FrankR

Reach out, compliment him on his profile and pics, express interest in meeting and ask him if he is willing to change his appearance to suit your preferences. If he responds back that he is willing, you can ask him for hands that are au natural. Avoid expressing any criticism about his current appearance, to be sure. ?

Some context please! Are we talking clear nail polish or was it a color that you don’t like? Some things an escort can do without much fuss “don’t shave I like one-day scruff”. The provider may have to spend time and expense to remove the polish and restore it after the meet - are you willing to compensate him accordingly?

You seem to have extraordinary good luck with masseurs that others here have reported on, with far less enthusiasm. Lino has been around and discussed before - just search for Lino on the site.

It keeps setting off my anti-virus software on my laptop. According to my software the site has been confirmed to spread malicious software. I can get it to work, you have to keep pressing the "play" icon and close down the additional windows it opens.

Fairly spoken. I will have to work on growing a thicker skin. And apparently on my cocksucking skills! ? I realize this discussion has lured me away from the purpose of the thread. That being said, how people refer to themselves is their choice. I have referred to myself, jokingly, as an "old slut" - even though I am not that old and not particularly slutty. But I draw the line at calling somebody else a slut. Who am I to label others - even if the tone is light and humorous. It is still a dick move - I expect better from myself and the GLBTQ community. In defense of my thin skin, whatever thick skin I had in the past, have been worn away by those who call themselves our leaders - who gleefully label others with derogatory labels. These leaders (business, politics, sports) also shamelessly ignore facts and twist reality to suit their needs despite the harm it does to the fabric of our reality. So when I see that kind of thing I tend to call it out...

Let's get a few things straight. ? There is no proof that prostitution is the oldest profession. https://www.herebeanswers.com/2015/06/is-prostitution-really-oldest.html This was made up after WW1 by poets and politicians. Second, putting somebody down who is willing to give a blowjob for $20 by calling them a "whore" says more about you than it does about them. At least extend to them the courtesy of calling them "Mr Whore". Third, your "guarantee" that higher cost would have "ended whoring" makes no sense to those who have studied even the most basic of economics and are familiar with the supply vs demand curve. Think on that a bit.

Which is why I disable all those voice activated features. I can't stand the idea of having an Amazon Echo in my house either.

Rejoice! We are saved! First pics of Russia’s vaccine... ?

Generosity is its own reward.

Powerful lyrics... Michael Jackson - They don’t care about us. (I know, it is a little depressing.)

I did not enjoy it. Temper your expectations. Plot is pretty thin and characters are fairly transparent. If you enjoy super hero movies you may enjoy the familiarity of the genre.

Enjoyed Die Fledermaus last week. In the mood for more Strauss - will see what I can dig up. I also received some Andre Rieu DVDs a few years ago - those may be worth watching too! He does put on quite a show! ?

Men come and go... But what happened to the dog?? ?

Hand washing isnt always an option. When I use the subway (which is almost every day) I use hand sanitizer when I exit the station - who knows how many grubby hands grabbed on to the same pole I had to hold on to? It serves a purpose even when it is not the best solution... ?

Germ-X is an excellent choice. The other option would be Suave - they have a sanitizer spray that is also well regarded. If you can't find a gel, maybe this mist spray will be a good alternative.

I pondered the same question for a while. Looked over the list of brands the FDA warned about too. I noticed that almost all of those on the list came from Mexico. This is going to sound xenophobic but that is not my intention; simply going by the facts: find something manufactured in the USA or Canada. That is the safest bet at this time. I found a hand sanitizer gel at Rite Aid manufactered in the USA by Bajaj Medical.

The one time I did this it did not work out well. Mainly my fault as I did not outline clear expectations and I failed to communicate on an ongoing basis. ? Set up clear ground rules. Adjust or add to those ground rules as needed - he must be willing to work with you as long as you are being reasonable. As an example, we agreed to split the chores around the house but we were not specific about what they were and who should take care of them and when. The kitchen floors should be mopped every other day or when you make a mess. Then there were things that came to light as time progressed. It irritated me to walk into the kitchen in the morning to find dirty dishes on the counter - they should be in the dish washer! Be very clear on how long he can stay and if you decide he has to go, what are the terms? Will you give him a week to find a new place? Also make sure you understand the personal cost. Not just the expense of having him live with you, food can be expensive if he is bulking and utilities for two can also be more expensive - but also you will have far less privacy, he may want to have friends over when you need peace and quiet. I don’t regret having the fella stay with me at all - I do regret not managing his stay better. There is a saying in the military: amateurs talk about strategy - professionals talk about logistics. I should have spent more time on logistics. ?

New rule: on the 3rd bump you have to take one for the team and meet him!

Sorry, I just had to... Remember this scene in the movie 40 year old virgin?? ?

Don't let your dislike for him get to you. You deserve better than to waste your time hating on him!

You can protect yourself by taking precautions like talking to your partner as part of consent - ask him when he was last tested and if that testing includes oral and anal swabs. Practice good hygiene by making sure you are super clean down there; douching and enemas can help with that. You can also use a latex dental dam or tongue condom. ?

I believe @marylander1940 is referring to the risk of STDs - specifically gonorrhea, chlamydia and syphilis can be contracted and spread by rimming. https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/anal-sti-test#complications

It will probably make him uncomfortable, so no, I would not raise that in a discussion. Be a gentleman: smile, nod and enjoy the companionship!

You may enjoy this clip with Quark/Armin Shimerman. ? I did not know he was the original Ferengi in The Next Generation...