ChicagoGuy
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ChicagoGuy got a reaction from JamesMorris in Best Chicago Massuer?
For me it’s still
https://rentmasseur.com/MediterraneanGuy
The sessions have all the elements that I like. They just got better and better.
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ChicagoGuy got a reaction from + Chuck MaxxTop in More frequently being asked for my picture and tiered pricing for VGL
My first ever hire did not like Asians. It was very evident from the time we setting up the meeting. In fact, in hindsight, he seemed to try to cancel it as I was parking the car. But that being my first, I went for it, and totally regretted it.
Hygiene goes for both client and escort. Sad to say, even some of the best rated and best looking escorts I have hired had some odor situation.
I immediately stop communicating with escorts when they ask for pictures or ask for more descriptions or stats. Not because I have insecurities but because I know I am a good prospect who will pay the agreed amount for services, and I don't have to prove anything more than what I divulge during pre-meeting communications. And true that! Initial conversations and exchanges should build raapport. It is that connection, or lack thereof, that could make such reqiests a non-dealbreaker.
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ChicagoGuy got a reaction from Strafe13 in More frequently being asked for my picture and tiered pricing for VGL
My first ever hire did not like Asians. It was very evident from the time we setting up the meeting. In fact, in hindsight, he seemed to try to cancel it as I was parking the car. But that being my first, I went for it, and totally regretted it.
Hygiene goes for both client and escort. Sad to say, even some of the best rated and best looking escorts I have hired had some odor situation.
I immediately stop communicating with escorts when they ask for pictures or ask for more descriptions or stats. Not because I have insecurities but because I know I am a good prospect who will pay the agreed amount for services, and I don't have to prove anything more than what I divulge during pre-meeting communications. And true that! Initial conversations and exchanges should build raapport. It is that connection, or lack thereof, that could make such reqiests a non-dealbreaker.
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ChicagoGuy reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in More frequently being asked for my picture and tiered pricing for VGL
Disgust is a little dramatic.
A good escort knows how to extract information from email without having to resort to making people feel like shit about themselves.
That's being a pro.
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ChicagoGuy got a reaction from intecblossom in More frequently being asked for my picture and tiered pricing for VGL
My first ever hire did not like Asians. It was very evident from the time we setting up the meeting. In fact, in hindsight, he seemed to try to cancel it as I was parking the car. But that being my first, I went for it, and totally regretted it.
Hygiene goes for both client and escort. Sad to say, even some of the best rated and best looking escorts I have hired had some odor situation.
I immediately stop communicating with escorts when they ask for pictures or ask for more descriptions or stats. Not because I have insecurities but because I know I am a good prospect who will pay the agreed amount for services, and I don't have to prove anything more than what I divulge during pre-meeting communications. And true that! Initial conversations and exchanges should build raapport. It is that connection, or lack thereof, that could make such reqiests a non-dealbreaker.
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ChicagoGuy got a reaction from + sync in More frequently being asked for my picture and tiered pricing for VGL
My first ever hire did not like Asians. It was very evident from the time we setting up the meeting. In fact, in hindsight, he seemed to try to cancel it as I was parking the car. But that being my first, I went for it, and totally regretted it.
Hygiene goes for both client and escort. Sad to say, even some of the best rated and best looking escorts I have hired had some odor situation.
I immediately stop communicating with escorts when they ask for pictures or ask for more descriptions or stats. Not because I have insecurities but because I know I am a good prospect who will pay the agreed amount for services, and I don't have to prove anything more than what I divulge during pre-meeting communications. And true that! Initial conversations and exchanges should build raapport. It is that connection, or lack thereof, that could make such reqiests a non-dealbreaker.
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ChicagoGuy reacted to Rudynate in Customer blocked
But he has severed communication. That's the same thing as cancelling. I wouldn't wait around for him.
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ChicagoGuy reacted to hypothetically in Customer blocked
Two pages of speculation aren’t really productive, in my humble opinion. To answer the OP’s question, yes an escort can block you, a search when logged in will yield no results. I wouldn’t get so hung up on the why and find another potential hire.
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ChicagoGuy reacted to + oldNbusted in Do you check the client's page?
I get around this issue by saying what I'm into in my first email. :cool:
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ChicagoGuy got a reaction from + tassojunior in More frequently being asked for my picture and tiered pricing for VGL
My first ever hire did not like Asians. It was very evident from the time we setting up the meeting. In fact, in hindsight, he seemed to try to cancel it as I was parking the car. But that being my first, I went for it, and totally regretted it.
Hygiene goes for both client and escort. Sad to say, even some of the best rated and best looking escorts I have hired had some odor situation.
I immediately stop communicating with escorts when they ask for pictures or ask for more descriptions or stats. Not because I have insecurities but because I know I am a good prospect who will pay the agreed amount for services, and I don't have to prove anything more than what I divulge during pre-meeting communications. And true that! Initial conversations and exchanges should build raapport. It is that connection, or lack thereof, that could make such reqiests a non-dealbreaker.
