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    First BJ?

    in The Lounge

    Posted

    This has probably been threaded to death, so maybe there won’t be a lot of response. Here goes:

     

    When was the first time you gave a BJ to someone? How old were you? And give us just a few details for fun.

     

    We were both 14; he was a football player, I was in the band (go figure). After a “Friday Night Lights” game, we walked home together. We both lived about 8-10 blocks from school. Small midwestern town, warm September evening. Of course the subject turned to sex and a Marlboro. One thing led to another - found a dark alley, no one around. He asked me if I’d ever ... then pulled it out, I went down and he lasted all of 20 seconds. I was in heaven. We actually were good friends (with benefits) all through school and into college. I serviced him several hundred times, but who’s counting. He got married (to a girl, of course) and invited me to the wedding. The bachelor party was wild, but I’ll never forget giving him one last thrill just a few hours before the service. We lost track and I’ve not heard from him since.

    LEATHER

    in The Lounge

    Posted

    Leather is still a major turn on - unless they are not being truthful, many RM ads still list leather as an activity/genre they are at least comfortable with. Plenty of leather gear resources on the web; granted “Dore” and other festivals may appear to attract the 40+ crowd, look a little closer - plenty of 20 and 30-somethings out there in gear. A recent escort, who I became very fond of, didn’t have any gear when we first met. I gifted him with a Langlitz biker jacket, and that’s all it took. One whiff and he was sold.

    indianapolis

    in The Deli

    Posted

    “Marc” went to Eisenhower High School (go Panthers) in Decatur Illinois - Long time ago, I went to college not far away; anyhow “Marc” of course, is probably not his name. I sent him a friendly email and all I got back was a “text me if u want an appointment” message, so he’s not terribly communicative. But he’s damn cute and well-hung for sure. Sure would like to toss a ball or two his way.

    This Tattoo thing.

    in The Deli

    Posted

    A couple of years ago, I hired an escort whose photos were sans tattoos. He never mentioned the photos were a little outdated, so when he arrived, and began to undress, it was quite a shock. Handsome young blonde guy, with large stars across the top of his chest, at least 3” in diameter. And some smaller ones that were all across his lower abdomen. There were a few smaller ones scattered around. It wasn’t a complete turn-off, but certainly distracting. So we had a few drinks and I carefully lowered the lights. That helped a lot, but still, couldn’t get Starry Night out of my head. Had a really good time, but I doubt I’d hire him again.

    Why No Gay Brothels In Nevada?

    in The Lounge

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    A number of years ago, in a large midwestern city, there was a quasi brothel. The owner advertised a little in the local gay paper, but mostly it was word-of-mouth. Clients would call a number and discretely discuss what they were looking for. The receptionist would list what was currently on the “menu” and go from there. Once the client picked a selection, then there would be a call-back for verification. Then a date/time was set for the event. The client goes to a location and meets a person who does a quick little interview, collects the fee, and gives the client a door key and an address. Client goes to the address, uses the key, goes in, and meets the escort and the fun begins. Upon conclusion, client leaves door key with escort and leaves. It worked very well for several years. The internet and online escort advertising pretty much ended it all. I was never disappointed.

    Would you rather overweight clients inform you about their expectations before meeting?

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    Such an interesting thread. My BMI is 25, right on the line. My height and weight have not really changed over the years, but nature and gravity are not our friends. Never have I heard even a hint about my body, and I’ve been hiring for a long, long time. Anyhow, I was wondering if clients ever tell escorts that they might have difficulty in maintaining or achieving an erection? Not my problem yet, knock on hard wood, but I understand that not everyone can take V or C .. comments?

    Is it tacky to ask an escort if he has friends he recommends?

    in Questions About Hiring

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    Lol...I highly doubt it was creepy. Again, I was very professional about it and introduced myself. You seem to infer that I just came straight out and said I had seen the person. If the person is flabbergasted by being seen in public, that's his fault. He showed his face just like mine. And...it was a barbershop, not his bathroom. What if I'd seen him at the gym?

     

    It's like on Grindr. I seen a guy at Home Depot one day, and he hit me up. I was shocked because I wanted to talk to him at Home Depot, but he had a girl with him. Atleast I had tack to introduce myself privately versus right there at the moment.

     

    Like I said, your approach sounds good, but not everyone operates that way. I've reached out to eacorts in the past in the way you've mentioned, and they've either flaked or played silly games. Fuck that. I rather work on my own and deal with men who aren't in the business. That's been my lesson since I turned 30 last year, going on 31 in two weeks. I no longer care to seek out escort friends beyond the forum and Twitter. Too much jealousy and competition involved. If it happens great, but for me...I've come across very few male escorts (in person, not referring to anyone I've met on the forum...but then again, I might) who are consistent in their intentions.

     

    I almost consider the escort business to be like 2 other businesses that you don't fuck with:

     

    A) the church business: preachers don't usually go around referring members to other churches. What church member walks up to the pastor and asks if there's another church or preacher can he recommend?

     

    B) barbershops. You don't get your hair cut by Michael for 6 years, and then go ask him if he can refer you to other barbers in the shop, just because you want to try something new. If you want to find a new barber, you take yo a** on to a different barbershop.

     

    **Some barbers are okay swapping clients, but it's rare and only if the barber is sick or out of town, in which case it's a 1 time only thing and best to be avoided.

     

    My brother is a pastor (go figure) and he has recommended other churches to congregants who may be looking for something new or different. He’d rather they find something else than just stop attending altogether.

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