socurious

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

Most gay men come back from any family holiday a bit shattered and need some hot dirty sex with a stranger to calm their nerves. So right after Christmas or Thanksgiving are when you find everyone sniffing around.  Obviously NYC is a multicultural city so there's always some holiday going on that somebody's gotta deal with their family. But Thanksgiving tends to be the biggest since it doesn't coincide with a religious calendar. 

Grrrrr... I was out during Thanksgiving!!!!

On 12/20/2023 at 3:49 PM, SouthOfTheBorder said:

I feel like the OP is alter-ego of @socurious

 

See mods, this guy is directly accussing me of having multiple accounts. 

On 12/6/2023 at 5:51 PM, marylander1940 said:

 

@socurious Stopped posting November 16th! 

I went to another country for vacation. This is the good thing about this business. You can take as many breaks as you want. .

Is there a time of the year that is the busiest for providers here in NYC? I read someone implying NYE was one of them. But it's right next to Christmas and imo. it doesn't make a lot of sense. I don't know. I'm just starting this business.

Thanks in advance. I will be reading. 

2 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

welcome back! 

Thank you!

On 5/2/2022 at 5:46 PM, The Dude said:

They could almost be twins; that's kinda creepy.

They don't look that alike. They have different features despite the blues eyes and the lightish hair.

I prefer Brent's look over Bradley's. The former's bone structure makes him look more masculine to me. Bradley is a stud too but his face reminds me too much of a Ken. Both are hot though. I would definitely fuck both. 10 out of 10.

On 12/18/2023 at 2:55 PM, amera said:

I hired them and it was a big disappointment. Very cold, boring, robotic and passionless.

Not worth even $300. All of my free encounters were way better than these guys and that's saying a lot. Some guys are worth their fee or thousands, these guys weren't. Very mechanic and roided-anxious guys. If they had a policy of satisfaction guarantee, I'd have asked for the money back.

Money back??

Disappointed or not, you had an intiminate encounter with the provider. That alone should costs money, lol. I bet he got naked in front of you? Sex is a serious thing for many people and this kind of job can even take to jail. I thought it was already knowledge the risks of hiring an escort. It can either be good or not. Clients should know that. With that being said, I'm sorry you didn't like the experience but asking for a full refund it's just not fair (if you meant that).

On 12/20/2023 at 3:49 PM, SouthOfTheBorder said:

I feel like the OP is alter-ego of @socurious

 

What?

4 hours ago, Marc in Calif said:

If you didn't know much about the escort market in San Diego, why even bring up living in Tijuana? That's just a whole kettle of risk and danger. 

I predict that you'd be leaving Tijuana the day after you move there. 

Um... I was kidding when I made that post.

Either way, a lot of people work in SD and live in Tijuana. Spanish is my first language. There are good affordable safe parts in Tijuana. 

Thanks everyone for sharing your thoughts. 

Working in San Diego and living in Tijuana?

1 hour ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

it has nothing to do with stating boundaries 

I’m a relatively new member here - less than a year, so I had no idea about your history on this site which goes back several years under a few different names.  I didn’t go looking for your old posts - another member posted a link to some of your old posts that contained the same sort of nonsensical statements/questions/posts on a variety of topics.  
After briefly reviewing those posts & several long-time members reactions to those posts - the appearance is you are not interested in any real help or advice, just engaging members here with the nonsense.  That’s the problem - people were sincerely trying to help you & you’re playing some sort of game and wasting everyone’s time.

My sense now is that you go through episodes just like this, where you are found out, then a bunch of members place you on ignore and then you start again with unsuspecting people that don’t know your game.  Then you run to the mods and complain, trying to get them to delete posts that look bad for you.

Just my opinion - but I think every bit of this is bullshit and that seems to be a recurring theme because that’s what many members have posted in direct responses to you over the years.  It’s easy to verify because it’s all here.  In this case, screenshots are not your friend.  You’ve been wasting peoples time for years here who were all trying to sincerely help you.  Pathetic 

btw - your constant nonsense questions/posts about being an escort are insulting to the real escorts here, who are trying to really improve the way they do business and take this all seriously.  The providers here make their living this way.  It’s a job that requires a lot of skill, hard work & dedication - and you treat it like a joke.  They aren’t here to pose hypothetical nonsense to generate controversy, get attention or kill time.  Clearly, you do not make a living doing escort work.  I can’t imagine any real client who would ever hire you based on how you  present yourself here.  