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ChicagoGuy got a reaction from Wolfer in More frequently being asked for my picture and tiered pricing for VGL
My first ever hire did not like Asians. It was very evident from the time we setting up the meeting. In fact, in hindsight, he seemed to try to cancel it as I was parking the car. But that being my first, I went for it, and totally regretted it.
Hygiene goes for both client and escort. Sad to say, even some of the best rated and best looking escorts I have hired had some odor situation.
I immediately stop communicating with escorts when they ask for pictures or ask for more descriptions or stats. Not because I have insecurities but because I know I am a good prospect who will pay the agreed amount for services, and I don't have to prove anything more than what I divulge during pre-meeting communications. And true that! Initial conversations and exchanges should build raapport. It is that connection, or lack thereof, that could make such reqiests a non-dealbreaker.
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ChicagoGuy reacted to marylander1940 in More frequently being asked for my picture and tiered pricing for VGL
That's why I only hire gay men, I don't hire gay-per-pay guys real or fake.
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ChicagoGuy reacted to + tassojunior in More frequently being asked for my picture and tiered pricing for VGL
I have no idea why but many escorts I know or know of here and in Europe do not like Asian clients. I never ask why because it's a subject I'd rather drop.
I do know that personal hygiene of clients is most escorts' main concern.
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ChicagoGuy reacted to + purplekow in Keep from falling. Escorts please help
This is a completely different view. Sign off, for now. Your relationship with the subsequent escorts is more appropriate and healthier. If after a month or two, you are still longing for the one that got away, call. He will probably still be around and you will be a bit more experienced and a bit wiser to the ways of the hiring world. He may greet you as an old friend or he may barely remember you. You may want to become a regular or you may think: "Meh, what was I pining over?"
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ChicagoGuy got a reaction from steed8 in 411 on Patrick_XL in Chicago
Hi all! Has anyone met this guy?
https://rent.men/patrick_xl
I sent him a text and offered a 4-hand massage with his buddy. Sent me the picture and he looks great too. Anyone, please do share info and details if you’ve hired him/them before.
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ChicagoGuy got a reaction from Kody S in Best Chicago Massuer?
For me it’s still
https://rentmasseur.com/MediterraneanGuy
The sessions have all the elements that I like. They just got better and better.
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ChicagoGuy got a reaction from mkenneth99 in Best Chicago Massuer?
For me it’s still
https://rentmasseur.com/MediterraneanGuy
The sessions have all the elements that I like. They just got better and better.
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ChicagoGuy got a reaction from ontheroad in 411 on these Chicago guys
Particularly interested in
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/23740/
Anyone???
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ChicagoGuy got a reaction from adventurous old guy in 411 on Fabio Giovannini
I had a great time with Fabio last night. A bodybuilder indeed but sure was very caring and considerate. When we had the time to talk we kissed in between sentences. I enjoyed the cuddle tremendously. And the other asppects were just mind-blowing. The only thing I didn’t like was the place he got for this visit. Not the best neighborhood and the flat was not sexy at all.
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ChicagoGuy got a reaction from Jacque in 411 Beau Taylor
Worse - he disappeared after i sent a payment. I own up to the mistake though. I know better than sending advances to escorts. Was probably just blinded by what I thought was his celebrity, having seen some of his work and his promise to send his videos before we met. They didn’t come either. Lesson learned.
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ChicagoGuy got a reaction from + kov78 in 411 Beau Taylor
This guy was bad news for me. The only failed paid appointment I ever had with Rentmen.
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ChicagoGuy got a reaction from natres in Chicago masseurs
https://rentmasseur.com/GADAMNEWYORKCITY
Ok, so here’s a new one. Coming in two weeks. Interesting. Anyone ever tried him? Red flags all over, but thos pictures. Hmmm.
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ChicagoGuy reacted to coriolis888 in Asking for Stats?
It is not logical to compare a bonafide company's verification of a customer's data (for security purposes) versus an escort verifying a potential client for a sexual hire!
The two events do not fit together.
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ChicagoGuy reacted to Strafe13 in Asking for Stats?
Seems pretty obvious to me that the part he found off-putting was being asked to provide information bearing on his level of physical attractiveness, when he hires escorts to fulfill a fantasy that he can be with incredibly attractive men "regardless of who [he is] or what [he] look like." If it kills the fantasy, that'd be pretty off-putting.
On a related note, it seems like a safe assumption that a significant portion of clients hire (or at least started hiring) as a way to cope with feelings of unattractiveness or unworthiness. I imagine that an easy way to trigger such feelings, even for those who may have moved past that, would be for a sex worker to make inquiries that suggest he's judging those clients' attractiveness. Even if the purpose of the sex worker's inquiry was purely functional as someone hinted above (to be sure he could connect with the client and provide a good time), rather than to be snooty or judgmental, it could easily come off as tone-deaf and insensitive at the least. Irrespective of the escort's true intentions, it sounds like a crappy or self-limiting business practice, IMHO.
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ChicagoGuy got a reaction from + peterhung85 in Asking for Stats?
An escort I was trying to hire asked for my ‘stats — size, height, weight, ethnicity’. I felt quite a bit insulted. That was probably just his second text message.