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I met Jason and Jeremy today. They look their posted age in person. I’m wondering why this duo is under this forum’s radar. They’re very nice guys who are good at what they do. I got my first DP with them. Together they’re a good size for a beginner.

Based on my communications with him, he doesn’t seem to be into kissing. Can you please confirm that, @Cliff? Also, what did you mean by him being dependable?

Thank you. I'm a lone wolf gay man who has nowhere else to learn the nuances of gay culture but here. Not being a native English speaker often complicates my communications.

I don't think I posted about him being rude. My post was about the weird conversation I had with him. When someone said "he politely said no", I expressed my opinion that he didn't The reason for my initial post? I wanted to know what went wrong. I was working through my own approach. I wanted to avoid making the same mistakes in the future. I'm not looking for vindication because I don't see a need for it. It's beginning to look a lot like I'm being reprimanded for even making these posts. Makes me wonder what I can ask or post in this forum or not. Since I am in learning mode here, can somebody please tell me what I should have done with this matter?

"Here we go" was the start. This reply brought it home for me. "It’s off the table and why are we talking about cumming. If that’s what you’re looking for move on" At this point I knew he did not like my questions so I apologized. I admit I was pushy, I banked on his earlier replies that "he doesn't always do it" meaning he does it sometimes and "yes but only if it's natural". He could have been nicer with his replies.

The flow of the discussion from my point of view was that he said yes he was open to it only if it felt natural. That's why I asked if he could a least try. It was his "Here we go" reply that changed the tone of the conversation. Had he said, "Yes, it's off the table", I would have let go of the cum talk. I felt my line of questioning has irritated him so I apologized for that. From his ad, I could sense him as someone who would talk through things. That was my mistake.

If I PMed you my number, would you send them there?

Which is worse, shitting yourself running a marathon or shitting yourself getting fucked?

I've heard stories of runners crossing the finish line with soiled shorts. https://gawker.com/what-happened-to-the-runner-who-shit-himself-during-a-h-1681442684

How I wish my memories had pictures lol

Can I just copy and paste this in my future communications with providers? ?

I thought the consensus in this forum was that the client be clear about his expectations of the session? No sarcasm here, can somebody please give me a better way of expressing what I am into? My standard line is, "I am a bottom who likes kissing and taking cum in my mouth." Is there a better way of saying that in a text message? When I feel that the provider would get it, I say, "I want KFC - Kiss me - Fuck me - Cum for me". Too direct?

I don't think he politely said no. The conversation turned sour when I asked about cumming. I found this inconsistent with the "feel" of his ad. I was expecting a cordial conversation. Anyway I did get past it and move on

I'm pretty sure I've met this guy but I couldn't remember what he looks like. My phone that had a picture of him has gone kaput.

Cumming for me is the climax of the journey. In that sense, we weren’t a match. I sensed that he did not even want to try. To be honest, I would have settled for a “let's see what happens" reply but he got agitated in our exchange. I apologized for asking the wrong questions and ended the conversation.

The pictures don’t match. His belly button changes positions in several pictures

I had a weird text exchange with him just now. I asked about him cumming, he said he had negative and awful experiences with clients fixated on cumming. He also said it’s something he doesn’t always do. I asked if he will at least try. His reply was weird, he said, “Here we go” His last text was, “It’s off the table and why are we talking about cumming. If that’s what you’re looking for move on.” What do you think happened here?

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Has anyone tried Immodium? I know what it’s for but how does it work for anal prep? How does it work when you really don’t have diarrhea?

Bumping this old thread for new info https://rent.men/elpotro/#platinum

What I do is time the last refill to about an hour before leaving home. Then about every 15 minutes, I check to see what comes out. Usually it’s just mucosa that comes out. That’s when I do the final wash, finger to open up the hole, take a shower and head to the appointment. I’m thinking, it might be this “pushing” that I’m doing that stimulates the bowels and causes the accidents during the session. I really don’t know. It’s frustrating.

No need to involve vibrating butt plugs, the shaky-shaky dance takes care of that. But when you mentioned washing machine, another appliance came to mind. How about a wet & dry vacuum?

Don’t we all want to see their privates in private?

If I may ask, what is a good timing for meals when preparing to bottom?