In my case, I already know that the escort I’m interested in does not top. Despite that, I’m still drawn to him. I posted this question to get ideas on how to answer the inevitable question, “What are you looking to experience during our time together?”
I don’t think a rock-paper-scissors match counts.
Toys are not my favorite.
I’m okay with skipping the penetration part but all of my hiring sessions so far involved it, some with toys. I have no idea what could happen in a session without it.
If an escort advertises as a bottom but a bottom client is interested in meeting, how does that play out?
I originally wanted to post this in “Ask an Escort” but I wanted both escorts’ and clients’ perspectives on it.
I don’t think I created the association intentionally. I was aroused by a guy peeing on me, cumming as soon as I felt the pleasing sensation of pee streaming down my body, much like the guys on Rentmen Live quivering when viewers tip them ?. Before long, the association was established between being peed on and cumming.
As soon as I got accustomed to bottoming, it became a source of pleasure that I climaxed while doing it even without jerking off. It became like a conditioned response for me. I worked on breaking the association. Now when the top asks me to cum by jerking off while bottoming, usually when riding, I refuse.
I’ve created a new association recently with watersports. Pee on me and I’ll cum.
There are providers who ask me to cum while topping me. I always refuse to do so. My problem is association. When I associated bottoming with cumming, I came almost as soon as he’s in. Then I’m done, all libido gone. It took me a long time to break the association.
Could the OP have the same “trigger” as I do?
I met him in Miami last year. Nice guy. He advertises as versatile bottom but he’s really more bottom than vers. He brought a toy as a back up because he knew I was a bottom too.
Try these
https://rent.men/Alejandro_Magnum
https://rent.men/MarcoJock
You can reach Marco here
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/37060/
They’re a couple so they do threesomes, but you can have them solo.
My first text is almost always “Hi (name), are you visiting (city)?” Just to make sure I got the right number.
When I get a reply, that’s when I send a longer message about the time, place, rates and “intos”.