FrankR

He used to go by PeterSan. ??‍♂️

That depends on a few things. 1. What is the provider’s usual rate? If he charges $450 and routinely get that, he is unlikely to accept your proposal. If his usual rate is $300 - he may find it acceptable. 2. What expectations do you assign to the items listed in his profile? Or the pics posted? you expect him to spend an hour at the gym and get pumped up like his pics before your meet or should he just be generally in the same shape? More time and effort to look exactly right and do exactly the right things could be daunting. 3.The manner in which you communicate. If you can find a way to convey your proposal in a respectful and low key way, he may accept. If you come across as demanding and high maintenance, he is unlikely to accept.

Right! I though so too - figured he would mature over time and gain some wisdom on that front, but I keep hearing and reading that the experience is hit or miss. A shame really... ?

Indeed, there are a number of fresh faces on mintboys and friendboy.pro - I did some window shopping a week ago out of curiosity. I am not surprises by this, or the possibility of rough trade at the park...

You can also check out Double Scorpio http://doublescorpio.com/. @Eric Hassan once recommended it to me. USA based.

Was the meal any good? ?

Very true - it is a choice. If you choose not to take the flu vaccine, I will respect your right to choice. Even if that is a bad choice. I hope you respect my right to ridicule those that do make that choice, based on the science involved?

At this point the science is pretty clear. The death rate is known. Masks have proven to be effective in limiting the spread. Most air purifiers off the shelf are not HEPA compliant so wont help you much. Those that are, are expensive and require frequent maintenance. You are not just making the judgement for yourself but also those around you that you could infect. The masseur could be infected, regardless of how clean he is.

There are a couple of threads on him already and most include favorable comments. Have you reviewed them? (Example below) If you need more detail, perhaps a better approach would be to reach out directly to those that have seen him in the past two years and ask - they may not see this thread... https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-anexoticcarl-new-to-sf.148648/

I enjoyed the series years ago. There is a follow up series called The Legend of Korra. Was a little confusing to learn that there are also “metal benders”, “blood benders” and “lava benders”. I am more of a dick bender myself - i can make them move; even grow without touching ‘em!! ?

Disturbing indeed. By the way, you shouldn’t flush condoms - they should not go into the septic system. (I am not a plumber but I am...good with pipes!!) ? I’ve been told that you should wrap used condoms in tissue paper and put them in the trash. Perhaps they are combing landfills to locate these condoms? ?

I repeat: My barber is a business owner with his own studio. When I visit I choose to pay the fee for service and tip as well. It is optional and my choice. Same as a visit to a masseur. If you don’t want to tip - then don’t.

There is no hard and fast rule. You have the option to tip but you are under no obligation to tip. I choose to tip for good service. My go-to guy knows that I tip so he takes good care of me. We both win. ?

You are thinking “contained but not restrained”! ?

Most of my friends (I asked!) sleep in boxers - not briefs. They claim they like to be “contained but not restricted”!!! ??

He is a member of the forum. His comments here have always been reasonable. It sounds like you are looking for a sensual massage - he appears to offer a therapeutic and erotic massage. You may be talking past each other as you are looking for something different/in the middle - it does happen. ??‍♂️

I am the same way. Have seen a few cases where I declined and the provider asked me what my usual rate is - I provide that information freely but am unlikely to hire him after we had this discussion. Service will almost always be subpar.

Goes by DriverX on rentmen https://rentmen.eu/DRIVERX where he has 35 good reviews over the past 5 year. Have been using the same photos - at the very least verify that he still looks like the pics. Previously discussed here:https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-driverx-aka-sebastian.125562/

From your posting history, I can tell two things: 1. We have similar tastes in men. 2. You are hard to please! ?

I am not an escort and mainly hire for massage - which makes it easier to manage time on the clock, I think. We all have our limits on what is reasonable. In your example I would be happy to pay for his time from the moment he walks in the door. But where do most guys draw the line? I know where I draw the line and let’s be honest, the tip I offer will reflect the overall experience. A few minutes to sip wine? No problem. If I offer him dinner afterwards - I will gladly pay for the meal, but not for his time; everybody has to make time to eat. He can decline, of course. If he takes a quick shower after, no problem paying him for that time. If he wants to enjoy a long shower or a bath, I am not gonna pay him for that time. Do what works for you - just be clear with the guy on what you are willing to pay for. The next time you see him you will likely say: “let’s take our wine to the bedroom” after pouring and short circuit some of the...”non productive” time. (Or just offer water!) The risk the provider runs is thay you are so put off by his “by the book, by the hour” approach that you won’t hire him again. It is pretty easy to spot the keepers that I will hire again and again!

It is my understanding that some overseas pharmacies like https://viabestbuys.com/ do not require a prescription. You can also get it rather cheap in the USA if you go to goodRX etc. Highly recommend that you speak to a physician before you order something that may not agree with you or have a bad interaction with existing medication/medical condition. ?

Some may think it is worth the money and effort to spend $90 for a couple of months to develop a pipeline of hot young guys to develop arrangements with. There is something to be said for the thrill of the chase. It's not everyone's cup of tea, but if it makes you happy... ?

I believe wearing underwear under your pajamas is illegal in most states...or it should be! ?

I have seen a few on seeking in NYC. Self declared college athletes - whether they are being truthful is of course to be determined. Interestingly enough, i have seen a great number of fresh faces on mintboys and friendboy.pro when I window shopped this past weekend. Some appear very athletic. ?