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And suddenly I feel like an under-achiever!! ??

Instead of (purposefully!) misinterpreting what @Charlie said, perhaps reflect upon your own words to a fellow forum member earlier this week: It sounds like you have also made up your mind on this topic. ??‍♂️

Sounds like the plot of Boy Culture... An older gentleman seduces the younger escort...

As you can tell, this is fairly common. Every hobby has a dark side and this is it for us. 1) Disengaging is important. You may feel like you are “dating” but you are not. Don’t keep texting the guy. Don’t meet with him in person to “break up”. 2) If he keeps texting you (why wouldn’t he - you are a paying client) be respectful but clear: I have other commitments and cannot see you. That is not a lie - your commitment is to yourself and your own mental wellbeing. Get your priorities straight. 3) Make it stick. It is not a negotiation. Be polite but resolute. Even if it breaks your heart and wants to make you cry. Block his number if you have to. 4) Learn from the experience. Professionals (doctors, lawyers, auditors) all learn how to grow a thicker skin and to maintain an emotional distance. You can do that too. My comments probably make me sound like a heartless person. I assure you that is not the case. I care for many of the guys I have met. Experience is the hardest teacher... Good luck! ?

Side note - I have never heard this term ... but I like it; very ‘old wild west’!! ? We just call it bullet resistant glass - not very imaginative. ?

Why would you assume that? @Mjonis is 48 according to his profile.

The terms and rules for this forum indicate that it is a judgement call. If you go into detail about your experience (who, did what, when, where and how) it is likely to be considered a review. If you keep it short and just give a confirmation that you met, that you would recommend it will likely be considered a recommendation and not a review. ?

I am curious - does your grindr profile indicate you are interested in massage? How did they ‘target’ you? I have not seen this particular approach before but those instagram accounts are active and have a few pics. Both “George Craig” (gecraiggg) and “Ethan Garrison” (garrisonethan100) have been active on IG for a week.

Looks like this is the new link: https://rentmen.eu/TheButtBoy

I enjoyed the first season. At the moment I am unable to stream HBO Max to my Roku, i wish they would fix that, so will have to wait until they figure that out...

I dont recognize the actors - is it voice over from French?

Most of the guys offer virtual training sessions via Zoom or Skype. Some include meal plans etc. Others even have their own exercise apps for you to keep track of progress and calories. Then there are those that use more high tech devices (like mirror.com and peloton) and require subscriptions too - that can get really expensive very quickly. ?

He’s been around for many years. Haven’t changes his photos in all that time though, so yoy may want to ask if they are still accurate. I recall a previous discussion here on the forum...can’t remember all the details but what I took away from the discussion was that he was surprisingly feminine - something folks did not expect by looking at his pics and profile. Went by Andre and Andree at some point. Keep that in mind also. ? https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/andyny.155199/

Not an escort but that has happened to me before, where the provider went “radio silent” and missed an appointment. Our sitations are vastly different; for me this is a hobby - my livelihood is not at stake so there is that. Stick to the golden rule - how would you want to be treated if the roles were reversed? I have been known to give a fella a 2nd chance. There are no 3rd chances in my book. That being said - if you are ‘done’ putting up with them, do what I do...be done. Put it behind you and move on. Don’t ‘be evil’ as you put it. Won’t do anything for you despite the momentary satisfaction. Every moment you spend on them past this point is a wasted moment. ?

Why does this thread make me recall a quote by Terri Pratchett: “Are you a devious, plotting, unreliable madman? Ah, good, then you can be my most trusted advisor.” ? In my mind, @Wolfer the fact that there are so many varying opinions is very telling. I also lend some weight to the fact that many of the complimentary comments are from member profiles without much of a track record. ?

Update: Gillum comes out as Bi. https://www.cnn.com/2020/09/14/politics/andrew-gillum-bisexual/index.html

Take a look here: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/hung-masseur-nyc.136994/post-1920493 Comments from earlier this year on recent experience.

If I remember correctly he retired in 2018, returned and retired again in 2019. Perhaps the onlyfans is his way of getting a cashflow going and avoid another return to escorting. Time will tell...

I usually crave carbohydrates after a strenuous workout. ? Italian food is usually my preference. Join me for dinner and suggest a Chianti - will win you a place in my heart! ?

I have noticed that there are a lot more trainers on Instagram offering virtual personal training and showing off their...uhm...credentials, shall we say! ? I don’t really think a virtual trainer is for me, but like you, I sure so enjoy the view!! ?

Not all of us are willing to jump into the deep end of the pool to figure out if we enjoy swimming! Some of us start in the shallow end wearing floaties!! ?

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I assume the “kit” is one of those popular dildo sets that starts with a small dildo and progress to bigger dildos? I recommend silicone (softer and flexible) dildos for training - don’t use the harder plastic ones at first. Always douce with luke warm water before inserting anything - dont use soap or any other chemical. When you insert the dildo, use enough water based lube. Lie down and get used to the sensation - use a towel you will likely make a mess at some point. Dont try to progress too quickly - you need to get uses to it and learn to breath and relax. Move your body into the various fucking positions to feel what is comfortable and what you need to work on. You may be very comfortable with a dildo in you while laying on your side, while on you back with your legs up maybe a little uncomfortable at first. Good luck!

I am kinda desperate too! https://www.massagechairtechnicians.com/recommendedmassagechairs.php?affid=5HSe6QjV82scTBvXM1kyizw3FnYaDJpq&utm_source=google&utm_campaign=google_ad_massage_chair_technicians_exact&utm_term=massage_chair&utm_content=massage_chair_technicians_generic&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaignid=653165935&utm_keyword=massage chair&utm_device=c&utm_matchtype=e&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI_tqM3Prj6wIVkZOzCh05BAB1EAAYASAAEgKOI_D_BwE This would be safe, right? ?

Have you tried to use the search function? Most of these guys have a thread that discuss them already for example for Sexy Brody: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-sexy-brody-in-sf.156475/ https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/sexy_brody-in-nyc.143829/ The search function is your friend - learn to love it.