 

You just want to attack me.

My posting history has nothing to do with this thread. I genuinely asked for some advice.

On another thread you tried to attack me as well for just sharing my experience. But now you are saying you ended up in my posting history because someone posted a thread I made in 2017? Yeah right. 

I'm reporting you right now. You are derailing the thread with unnecessary accusations. I don't have time for that shit. You are pathetic. 

I don't understand why some people get upset because you state your boundaries. Escorts are entitled to have their limitations. It's our right. If you don’t like it just move on and hire someone else. Selling sex is a serious matter and can get you into jail. It's not for everyone. 

1 hour ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

don’t waste your time guys - this is a pattern

What's your problem? You are mad because I stated my limitations 2 years ago? Now you are posting irrelevant pieces of an argument I had with another poster back in 2017? You omitted the whole part where NYCman attacked me lol. How cute is that. You are here trying to make look like a bad guy now. 

And it's true that I already posted my profile on here. You tried to imply I was hiding it lol. I won't post it anymore for privacy concerns. 

1 minute ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

 I’m no longer so curious

Why? 

55 minutes ago, Vin_Marco said:

That's not a bad thing.... that comes with time. It's even better when you don't have to grit your teeth, see and spend time with unpleasant people, or just see folks just  because the mortgage payment is due...

it's WONDERFUL and pleasant and quite frankly, a luxury to only see people you genuinely have fun with and enjoy. TRUST & BELIEVE me. 

Yes. Exactly. At the end escorts are entitled to see whoever they want. I won't be providing service to clients that don't know how treat people (for example). 

12 minutes ago, Vin_Marco said:

I'm not certain but I think he may have meant for you to attach it as your signature like many of us have  so that every time you post,  somebody has the ability to find and contact you. Think of it as extra marketing/advertising and exposure. 

I prefer not to do right now. But thanks for the advice. 

51 minutes ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

the picky comment was because he indicated he wanted to select clients based on how they look & how sexually appealing they are to him - not because the potential clients were pleasant or unpleasant.  
broadly accepted - that’s not how it works.  for lack of a better term, it’s delusional & called Grindr (for free)

Buddy, that’s an old post from nearly 2 years ago. I started the business this year in the summer. 

I don't choose my clients. At the very beginning and since I was new in the business (unsure), I tried to do it a few times. But after so many potential clients flaked I understood it wasn't the best idea. For security purposes I also thought it was necessary.

Why is this relevant? Like really, searching for old posts for this. No bueno.

34 minutes ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

several people have asked you to post your RM profile link - why not ?  I’m so curious 

Um, I already posted my profile a few months ago. Those that remember know it well. A few others have also DM' me to see it.

I get the impression you are assuming stuff. You asked me for my review on another thread as if I wasn't being honest about what I said there. 

People often assume in I'm early 30s or mid 30s at most.

1 hour ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

I didn’t realize he’s 40 - a little late to be entering this game statistically, but not impossible.  just improbable.

 Given he won’t kiss, won’t travel, doesn’t like to do his own marketing research & seems to be picky about the people he engages with - this career choice does not look promising.  
 

Um, I do not look 40 at all. If you see my pictures you'll see what I'm telling you. 

Also, I don't remember saying I pick my clients.

I do travel (I love to travel). I just don't kiss...

18 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

NOTHING compares to NYC....

You can also see how many pages of escorts are in each city to see how competitive it is.

I just did.

NYC shows more than 300+ profiles.

Dallas about 200.

San Diego a total of 156.

Is Dallas as competitive as NYC and San Diego?

How much would the hourly rate in a city like San Diego be? My rate here is NYC for outcalls is 300.

I'm thinking in moving to San Diego and need to know. Here in NYC the market is oversaturated (way too compititive for newbies like me). 

2 hours ago, Enronnja said:

 

You even responded in that thread.

I've read he's an ass. But I never met him. I wanted to hire him.