FrankR

Indeed of you search for the URL you will find some posts on him. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-in-nyc-masseurryan-and-kevin_massage.117620/#post-171876

Indeed of you search for the URL you will find some posts on him. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-in-nyc-masseurryan-and-kevin_massage.117620/#post-171876

In my book it really depends on two factors: 1) was this a spa massage or a private masseur and 2) how significant was the shortfall. I may ignore an insignificant short fall if the quality of the massage was good. At a Spa you can always speak to the manager about it. As for a private masseur it is hardly ever worth the aggravation to try and discuss with the masseur. A confrontation is hardly ever productive. He will become defensive and that is likely to raise your blood pressure, right when you are suppose to be relaxed from a massage. I usually pay the agreed fee and move on. The exception is that if the masseur suggests that he would like to see me again when he shows me out, then I would raise the short fall but I will not commit to seeing the masseur again, even if they offer a discount for a future visit. "Look, you seem like a nice guy and the massage was good, but it was supposed to be 60 minutes and we were done in 45 minutes. You may want to keep a closer eye on the agreed length of time..."

I would suggest you start with Dan. https://rentmen.eu/Masculine_stud Discussed here: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/greattime-dan-in-nyc-houston.154008/ Daddy's review here: https://www.daddysreviews.com/search/All/dan/dan_russian_nyc

I appreciate your candor @marylander1940 but I would avoid the use of the word “escort” in this context. It may be too contentious. ?

You know him best - can you two talk about boundaries without him taking offense? If he is easy going and approachable...

I am in DC this week and your note came just in time to save me some...time. By now I should know to stick to the tried and true instead of going for the young and new... ??‍♂️

And you are not corrupting him - you are building on an existing relationship for mutual benefit! ?

After all this time, you already have a good relationship, so asking him if he would be open to more than your usual session. If he says yes, compliment him on how cool a guy he is. If he says no, compliment him on how cool a guy he is!! ? And yes, the fee should be adjusted accordingly. ?

And suddenly I feel old... ?

Previous thread here: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-seandeept-nyc.139271/

Sent this morning. ?

Now you are stirring things up!

I feel for you - I do. Finding a good local provider that is willing to repeat and improve the experience is simply the best in my book.

Yes, used to post on CL - met him 2 years ago. Went by “Dennis” - recognized him immediately when he sent me a face pic; same one as 2 years ago! Meh massage, I never went back.

Sounds like he has a thing for a guy in uniform...

Welcome to the exciting and unpredictable hobby of massages! ? One of the first things I picked up when I started getting massages was that an erotic massage means different things to different people. Most masseurs wont routinely go as far as you appear to be aiming. A small percentage will become more comfortable on the 2nd or 3rd date. To avoid disappointment, i would suggest you pick an escort with legit massage skills and let them know that you want a highly erotic, playful massage. Someone like Dan https://rentmasseur.com/GreatTime who also has a rentmen ad https://rent.men/Masculine_stud Be prepared to pay escort rates as what you are requesting from the provider is more ‘escort’-like than ‘massage’-like.?

And to you, good sir!

That could be - make sure you read the small print!

Now we want to know: what are your favorite kind of extender? I googled it briefly - open tip vs closed, hard vs soft... so many choices. Come on coach, put me in!! ?

I prefer to stay in the South Beach area, specifically the art deco strip. There are a number of Marriott and other large hotel chain properties. It is close to the beach and restaurants, but can be pricey.

You are not old - you are vintage. We appreciate the distinction! ?

I suppose your interests may depend on whether you are a top/bttm or verse. As a top, i have enjoyed a fleshjack. Anal oriented toys have never interested me. I did consider a penis extender once, but then I remembered what Archimedes said and decided that the world was in enough peril already! ?

I do something similar. Many of my regulars are not close to their families (or don't have family) so they seem to appreciate the fact that I think of them during the festive season. I am glad to do it - sometimes it is better to give than to receive. http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-gWfKQvHzNgw/VnCYtkOIabI/AAAAAAAAK7w/J1YaolMmzk4/s1600/better-to-give-than-receive-710x300-crop.jpg

That is actually pretty common - rentmasseur is a massage offering with an erotic twist, rentmen is the full escort experience. ?