FrankR

There is no hard and fast rule. You have the option to tip but you are under no obligation to tip. I choose to tip for good service. My go-to guy knows that I tip so he takes good care of me. We both win. ?

You are thinking “contained but not restrained”! ?

Most of my friends (I asked!) sleep in boxers - not briefs. They claim they like to be “contained but not restricted”!!! ??

He is a member of the forum. His comments here have always been reasonable. It sounds like you are looking for a sensual massage - he appears to offer a therapeutic and erotic massage. You may be talking past each other as you are looking for something different/in the middle - it does happen. ??‍♂️

I am the same way. Have seen a few cases where I declined and the provider asked me what my usual rate is - I provide that information freely but am unlikely to hire him after we had this discussion. Service will almost always be subpar.

Goes by DriverX on rentmen https://rentmen.eu/DRIVERX where he has 35 good reviews over the past 5 year. Have been using the same photos - at the very least verify that he still looks like the pics. Previously discussed here:https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-driverx-aka-sebastian.125562/

From your posting history, I can tell two things: 1. We have similar tastes in men. 2. You are hard to please! ?

I am not an escort and mainly hire for massage - which makes it easier to manage time on the clock, I think. We all have our limits on what is reasonable. In your example I would be happy to pay for his time from the moment he walks in the door. But where do most guys draw the line? I know where I draw the line and let’s be honest, the tip I offer will reflect the overall experience. A few minutes to sip wine? No problem. If I offer him dinner afterwards - I will gladly pay for the meal, but not for his time; everybody has to make time to eat. He can decline, of course. If he takes a quick shower after, no problem paying him for that time. If he wants to enjoy a long shower or a bath, I am not gonna pay him for that time. Do what works for you - just be clear with the guy on what you are willing to pay for. The next time you see him you will likely say: “let’s take our wine to the bedroom” after pouring and short circuit some of the...”non productive” time. (Or just offer water!) The risk the provider runs is thay you are so put off by his “by the book, by the hour” approach that you won’t hire him again. It is pretty easy to spot the keepers that I will hire again and again!

It is my understanding that some overseas pharmacies like https://viabestbuys.com/ do not require a prescription. You can also get it rather cheap in the USA if you go to goodRX etc. Highly recommend that you speak to a physician before you order something that may not agree with you or have a bad interaction with existing medication/medical condition. ?

Some may think it is worth the money and effort to spend $90 for a couple of months to develop a pipeline of hot young guys to develop arrangements with. There is something to be said for the thrill of the chase. It's not everyone's cup of tea, but if it makes you happy... ?

I believe wearing underwear under your pajamas is illegal in most states...or it should be! ?

I have seen a few on seeking in NYC. Self declared college athletes - whether they are being truthful is of course to be determined. Interestingly enough, i have seen a great number of fresh faces on mintboys and friendboy.pro when I window shopped this past weekend. Some appear very athletic. ?

He has been discusses a lot. Please use the search function at the top of the page. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-alejandro-nyc.158028/post-1927500

Uncle Sam will want his cut... ??‍♂️

If they have their act together, they should send a 1099-C. The remaining 80c on the dollar in my example would be considered taxable when they cancel the debt.

You betcha! This thread reminds me of a paint job that went off the rails pretty quickly. Guy showed up to paint a few rooms. He noticed the massage table and asked in an adorably shy way if I am a therapist. No sir - but I have skills! ? I agreed to give him a rub if he showered first - I know, i am a dirty old man! ? Massage went as expected until he turned over onto his back. I was hard. He was harder! One thing led to another. From what I recall he stopped by at least 3 times after that to “touch up” the paint job! ??

Well he is not in DC. I guess he travels. ??‍♂️

Why the new thread? He already has more than one thread with a number of flattering comments; some of them from you.

Yes, I have helped a few people with this. These agencies buy the bad debt for pennies on the dollar and then try to recover the funds. That is how they make money. They can be mean and threatening - call at the most inconvenient times or even contact your family to embaress you into paying. I could write a book on this. My suggestion: 1. Save 20c for each dollar owed on the original debt. They will try to add all kinds of interest - ignore it; its all a ploy to get more money out of you. 2. Wait until the last 3 days of the month when they are desperate to collect. 3. Offer them 20c on the dollar to be sent via wire but ONLY if they send you a written agreement BEFORE you send the money, that they are accepting the 20c on the dollar as full payment for the entire outstanding debt. 4. Keep that agreement until the day you die - as sure as I draw breath they will come back later and try to collect more. They cannot be trusted. 5. If they won't take it this month, tell them you are broke and can't pay the full amount. Try again next month by calling them the last 3 days of the month. 6. Never give them electronic access to your bank account - once they have it they will keep pulling money. Only pay via wire - never give them your account number. Ever. Keep in mind that the statute of limitations on the period that a debt can sue a borrower - it is 6 years in most States (check yours). If the debt is more than six years old, they can't sue even if they threaten to. Always consult with legal council if they threaten to sue. ?

This is a good idea - doesn't always work; most sites now require 4 key items to process a transaction: card number, name on card, address associated to card and 3 digit code on the back of the card. A purchased gift card won't have a name on the card or an address associated. ?

Those that are healthy should get the flu shot. Not just for their own protection, but also the protection of others. It is easy to forget that there are many people in our society that are in fact frail and cannot take the flu shot. By taking it, you are protecting them. The needs of the many...

To be fair, Bill Maher does look at the other side of the coin as well. Even if he throws in a little satire.

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