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I believe it is the abs, actually!! ?

I really wish they would come up with a better sound track! I mean ALL the "Trek" shows since TNG have had downright boring music with their opening credits. Honestly; they can do better - give me something that will raise some excitement; not something that will put me to sleep!!

My Instagram and Facebook have been flooded with ads from the US Census Bureau - advertising positions available as a census taker. I am surprised that it is time again for the census - feels like just yesterday... I usually get the form in the mail and return it the same way - when is the last time an actual person showed up on your doorstep to take a count??

Not sure if this helps, but if you read his rentmasseur reviews (all positive), the reviewers refers to him as “Kris”.

Previously discussed here: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/eroticxxxmassage-in-nyc.151808/ As you can see he is a frequent name changer...?

He is well known in NYC and discussed here before: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-den-nyc.142928/ General consensus is that he is pretty to look at but prickly and you are more than likely to walk away disappointed. ??‍♂️

If you paste the url into the search box at the top of the page you will get some results. For example: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/adab-aka-adi.151215/

You can certainly expect to see your fair share of weird on the NYC subway. There is some panhandling going on but most folks ignore it. Also a fair number of homeless sleeping on the train in the mornings. Have never felt unsafe and it operates 24hrs. Not very clean though - Tokyo’s subway is remarkably clean and we need that level of service and reliability in NYC! DC’s subway is more modern. I also like the layout of the subway cars - their seating plan is two-seater as opposed to NYC’s long benches. Also limits homeless sleeping on the train, no place to lie down comfortably. Always felt pretty safe too. Have found Philadelphia’s subway to suffer from some of the same issues as NYC - it is also a pretty ‘old’ system.

Indeed of you search for the URL you will find some posts on him. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-in-nyc-masseurryan-and-kevin_massage.117620/#post-171876

Indeed of you search for the URL you will find some posts on him. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-in-nyc-masseurryan-and-kevin_massage.117620/#post-171876

In my book it really depends on two factors: 1) was this a spa massage or a private masseur and 2) how significant was the shortfall. I may ignore an insignificant short fall if the quality of the massage was good. At a Spa you can always speak to the manager about it. As for a private masseur it is hardly ever worth the aggravation to try and discuss with the masseur. A confrontation is hardly ever productive. He will become defensive and that is likely to raise your blood pressure, right when you are suppose to be relaxed from a massage. I usually pay the agreed fee and move on. The exception is that if the masseur suggests that he would like to see me again when he shows me out, then I would raise the short fall but I will not commit to seeing the masseur again, even if they offer a discount for a future visit. "Look, you seem like a nice guy and the massage was good, but it was supposed to be 60 minutes and we were done in 45 minutes. You may want to keep a closer eye on the agreed length of time..."

I would suggest you start with Dan. https://rentmen.eu/Masculine_stud Discussed here: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/greattime-dan-in-nyc-houston.154008/ Daddy's review here: https://www.daddysreviews.com/search/All/dan/dan_russian_nyc

I appreciate your candor @marylander1940 but I would avoid the use of the word “escort” in this context. It may be too contentious. ?

You know him best - can you two talk about boundaries without him taking offense? If he is easy going and approachable...

I am in DC this week and your note came just in time to save me some...time. By now I should know to stick to the tried and true instead of going for the young and new... ??‍♂️

And you are not corrupting him - you are building on an existing relationship for mutual benefit! ?

After all this time, you already have a good relationship, so asking him if he would be open to more than your usual session. If he says yes, compliment him on how cool a guy he is. If he says no, compliment him on how cool a guy he is!! ? And yes, the fee should be adjusted accordingly. ?

And suddenly I feel old... ?

Previous thread here: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-seandeept-nyc.139271/

Sent this morning. ?

Now you are stirring things up!

I feel for you - I do. Finding a good local provider that is willing to repeat and improve the experience is simply the best in my book.

Yes, used to post on CL - met him 2 years ago. Went by “Dennis” - recognized him immediately when he sent me a face pic; same one as 2 years ago! Meh massage, I never went back.

Sounds like he has a thing for a guy in uniform...

Welcome to the exciting and unpredictable hobby of massages! ? One of the first things I picked up when I started getting massages was that an erotic massage means different things to different people. Most masseurs wont routinely go as far as you appear to be aiming. A small percentage will become more comfortable on the 2nd or 3rd date. To avoid disappointment, i would suggest you pick an escort with legit massage skills and let them know that you want a highly erotic, playful massage. Someone like Dan https://rentmasseur.com/GreatTime who also has a rentmen ad https://rent.men/Masculine_stud Be prepared to pay escort rates as what you are requesting from the provider is more ‘escort’-like than ‘massage’-like.?