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On 4/9/2024 at 11:43 PM, Trick said:

Escorting is a very complicated business. Ever consider working in retail instead? 

Sooo damn rude. 

A lot of us are educated. I graduated with a decent GPA myself. Many just escort as a side job for extra income or because they simply like to travel and think is good money where you can take several breaks. 

They should be deposits for people that ask to see nudes "o see what "they will pay for". 

Deposits are needed. I talk from my experience. I already had a few bad ones where the client blocks after I travel for them. A lot of the times they just want to take advantage of us to collect nudes. Other times they just jerk at our replies because they see us as a fantasy. It's really bothersome.

Now I understand why some providers have limited interactions with everyone that texts them. I'm always too nice. 29 out of 30 interactions I have is people playing games. 

27 minutes ago, acks0104 said:

No. No services were provided.

36 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

I don't think that's standard, for escorts to ask. However, I personally send them something if I have to cut at the last minute.

I recall an escort who went off on me because he couldn't find his way around the city and complained about the cold, and said I should pay him money since he claimed he tried but couldn't visit me. But with that attitude, all he got from me was a block.

But cancelling twice in a row when you are just visiting? Hmmmm

Is it okay if the escort asks for a deposit after a client cancels hours in advance? How do feel about it? I'm genuinely curious. 

10 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Thanks!  For two hours, do you hold steady at $700, or do you offer a break?

I've done 500 a couple of times for 2 hours. But that’s outside NYC. In New York City nobody has hired for so long except for one guy (I charged him 550 for 2 hours). We didn't do anal. He was very nice and paid for my ubers. 

Do you think 500 is too little in NYC? My friend charges 700. I thought the point was to encourage people to hire you for longer. 

On 3/30/2024 at 5:07 PM, topunderachiever said:

How much are you charging?  I believe you're a provider now, correct?

350 in the city since I'm a newbie with only one review in my profile. I don't consider that expensive. I've done 300 a few times but regretted it. I did 200 for 30 minutes one time but no anal involved. I only do travels. 

I'm not into into cheap customers honestly. If someone thinks 350-400 for a escort in New York City is a lot then hiring is not their thing. 

I hate when certain clients like to act entitled as if they have the right to tell others what's their value is. Unless the escort is scamming people no one has that right.  If you think someone is expensive just move on and hire someone else. It's their bodies and minds at the end of the day. 

22 minutes ago, NYXboy said:

300 is the standard. 

In New York City? Ummm

That used to be the standard before the pandemic. It's been almost five years since 2019. Plus don't forget the inflation. I think 300 for an hour should be the standard for cities like Dallas, Atlanta,  Houston, Tampa, etc.

What about 2 hours?

I mean for a regular escort (not a porn star nor anything like it). People will say those that are "hotter" will be more expensive. But the thing is that what is hot for me may not be for others. In other words, if someone is looking for a beefy not as lean mature men is because such type is what the hiring person considers a 10.

I don't think 300 or 350 should be the standard price here in NYC anymore. That's not a decent amount of money for someone who is in the business here. Hiring escorts should be a luxury in my honest opinion. 

And it hurts even more trying to do doggy style!!

Update: I keep practicing with my XL dildo and I need to take 2 hours to relax before I reach climax!! Emulating sex hurts unless I'm about to cum. 

On 1/23/2024 at 3:20 PM, glutes said:

Can someone explain?

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

No dildo feels like the real thing.

Why? Can you give details? I want to know... 

1 minute ago, pubic_assistance said:

Maybe your "toy" is too big for a beginner

It's a replica of Jason Vario's cock. Supposedly it feels like the real thing. I bought it for 80 dollars a couple of years ago. 

But sometimes I also crave something in my butthole and when I start using the dildo is just pain and not what I was expenting. I know I know. OMG. 

2 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

"Dildo" is a very general term for a lot of different size sex toys to shove up your ass.

An actual dick will feel different as much as the whole encounter will be.

But the first few minutes of getting anything inside your butt ranges from uncomfortable to painful. (Unless you're a huge bottom slut).

It's a lot of mental/emotional stimuli that make it pleasurable. Doing it yourself is good practice but not a great representation of the actual act.

Good to know!

I just don't think about anything when I put the big toy in my hole! Sometimes at the very end I watch a movie of a hot top I like. But that's all about. 

Maybe I just don't want to accept the fact that bottoming is not for me?

But why when I move the dildo in and out my pussy to emulate sex it hurts? It's just not enjoyable. It only feels good right before the orgasm. At that point I just want the big artificial dick to break my hole. The climax is truly 10x stronger than cumming from topping.

Anyways, as it currently is, I would day 80% of the time is pain and 20% is pleasure. My hole is more lose now. I've done it several times. The whole act takes me 2 hours at least. 

Well, in the first place,  I haven't bottomed for anyone yet and it's likely the result of procrastination. But it's also that I like the idea of finding "the right one". I'm just always too busy. Long story...

Right to the point, it hurts. My dildo is extra-large though. But I just can't emulate sex... It only feels good after a while and when I'm excited jerking off watching some movie before reaching orgasm. I was wondering if real dicks feel different and not as hurtful. It really makes me horny the idea of getting fucked by someone I like. 

I'm interested in reading what the experts think. 

2 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Native ancestry!

For Dominicans black means Haiti.

 

This isn't true. Please stop reading stuff online. You sound ignorant. 

His boyfriend escorts too. 

How much does he charge?

Eww forget about it. I just read the entire thead!

On 12/25/2023 at 3:17 PM, Enronnja said:

Brent is definitely the one I wanted when he visited my area, but the quote for his time time was like in the 7xx range and he said he preferred if it was with his bf. I passed, his bubble, hairy, muscle butt is such a turn on though. My mouth was watering for it. But, too much of a cost and a hassle. 

Yeap. He is hot.  

When I approached him he mentioned his boyfriend as well. But he didn't quote me that much. I think it was 400 bucks. This was during the pandemic in 2021 I think. 

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

Late Saturday night / early Sunday mornings are always a period where people are horny and maybe didn't score at the local gaybar. So make sure you're available 

Thank you!