FrankR

You should definitely say something to move things along, or you may be disappointed in some cases. How about casually asking “Can I give you a tour of the place?” or “How about we go make ourselves more comfortable”? When you get to the bedroom things should take their course... ?

I know what you mean... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6QorOVnB4Wo

This may be helpful - i always check wirecutter... https://thewirecutter.com/reviews/best-laptops/ You can also search for “HP laptop” on cnet.com and see if there are any recommendations. I have had good experiences with ASUS (not to be confused with Acer) - have an ASUS gaming laptop that I turned into a server that’s already 10 years old and runs Vista! ?

I have not had any problems in New York and I have been all over the State, not just the highly populated areas. I always have a backup plan - have the number of a local cab company on hand; if you call the dispatcher they will be happy to send somebody over. Enjoy the event! ?

The skin contact i mentioned does not necessarily mean masturbation or sex - if the masseur gets on the table with you and uses his body, including genital area rubbing up against you as part of the massage, you could still be at risk. ? I will leave the definition of escorting to those that are smarter and more experienced than me! ?

I am not a medical professional, but it is my understanding that herpes, HPV and syphilis can be contracted through massage because of skin contact. Usually genital skin contact. ? Life is risk. You are doing the right thing by educating yourself and managing the risk. ?? I dont let it impact my enjoyment. ?

Take a look here: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/younes-visiting-chicago.147640/ You earned bonus points for including the location in your thread title!! ?

If you enter 24291 into the search box (masseurfinder ID # from the link you included) you will find plenty. I have avoided him based on those comments - he is also a member of the forum.

My advice is the same as @nycman on this. Move on. I will reach out twice, then move on. To avoid it from happening, be clear and concise in your communication. I would never share too much (like the fact that you are Hungarian). That should have no bearing on the appointment. Specify date, time, location and what I enjoy from a meeting is usually plenty. ?

I believe Nick Parker is still available in Boston. (https://friendboy.pro/boys/NickParker) Well spoken of here on the forum.

? Now I need to know: how many masseurs have sent you to the doctor??

That is interesting. I sometimes debate (with myself!) whether I am over communicating. Going back over my texts with him, I asked for an erotic massage and did not specify anything more detailed. He certainly delivered on that request when he was a regular of mine in NYC back in 2017. Perhaps my ‘success’ was rooted in not over communicating?? ?. Who knows.... ??‍♂️

You mean you are a happy swallower...or gobbler? ??

I posted this earlier on another thread.

If you are in NYC you should reach out to Max https://rentmasseur.com/SweetMaxx He went so deep that it made me squirm - was almost painful. I requested therapeutic so there was no sensual elements. Felt great the next day (did spot two places where he left bruises!). Not for everyone but you may find it to your liking.

I have the exact same problem (and subscribe to the same solution!) ?

Ive also seen him on seeking.com - goes by Boy4DaddyBear. Indicates he is into beefy, hairy guys. Just something to consider...

His smile reminds me a little of a younger Peter Paige or “Emmett Honeycut” from Queer as Folk. Not an unpleasant memory! ?

I am not familiar with skipthegames.com - perhaps you could post a link to this specific ad so we can take a look?

I agree with @big-n-tall; a deceptive picture is worse than no picture.

From the New York Times:”A call was made to McDonald’s to ask, what gives? Why can’t we get a McRib in New York City? In response, Jennifer Nagy, the marketing manager for McDonald’s New York metro region, wrote in an e-mail message: “The McRib has been a seasonal favorite in different regions throughout the country since 1982. The McRib comes and goes — here and there — to meet our customers’ changing tastes. We listen to our customers and respond to their needs.” McDonald’s representatives explained that menu decisions are made on a regional level, and the New York region has not decided to embrace the McRib.”

Different strokes for different...well, you know what I mean! ?

I will venture to add that all the massages I have received on a hotel bed have been down right forgettable. Now I always ask if the masseur is traveling with a table. It is fairly easy to spot dirty linen (or a towel for that matter) on a table. It is still a bit of a gamble, so I keep the clorox wipes handy! ?

I respect your point of view - no doubt a lot of folks on here feel the same. I feel differently. ??‍♂️

I am not touching this topic. English is my 3rd language and it shows! ?