FrankR

Ive never heard of it - could you perhaps share a link where we can learn more? ?

The history of marketing is as vast and ancient as civilization. I will bet you a bottle of Jack Daniels there has been unfair, deceptive and abusive practices since day 2. ?

You don’t have a confirmed appointment - why would you go? If he does not respond to your texts, nothing more you can do unless you have an alternate way to contact him, but it sounds like it is too late anyway. ??‍♂️ I suggest a nice brunch (including a bloody mary) to take your mind off of it. ? I hope he gets back to you and that he has a good explanation; reliable repeat business pays...

If you search for “33048” - his profile number from the link - you will find comments. @Massageislife has met him and provided comments.

Welcome! Is this your profile? https://rent.men/AndrewRojas Be sure to include your profile link/contact details on you profile description here on the site. You can also log your upcoming travel! ?

You may find this of interest: https://www.aclu.org/blog/privacy-technology/privacy-borders-and-checkpoints/can-border-agents-search-your-electronic?redirect=blog/free-future/can-border-agents-search-your-electronic-devices-its-complicated

Not in my experience. An erotic or sensual massage does not equate sexual intercourse. Example: i find it very erotic when a guy massages my very large and sensitive...feet. ? I am not an attorney and every jurisdiction’s laws may be different, but in general I would say that if you are clear about the fact that you are paying for the masseur’s time and dont request or mention any specific sexual acts, you should be fine. ?

I suspect you would have better luck texting ‘em! ?

You didn’t mention a type - but the rumor around these parts is that Kiddo and @Kevin Slater both play well with others and can recommend a third based on your wishes. ?

Agree! His rentmen reviews are pretty impressive too (over and above his daddy’s reviews: http://daddysreviews.com/search/Active/Steve/steve_holt_ftlauderdale ) His new home base appears to be DC...

His rentmen profile indicates 7 inches - I did not break out a ruler (that would be rude!), but I would say closer to 6.5. So he is above average size (average is 5 inches - you can google it), but you are correct in that if size is important to you, you may need to look elsewhere.

It was for an overnight - maybe even a two night visit given Mateo’s first review was also an overnight and the rate was $1200... (speculating here)

Dan (Bogdan) has been discussed here quite a lot - very favorable; I hope he visits NYC again soon!! https://rent.men/Masculine_stud

Some groups are more liberal than others. For example, the Beachy Amish can own/drive cars. The rules are different in each community. Love Lancaster - fun place to visit. ?

I used to see this a lot in Pennsylvania and Ohio - the Amish/Mennonite traditionalists do not like to appear ostentatious. They will buy a brand new Cadillac and then black out the chrome. ? Shoo-fly pie anyone?? (But they won’t accept your plastic!) ?

Sounds like you are seriously considering meeting him. Do consider a 5 minute video call first - see the face, body and attitude for yourself. If he declines a skype/facetime call you can pretty much bet he is faking it. Hope it works out for you!

I read the first example you provided differently - to me that sounds like a guy asking if you escort; looking for a top. I could be wrong. ?

I am afraid it probably falls into the category of “cost of doing business”. You have already identified some of the attributes of time wasters: 1. They are unclear on what they want 2. They keep asking you to lower your price or try to low ball 3. They keep trolling for info 4. They don’t respond quickly 5. Something feels off Maya Angelou said it best: “Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.”

I always answer my phone. The IRS inspector is still trying to reach me and I may qualify for a scooter through medicare (i’m not even 50 yet). ? I especially enjoy these robocalls - nowadays they even come in Mandarin from the Chinese consulate! ?

I’ve found A4A to be quite useful. Have mainly hired for massage, but it was pretty clear from communications with the providers that many of them also offered a more...eh comprehensive service, shall we say? ? I like the fact that private/more revealing pics can be made available, as compared to the strict rules that masseurfinder enforce nowadays. That is a very long winded way of saying: it is for both, but more discreet than rentmen if you are looking to escort. As a side note, a recent phone number search took me to https://jock2go.eu/ and I was surprised by how much local talent was on there. Some profiles did appear to be stale, but quite a few new faces. ?

I have had my fair share of experiences with lazy and disinterested providers - can be found everywhere and they are of all races and nationalities. Please do reconsider making sweeping generalizations like this - it comes across as xenophobic. ?

I withdraw my suggestion. It appears I was on the wrong track.

There are a few sites that you can join (think seeking.com) or find somebody in the industry that can help facilitate perhaps? You can send a private message to @myophile or @Rudynate, they may be able to offer suggestions.

All this talk of #1 leads me to wonder... is there a #2 and #3?? ?

Did you run a search? You should get plenty of threads if you search for 37459. Remarks weren’t encouraging, from what I can recall.