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I thought of those who offered cuddling as I read the OP.

My first text is almost always “Hi (name), are you visiting (city)?” Just to make sure I got the right number. When I get a reply, that’s when I send a longer message about the time, place, rates and “intos”.

Can someone please explain what Clark Kent’s got to so with this?

I took it to mean “Piece Of Shit”

I have a related question. Do you know of a gay escort who can get a female escort to join in the session? How would you set that up with someone on Rentmen?

His RM ad is expired. Here’s his MF ad link https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/37060/

I’ve had very hot 3somes with this couple. I’ve also had Marco solo. https://rent.men/MarcoJock https://rent.men/Alejandro_Magnum

One thing I know, I’ve never had problems communicating with you. Hope to visit NYC again soon.

AlexFL is my regular. Have you met him? He could be older than 42 and I’m not good at estimating sizes. But I can say he’s big. My hole feels it! Size doesn’t matter much when he varies the positions and gyrates while topping. Drives me crazy. And he stays HAAAAAAAARRDDD for a long time!

If only there was some SOP for client-provider communications, life would be a lot simpler. Unfortunately there’s none. I’ve sent messages similar to @MrMattBig’s but some providers reply with either a one-word answer or only an answer to one of the questions. I end up asking the other questions again. Another challenge is that some providers provide some rates and “intos” that are not accurate.

Those are pure pleasure, no guilt

I hope you don’t get a reply saying he doesn’t discuss details thru text.

They must have reformulated the product but kept the UPC

Thanks buddy

I met him last week. Nice guy but he had a hard time getting it up.

Is that what “happy ending” means? I’ve always thought it was about the client handing over the fee to the provider. ;)

Years ago I booked an overnight in Miami. He had an elaborate media setup in his room. There were about 4-5 computer monitors playing different porn videos. About an hour into the session, just as I was beginning to enjoy the action on his sling, a hunch came to my mind. I noticed one of the video “windows” over another window on the screen. I asked for a break and approached the said screen. I was shocked to find that behind the porn video, there was a window of his camera view. He was filming the session. I called him out on it and he assured me he wasn’t posting it anywhere. I left the session in the middle of the night. Up to now, I’m couldn’t help but think there might be a sex video of me floating around in cyberspace.

I’m scared of booking providers with Onlyfans accounts. What’s to keep them from secretly filming the session?

This is like you describing me so we are on the same “undesirables” boat. But I assure you that there are providers out there who will make you feel like you’re the hottest stud in the entire universe. Don’t sell yourself short.

I appreciate everything that has been posted so far, not feeling any judgment whatsoever. Some may have sped up the timeline to “addiction” but that is a concern I have myself. “A journey of a thousand miles...”, right? Some context: I experimented with weed and OTC drugs in my late teens. My parents found out and lovingly took me away from that environment. I outgrew the curiosity and moved on. I became more conscious about my health in general and refocused my life to running a good business. But now that I’m older, I’ve been noticing lapses in judgment when it comes to sex. When I hire, it’s like an entirely different identity takes over, not in the DID kind of way. I find myself wanting to try stuff. My posts and questions on this forum can attest to that. Some are rather “safe” like watersports, DP, sex dungeons, etc. But this one involving drugs is scaring the hell out of me.

@rvwnsd that’s what I’m afraid of. I don’t trust myself. I’m planning to take a break from hiring to take myself out of the situation and regroup.

I won’t. It wasn’t even his fault though, I could have said no both times.

It’s not a joke, no sarcasm. I have lapses in judgment when I hire which I’m trying my best to avoid.

Is he really well-endowed as some of his pics show?

In my many years of hiring, I have never been asked this question by a provider until today. I let my curiosity get the best of me when I said, “No, but I want to try it.” He first offered what he called “G”, a blue colored liquid less than half a glass which I ingested. He then took out a glass pipe with what he said was “T” and asked me, “You like?” I replied by shrugging my shoulders. He gave me a shotgun kiss, the first of several in the two hours we were together. I admit I liked it but I don’t want this to happen again. At least that’s what I’m telling myself at the moment. Have I crossed the point of no return?