FrankR

Of course! Good ambience (aka he leaves the lights on!) is important! ?

I am sure you are fine. When I intend to see the masseur again, i tend to be more generous...greasing the skids so to speak, for the next meeting. But also keeping in mind that your generosity from one session to the next will be compares by the masseur, so don’t go overboard. If you are ‘overly generous’ you may set expectations that can lead to disappointment and frictions in the future. I keep a tight rein on my generosity and keep it very consistent from session to session. ? It sounds like you are considering slipping him more for the previous visit? I would not do that - too much chance of sending mixed messages. When next you see him, tell him how much you enjoyed the previous session, totally MADE your week. A little flattery to send the message: I want that again! If he gets the message and you get another good session, then up your generosity to the level he can expect in the future. Also consider where you are located (just to level set). In this example, $160 may go a looonng way in Jacksonville FL, but not so in Los Angeles CA. You did not mention your location. Finding the right balance takes a bit of time. You will figure out what works for you after a while. In your example, in NYC if I received a great 90 minute massage plus 30 minutes play time with 2 HEs as you described and I intended to visit again, I would shell out $200. Again, that is just me - other may disagree. You do you.

Speaking only for myself - if I received a solid massage for 90 minutes and then an additional 30 minutes or so of erotic play time...probably would have shelled out $180 minimum if satisfied and enjoyable. You went with $160 which is fair in my book, but I would have chosen to show a little more generosity. Just my 2c.

Looks cool! How do you watch them? Streaming from the internet? What site? ?

They have been discusses before. If you use the search box at the top of the page you should get results. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-saul.137075/page-2#post-1919134

Does SCJ mean the same things as SCOTUS? ?

Why does the concept of taking an antibiotic every day sound like a bad idea? Surely there must be concerns around creating more drug resistant bacterial strains? ?

I could be wrong... https://www.topic.com/the-hustle-of-financial-domination

Won’t you be surprised! My regular masseur is a medical doctor. Thanks MMXNYC! ?

This thread has lost its way. Why don’t you (and other interested parties) just private message @aeikaryoko directly? Click on his profile, click on “Start Conversation” and off to the races you go! ?

Sorry folks - Fin Dom is not a thing. I mean, really?? ?

@BSR I have read many of your posts in the past and respect your opinion but in this case may I say that I think you are allowing that particular book to distract you from the greater truth. The claim by the book mentioned, that those two men lured him away because they thought he had $10,000 in meth and cash does not hold water. He was a broke-ish college kid at a state school that had fallen on hard times and may have sold and used drugs. The subsequent investigation did not find hard drugs like meth in his autopsy blood work or hair sample so consider that as well. What we know is that these two men lured away a slightly built, young gay man, tortured him by hitting him repeatedly, kicking him repeatedly, targeted his groin area specifically and left him to die. They did it because they thought they could get away with it. And they probably would have if his friends and the gay community did not become very vocal, demanding justice and capturing the world’s attention. Surely you can see the hate in that?

I follow him on Instagram. He does not appear to be in NYC - and haven’t for a while. Ad may have been abandoned. Spotted him on Seeking Arrangements in LA so... ??‍♂️

Yes, please!

Sorry, I could not resist... ?

Fine, I admit it - it’s my guilty pleasure to read the profiles and look at the photos. ? I can usually get a good chuckle out of some of the more extravagant expectations. (And some days it is a little sad to see the truly desperate - a good remind of how lucky I really am.) It is quite interesting to shift locations and see how the expectations realign. ??‍♂️ I do use the filter function on the site so messages from outside my city never end up in my inbox.

Not at all - be respectful but direct: I enjoyed your pics - are you currently clean shaven?

Dear Calvin Klein. We know you have a handsome model boyfriend. We are cool with that. ? Post Script - Does he have any cute friends??? Post Post Script - Love what you have done to your bathroom...is that calacatta marble?? ☺️

“What began as a purely physical exploration deepened beyond merely extended orgasms and progressed from a robust physical relationship that included experimentation and shared fullfullment to an ongoing journey.”

Once there is a vaccine i will be ready to resume life as I remember it. May give it a week or so to kick in. ? I suppose we should consider the possibility that you will need more than one jab over a period of time to be vaccinated, but I will cross that bridge when I get to it. Dr Fauchi will keep us in the loop. ?

Would be helpful if you included a location (NYC, LA etc) and a link to his ad if he is new, or comment on an existing thread if he is not new. Is this him? https://rentmasseur.com/Danielle

Sounds delightful! ??

I've seen his pics before - I am pretty sure he was discussed under a different name...

Fight club rules apply. ?

Previous thread here - used to go by "Gavin": https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/gavin-visiting-dc-from-nyc.156578/