FrankR

You know him best - can you two talk about boundaries without him taking offense? If he is easy going and approachable...

I am in DC this week and your note came just in time to save me some...time. By now I should know to stick to the tried and true instead of going for the young and new... ??‍♂️

And you are not corrupting him - you are building on an existing relationship for mutual benefit! ?

After all this time, you already have a good relationship, so asking him if he would be open to more than your usual session. If he says yes, compliment him on how cool a guy he is. If he says no, compliment him on how cool a guy he is!! ? And yes, the fee should be adjusted accordingly. ?

And suddenly I feel old... ?

Previous thread here: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-seandeept-nyc.139271/

Sent this morning. ?

Now you are stirring things up!

I feel for you - I do. Finding a good local provider that is willing to repeat and improve the experience is simply the best in my book.

Yes, used to post on CL - met him 2 years ago. Went by “Dennis” - recognized him immediately when he sent me a face pic; same one as 2 years ago! Meh massage, I never went back.

Sounds like he has a thing for a guy in uniform...

Welcome to the exciting and unpredictable hobby of massages! ? One of the first things I picked up when I started getting massages was that an erotic massage means different things to different people. Most masseurs wont routinely go as far as you appear to be aiming. A small percentage will become more comfortable on the 2nd or 3rd date. To avoid disappointment, i would suggest you pick an escort with legit massage skills and let them know that you want a highly erotic, playful massage. Someone like Dan https://rentmasseur.com/GreatTime who also has a rentmen ad https://rent.men/Masculine_stud Be prepared to pay escort rates as what you are requesting from the provider is more ‘escort’-like than ‘massage’-like.?

And to you, good sir!

That could be - make sure you read the small print!

Now we want to know: what are your favorite kind of extender? I googled it briefly - open tip vs closed, hard vs soft... so many choices. Come on coach, put me in!! ?

I prefer to stay in the South Beach area, specifically the art deco strip. There are a number of Marriott and other large hotel chain properties. It is close to the beach and restaurants, but can be pricey.

You are not old - you are vintage. We appreciate the distinction! ?

I suppose your interests may depend on whether you are a top/bttm or verse. As a top, i have enjoyed a fleshjack. Anal oriented toys have never interested me. I did consider a penis extender once, but then I remembered what Archimedes said and decided that the world was in enough peril already! ?

I do something similar. Many of my regulars are not close to their families (or don't have family) so they seem to appreciate the fact that I think of them during the festive season. I am glad to do it - sometimes it is better to give than to receive. http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-gWfKQvHzNgw/VnCYtkOIabI/AAAAAAAAK7w/J1YaolMmzk4/s1600/better-to-give-than-receive-710x300-crop.jpg

That is actually pretty common - rentmasseur is a massage offering with an erotic twist, rentmen is the full escort experience. ?

Why the new thread? You commented on him here on an existing thread indicating no erotic interaction: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-softlight-in-nyc.154004/ In fact, you said this: He works at supermens spa!! I heard he used to offer erotic but when i went his shorts and T shirt stayed on. No MT no HE.

You should read this thread - gives you a view from the other side... https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/dos-and-donts.150718/ You are the secret sauce - you will develop a ‘gut feel’ for guys. The tone of the message will tell you a lot. Also how they respond when you try to iron out the necessary details (time, date, location and how they desire to spend the time). I would (and do) walk away if the provider is not responsive - on the other hand I tend to be rather ‘business like’ when I text and won’t waste a provider’s time. In this day and age I find it surprising that a client is not willing to share a number; the ability to coordinate basic logistics via text is a must. Did you lose out? Maybe. More likely you dodged a bullet. If the guy is high maintenance... I dont have a Rentmen profile - but I will tell you when I found your profile on RM. Not an escort, but a quick and polite discourse is needed before I agree to meet. Networking with other escorts can be dicey. The may be helpful (like @VictorPowers) or not. Most guys value their privacy and wont like the idea that you are ‘gossiping’ about them behind their back. Tread careful, most guys will consider it unprofessional to talk about your clients. For me a polite and timely response via text message is necessary. Never show frustration or anger - even if you have a bad day with a lot of cancellations. Decline politely if you don’t have time or it doesn’t feel right. If you want to build a book of business (repeat clients) after care is important. You may want to talk about some of this offline with a pro that has been in the game for a while. ?

Fascinating - thanks!! ?

Haha! Preach it sister!!

Haha! ? http://www.bbc.com/news/amp/world-us-canada-50779461