NavyChief

For the discerning minds..... YES! Enough said. had a wonderful experience with him yesterday.

You better be careful with what you say around here. The Thought Police will come after you! 

it certainly goes beyond just gay dudes being ultra-sensitive these days.......it seems we gotta be careful around everybody now......
there's a smidgen of truth in some of the criticism today about insensitivity, but political correctness has undeniably gone too far.....heck, even joking about racism, stereotypes, etc., shows an awareness of the issue and an opening for discussion......
Mel Brooks used satire, sarcasm, and cynicism in his legendary "Blazing Saddles" to skewer nearly every racial/ethnic/social/religious group.....of course, since the movie (as it was made in 1974) could never possibly be made today, what does that say about our progress?
 
 

I think part of it is being young and being ideological about how the world should ideally be. I kinda only grew out of that phase myself. There’s a book called, The Coddling of the American Mind that might shed some interesting insights and theories. It was written by a professor that was on the receiving end of cancel culture and all that himself and so he tried to figure out what happened and when did times change to be so difficult to speak freely without someone taking offense. 

More and more I am finding it difficult to crack a joke without some triggered member claiming some horrible injustice of racism, sexism or some other "-ism".  I remember when I was younger and I had some older gay friends. They were always good for a laugh, poking fun at life and the various predictable behaviors of various people and social groups. NOW, if you even begin to make a joke about anything, some crazed child abuse victim immediately shuts you down and calls you some sort of "-ist". My question to this Forum is when did gay men stop being fun ?

That sounds fn awesome. Thanks for the idea.

Ok. For the first time doing the escort thing, and I don't do it that often, but enough experience over the last couple of years, I felt like a Jon... an ATM. Good flirt texting, but would not recommend or repeat.... afterwards, I felt as if I should given that money to a homeless person... or the Church!! It would have been much more gratifying.
Specifically, after we "I" was done, he washed and immediately check phone. Anyway... I'm done.... rant over.

@niceandthick, I had a session with him and greatly enjoyed it. Good massage skills and the sensual aspect was excellent. Moreover, for me he gave me the immediate sense of trust. Most definitely will repeat.

That sounds fn awesome. Thanks for the idea.

My all time favorite is still Aleksei
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5122/
Just no words can describe. If we lived in same town, I would have to fill bankruptcy, or just put him on my payroll. And the lingam massage is just...... explosive!

I just had that experience with https://rentmasseur.com/Bliss_Bodywork. Just amazing young man and just embodied trust. That is the first thing needed to be able to let go.

Agreed. The MT part is the ml ost difficult to judge. I am a gentlemen and try to be respectful. This is not about sex. There was one time when in was new, that the guy literally took my hand and put it on his chest. Or even put his cock in it. I missed all cues. Anyway, I'm more perceptive and just wait until the obvious "inadvertent" brush ups happen. Ifor they don't, then I just lay back and enjoy the massage, which can also be quite freeing, taking away the nervous anticipation.

I just had that experience with https://rentmasseur.com/Bliss_Bodywork. Just amazing young man and just embodied trust. That is the first thing needed to be able to let go.

@niceandthick, I had a session with him and greatly enjoyed it. Good massage skills and the sensual aspect was excellent. Moreover, for me he gave me the immediate sense of trust. Most definitely will repeat.

He’s on my list for my next DC visit!

I have. Especially a dentist, and a few orderlies. Being in the military, mostly males, so there is a chance obviously. All extremely professional and competent, and before or during DADT policy. There were the occasional times during a procedure, especially when they were in scrubs or even khaki uniform, the inadvertent crotch press was oh so grateful observed. Of course, nothing more and still makes me quiver just bit "down there" thinking about it.... LOL
An aside, the one down side of the NE new policy in the military is that straight guys are now much more aware and private in locker rooms, showers, etc. And with it the banter, camaraderie, and gratuitous admiration of the male form. IMHO

@niceandthick, I had a session with him and greatly enjoyed it. Good massage skills and the sensual aspect was excellent. Moreover, for me he gave me the immediate sense of trust. Most definitely will repeat.

I just had that experience with https://rentmasseur.com/Bliss_Bodywork. Just amazing young man and just embodied trust. That is the first thing needed to be able to let go.

Agreed. The MT part is the ml ost difficult to judge. I am a gentlemen and try to be respectful. This is not about sex. There was one time when in was new, that the guy literally took my hand and put it on his chest. Or even put his cock in it. I missed all cues. Anyway, I'm more perceptive and just wait until the obvious "inadvertent" brush ups happen. Ifor they don't, then I just lay back and enjoy the massage, which can also be quite freeing, taking away the nervous anticipation.

I just had that experience with https://rentmasseur.com/Bliss_Bodywork. Just amazing young man and just embodied trust. That is the first thing needed to be able to let go.

I’ve posted in another thread that the anticipation of what’s to come during the massage excites me. Many times I hire someone who doesn’t advertise extras but the hints are on the ad. As soon as the massage begins, I’m turned on by the subtle hints I get that it will go beyond a simple massage. I’ve gotten good at giving the hints myself.

First is the fact that someone is touching me and making me feel great. Second is the anticipation of what may happen, especially if there are some unexpected sensual elements happening.

Very interesting topic. I agree about loving the hands all over me, but for me I think it's like this. Because I am paying for his services, I don't have to look loke a porn star, or perform like one. I can be me, and because I am the client, it's his responsibility to treat me like I am a porn star. If he doesn't, I'm disappointed and move on. I have been lucky. The masseurs I have seen treat me like a young stud that I clearly am not. This is what makes me prefer this avenue.

My all time favorite is still Aleksei
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5122/
Just no words can describe. If we lived in same town, I would have to fill bankruptcy, or just put him on my payroll. And the lingam massage is just...... explosive!

My all time favorite is still Aleksei
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5122/
Just no words can describe. If we lived in same town, I would have to fill bankruptcy, or just put him on my payroll. And the lingam massage is just...... explosive!