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As soon as I got accustomed to bottoming, it became a source of pleasure that I climaxed while doing it even without jerking off. It became like a conditioned response for me. I worked on breaking the association. Now when the top asks me to cum by jerking off while bottoming, usually when riding, I refuse. I’ve created a new association recently with watersports. Pee on me and I’ll cum.

There are providers who ask me to cum while topping me. I always refuse to do so. My problem is association. When I associated bottoming with cumming, I came almost as soon as he’s in. Then I’m done, all libido gone. It took me a long time to break the association. Could the OP have the same “trigger” as I do?

I agree. His ad feels like the session is going to be all about the money.

Bump

Any info on this guy? https://rent.men/XLMTL

I met him in Miami last year. Nice guy. He advertises as versatile bottom but he’s really more bottom than vers. He brought a toy as a back up because he knew I was a bottom too.

After I’ve seen some fisting action, I’ve never again underestimated what the asshole could handle.

Try these https://rent.men/Alejandro_Magnum https://rent.men/MarcoJock You can reach Marco here https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/37060/ They’re a couple so they do threesomes, but you can have them solo.

I thought of those who offered cuddling as I read the OP.

My first text is almost always “Hi (name), are you visiting (city)?” Just to make sure I got the right number. When I get a reply, that’s when I send a longer message about the time, place, rates and “intos”.

Can someone please explain what Clark Kent’s got to so with this?

I took it to mean “Piece Of Shit”

I have a related question. Do you know of a gay escort who can get a female escort to join in the session? How would you set that up with someone on Rentmen?

His RM ad is expired. Here’s his MF ad link https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/37060/

I’ve had very hot 3somes with this couple. I’ve also had Marco solo. https://rent.men/MarcoJock https://rent.men/Alejandro_Magnum

One thing I know, I’ve never had problems communicating with you. Hope to visit NYC again soon.

AlexFL is my regular. Have you met him? He could be older than 42 and I’m not good at estimating sizes. But I can say he’s big. My hole feels it! Size doesn’t matter much when he varies the positions and gyrates while topping. Drives me crazy. And he stays HAAAAAAAARRDDD for a long time!

If only there was some SOP for client-provider communications, life would be a lot simpler. Unfortunately there’s none. I’ve sent messages similar to @MrMattBig’s but some providers reply with either a one-word answer or only an answer to one of the questions. I end up asking the other questions again. Another challenge is that some providers provide some rates and “intos” that are not accurate.

Those are pure pleasure, no guilt

I hope you don’t get a reply saying he doesn’t discuss details thru text.

They must have reformulated the product but kept the UPC

Thanks buddy

I met him last week. Nice guy but he had a hard time getting it up.

Is that what “happy ending” means? I’ve always thought it was about the client handing over the fee to the provider. ;)

Years ago I booked an overnight in Miami. He had an elaborate media setup in his room. There were about 4-5 computer monitors playing different porn videos. About an hour into the session, just as I was beginning to enjoy the action on his sling, a hunch came to my mind. I noticed one of the video “windows” over another window on the screen. I asked for a break and approached the said screen. I was shocked to find that behind the porn video, there was a window of his camera view. He was filming the session. I called him out on it and he assured me he wasn’t posting it anywhere. I left the session in the middle of the night. Up to now, I’m couldn’t help but think there might be a sex video of me floating around in cyberspace.