'm just wondering.

I can get off on written erotica but I need well developed characters and storylines. Stories where guys just find each other and start sucking and fucking or do it in almost every chapter are lame and not worth my time.

I have won second place in a beauty contest. Only got $10 for it though.

I avoid it by expressing part of what I am looking for when I hire is to talk after play time. If they aren't willing to do this, they probably won't be attempting to contact in a mental level which is super important for me.

This is exactly how I feel about hiring. If I can find a guy who meet me on a mental and emotional level, at least for me, it makes the experience so much better. It also makes it significantly more likely I will rehire and for a longer session. Physical ability is great but it always leaves me feeling empty if there's nothing behind it.

When my uncle was a child, he gave everyone in his family nicknames. He nicknamed my grandmother "hook-nose crow buzzard." It got shortened over time to where when she started getting grandchildren, it became Buzzi. Since she never wanted to be called bubbe (Yiddish for grandmother), Buzzi worked for her because it was close enough without being bubbe.

I don't blame them one bit.

Every time I get foreign currency from my bank it's always in multiple denominations. If I am hiring a guy while traveling overseas, he's getting whatever the bank sends me. I did have one guy text me the day before I left for my trip he would accept US$. I sent a sarcastic reply saying, "Now you tell me?" I had an awesome time with him and planning travelling to see him again.

This title makes think of pajama boy, but that has a personal meaning.

Loved that show.

There's no way I can explain it any better. Just accept it's an awful joke and move on. Lol

This exactly what I look for when I hire. Way more important to me than any physical acts we might do.

If I were hiring you, I would want you to set that boundary at the outset. You could say something like, "I'm open to all things, but only as our chemistry dictates or how things are going when we meet." That allows me to set more reasonable expectations. You are right that clients create a fantasy for themselves and then judge a person based on the experience meeting the fantasy. I know I have. Nit meeting my fantasy doesn't make a person a bad escort, just one that is not right for me.

Is this something you have to disclose to them if you are not in a relationship? I don't see why they need to know what your orientation is especially if you aren't bringing your little brother into your personal life outside of volunteering.

You are 100% right. It really isn't any simpler than saying, "I like to do x, y, z. Are these things you like to do also?"

Come back to the 20th C. We miss you!

Thinking about all the times I have stayed in hotels, the only time I ever had a friend come to my room was when we were attending the same event. So for me, the answer is no.

Thinking about all the times I have stayed in hotels, the only time I ever had a friend come to my room was when we were attending the same event. So for me, the answer is no.

I'm not sure I can explain it better. At the movies, you buy the tickets right there. You grab them and take them right to the ticket taker so you never "see" the end you hold. (In reality, you do for a second to take the tickets.) When you hand them to the taker, you expose the end you hold when you let go; ergo, you now "see" the "side" you never saw before. Like I said, it's a bad joke.

I'm not sure I can explain it better. At the movies, you buy the tickets right there. You grab them and take them right to the ticket taker so you never "see" the end you hold. (In reality, you do for a second to take the tickets.) When you hand them to the taker, you expose the end you hold when you let go; ergo, you now "see" the "side" you never saw before. Like I said, it's a bad joke.

I once gave a hire 1 & 1/4lbs of homemade chocolate fudge. I first gave him a variety and plain chocolate was his favorite. He told me he finished it in less than 48hrs. I guess there is more than one way to "turn on" a guy.

I once gave a hire 1 & 1/4lbs of homemade chocolate fudge. I first gave him a variety and plain chocolate was his favorite. He told me he finished it in less than 48hrs. I guess there is more than one way to "turn on" a guy.