I don’t think I created the association intentionally. I was aroused by a guy peeing on me, cumming as soon as I felt the pleasing sensation of pee streaming down my body, much like the guys on Rentmen Live quivering when viewers tip them ?. Before long, the association was established between being peed on and cumming.
As soon as I got accustomed to bottoming, it became a source of pleasure that I climaxed while doing it even without jerking off. It became like a conditioned response for me. I worked on breaking the association. Now when the top asks me to cum by jerking off while bottoming, usually when riding, I refuse.
I’ve created a new association recently with watersports. Pee on me and I’ll cum.
There are providers who ask me to cum while topping me. I always refuse to do so. My problem is association. When I associated bottoming with cumming, I came almost as soon as he’s in. Then I’m done, all libido gone. It took me a long time to break the association.
Could the OP have the same “trigger” as I do?
I met him in Miami last year. Nice guy. He advertises as versatile bottom but he’s really more bottom than vers. He brought a toy as a back up because he knew I was a bottom too.
Try these
https://rent.men/Alejandro_Magnum
https://rent.men/MarcoJock
You can reach Marco here
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/37060/
They’re a couple so they do threesomes, but you can have them solo.
My first text is almost always “Hi (name), are you visiting (city)?” Just to make sure I got the right number.
When I get a reply, that’s when I send a longer message about the time, place, rates and “intos”.
I have a related question. Do you know of a gay escort who can get a female escort to join in the session? How would you set that up with someone on Rentmen?
AlexFL is my regular. Have you met him? He could be older than 42 and I’m not good at estimating sizes. But I can say he’s big. My hole feels it! Size doesn’t matter much when he varies the positions and gyrates while topping. Drives me crazy. And he stays HAAAAAAAARRDDD for a long time!
If only there was some SOP for client-provider communications, life would be a lot simpler. Unfortunately there’s none. I’ve sent messages similar to @MrMattBig’s but some providers reply with either a one-word answer or only an answer to one of the questions. I end up asking the other questions again. Another challenge is that some providers provide some rates and “intos” that are not accurate.