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The first truly erotic massage experience i enjoyed was at a legit spa/salon quite a few years ago in Toronto. The facility had a mens changing area with showers, sauna, hot tub, etc. Had been going for some time but had started seeing a new MT that I thought was very good... and very sexy. Later learned he did martial arts and was incredibly fit! This particular day I had booked a longer session than normal and went a bit early to shower and hot tub before my massage. I noticed my MT came into the change room a couple of times before our time, including when I was coming out of the water. Fast forward a bit to being in a massage room - private but not fully given ceiling heights between rooms. He would typically put a blanket on me in addition to the sheet - after the hot tub I was quite warm, so I said something to the effect of "can we not use the blanket - I'm hot". Suddenly his mouth was by my ear and he whispered "yes you are". After that moment the whole experience became more and more sensual. The fact that we were in the middle of this spa made it all the more intense. After increasingly adventurous touching and exploring I again heard that whisper asking me if I would fuck him!! Later learned that he was generally straight but increasingly bi-curious and wanted to explore further. He was prepared with protection and I enjoyed being able to give him what he wanted (and I wanted!). All undertaken with muffled noise and a heightened sense of being in a somewhat public place which made it all the more exciting. Any wonder I became hooked on erotic massage? lol

The first truly erotic massage experience i enjoyed was at a legit spa/salon quite a few years ago in Toronto. The facility had a mens changing area with showers, sauna, hot tub, etc. Had been going for some time but had started seeing a new MT that I thought was very good... and very sexy. Later learned he did martial arts and was incredibly fit! This particular day I had booked a longer session than normal and went a bit early to shower and hot tub before my massage. I noticed my MT came into the change room a couple of times before our time, including when I was coming out of the water. Fast forward a bit to being in a massage room - private but not fully given ceiling heights between rooms. He would typically put a blanket on me in addition to the sheet - after the hot tub I was quite warm, so I said something to the effect of "can we not use the blanket - I'm hot". Suddenly his mouth was by my ear and he whispered "yes you are". After that moment the whole experience became more and more sensual. The fact that we were in the middle of this spa made it all the more intense. After increasingly adventurous touching and exploring I again heard that whisper asking me if I would fuck him!! Later learned that he was generally straight but increasingly bi-curious and wanted to explore further. He was prepared with protection and I enjoyed being able to give him what he wanted (and I wanted!). All undertaken with muffled noise and a heightened sense of being in a somewhat public place which made it all the more exciting. Any wonder I became hooked on erotic massage? lol

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Don’t we all think this Discussion is totally farsical—to use an al michael’s term. The masseur pulled down his pants with no underwear on under some stupid pretense. He gives HE. He did it nude. Dude he wants to play!!!! There’s no mystery here. He’s probably super turned on by your naïveté or totally annoyed because you are too scared to pick up on his moves.

I saw bestman when he was in Chicago. It was so-so for me. Been a while but don’t recall a very good massage. Think he is more escort than masseur. And given that the fun stuff was so-so too unfortunately.

My 2 cents - if he is very straight or closeted then think about from his perspective. He may relish the unspoken subtleties and get embarrassed by exposing it. If you love the sexual tension then I wouldn’t be too aggressive. I do think you can allow yourself to enjoy it naturally though. If you’re turned on then let yourself submit.

I haven't seen anyone suggest that just because masseur X had full-on sex with client Y that client Y then expected any other masseur to do the same thing. This is simply a discussion where some clients have described situations where, for whatever reason, the masseurs have ended up having sex with them. It almost sounds like you are trying to argue that that should never happen, and I get your point if you're talking about masseurs who work in a spa or other business where there are rules. But guys advertising erotic massages and then performing them in their own apartments or in their clients' apartments? The only "rules" about what that massage will entail are those of that specific masseur and that specific client.

One can still dominate and take control as a bottom. At least a good bottom can.
 
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OMG, enough...

He does provide a good massage, mutual touch, and HE. Only down side is he can talk your ear off.

I had a great experience with him in Chicago. He went way above and beyond what was expected

This guy intrigues me too. He’s hot but I’m not sure what other more sensual services he will provide.
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/rubontheroad2.shtml

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Agree with both PaulM and rogerG. There is no playbook here! Too many variables including chemistry. Just be real, respectful and self aware.

Agree with both PaulM and rogerG. There is no playbook here! Too many variables including chemistry. Just be real, respectful and self aware.

So oddly, despite the rentmasseur categories of T/S/E which he suggests he is up for all three - I notice this review... take it as you will!...
 
I met Cody online. We chatted for a bit. Cody coordinated a time and day, no endless texting and messaging. Cody came to my house right on agreed time. He set his equipment up and wasted no time. Cody made me feel comfortable and relaxed. Cody communicated up front that he is a professional and all he will do is a message. He is not into anything else. He was a man of his word and was very professional. I will definitely book another massage with Cody.
 
SerbianCody Replied Jan 02, 14:39
Yes my base level massage only is $85. No extra services. Glad you enjoyed. Thanks again.

I’ve always used Masseurfinder mainly as I find them to have the largest selection in any city. I rarely use RentMasseur as to me those are mostly escorts under disguise as masseurs, which isn’t what I’m into. MassageM4M is decent and probably has a more user friendly website, but usually has far fewer masseurs in most cities than MasseurFinder.

If you introduce the fantasy of sex into a massage experience you enjoy, you risk losing the massage therapist forever. It's happened to me, and I did not enjoy the loss.

My advice would be to try the massage at his house, see whats different (if anything)....if you are already hard during the session he knows it....Perhaps a change in location will change the massage somewhat. That has been my experience going from strictly therapeutic to more sensual. I would shy away from asking until after you've tried the new location to see whats different.

I hate to say this, but I think you are setting yourself up for disappointment. Many masseurs get really nervous if you try to negotiate anything sensual upfront, they are not escorts and they don't know who is texting them, there is always the possibility of a setup. Add to that asking for a discount, and they might even blacklist you as an undesirable client. And if they don't, they are likely to go into the appointment determined not to provide an ounce more than what you negotiated.
 
I know, it sucks! Most of the time, you pay a lot of money for a meh experience and not nearly what you hoped for. Given your questions, you might be better off hiring from an escort site?

Well the REAL Paolo (https://rent.men/Paul_XXL) is a great guy! Only saw him once but very memorable. Make sure you get the right one! Sucks someone messing up his biz.

Well the REAL Paolo (https://rent.men/Paul_XXL) is a great guy! Only saw him once but very memorable. Make sure you get the right one! Sucks someone messing up his biz.

Well the REAL Paolo (https://rent.men/Paul_XXL) is a great guy! Only saw him once but very memorable. Make sure you get the right one! Sucks someone messing up his biz.

It is easy to remember past days when guys on here talked about Chicago as though it was a wasteland for locating good escorts. These days that has certainly changed because I see many guys I would very much enjoy meeting with. Don't you agree?

So I’d love more details on victor...